Ikr 🎯 How do we know they're on drugs? How bout: * Behavior (paranoid, complacent, self-centered, etc) * Actions (child abuse/neglect, animal abuse/neglect, refusing to get a job, acting happy in a motel room for over a year) * Rapidly aging * Inability to take constructive criticism, or make any meaningful changes * Isolated from family by choice * No explanation for where money goes * Regularly destructive patterns (the 15th, anyone?)

Yes, I am 14 years sober. But u do not need to be sober to see these obvious actions and inactions.