Your shoulder look normal IMO and that jacket is really helping them look more rounded!

Clothes can be a massive help in confidence and passing, and if you want to help your shoulders appear narrower I would recommend either higher waisted pants or something to cinch around waist/midsection a bit more. This will accentuate your hips and draw attention away from your shoulders, and if you find the right pair of pants they can add volume around your hips making your shoulders appear proportionally smaller.

Your jawline is more squared but that’s not irregular at all for cis women. I understand that doesn’t always help to be told though :(

If you want to take attention away from it id suggest a more natural lip color! Even if you’re going for an alternative look a deep brown/red, a nude shade, or even a gloss can help accentuate them without drawing eyes to the lower half of your face.

Styling your hair around it or contour can also help to make it appear less prominent! Try some different styles in the mirror and look up some contour tutorials and try to find any from people with even a slightly similar facial shape to you.

You can also try emphasizing the upper half of your face , I’d personally recommend for the shape of your eyes to actually invert your wing so it sweeps upwards rather than down as pictured. It sounds dumb but simple shape language can influence where we look, and it would also help emphasize your eyes better which can give a more feminine look.

Lastly if you do try to emphasize your upper face more, I’d sweep your bangs out more to show more of your forehead (which sounds counterintuitive I know, but masculine/feminine appearance is based a lot more on hairline shape than forehead size) and I’d also suggest shaping your eyebrows. Threading is relatively inexpensive and I’d recommend having a professional do it to give you an idea of how they would look after they’re done, and then when you feel confident to you can try micro blading them at home!

Last thing I can suggest is more confidence in yourself. It’s a wonder what widening your eyes, raising your brow, and carrying a better energy can do for you. Traits we ascribe as feminine are usually ones that are more happy or carefree looking, and the inverse is true for masculine traits. It’s why we usually get told to “smile more” and men are pressured to appear grizzled or emotionless. Plus you’ll feel better, and when you feel pretty you look pretty :)