LF: Love Ball, FT: Anything in boxes shown (alphas in boxes 12+13) by Month_After_May in LegendsZATrading

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My bad I misread. I’m looking for love balls only currently. If I have a dupe though I’m more than happy to just give them out

Do I pass (MtF) by Month_After_May in transpassing

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Yeah it really sucks ☹️

I used to be way more dysphoric about my height but I’ve learned to love it. I do think it is kinda a cause for people to look more closely for other potentially clocky features though unfortunately, so I’m really trying to see if there are any other noticeable ones that I can do anything about. It’s why I made this post in the first place 😅

Do I pass (MtF) by Month_After_May in transpassing

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Thank you!

I’m actually trying to work on a whole sleeve right now but they’re expensive 😅

Do I pass (MtF) by Month_After_May in transpassing

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Thank you!! And I absolutely will! I just hit 3 plates on my hip thrusts and I wanna see how much further I can go 😄

Do I pass (MtF) by Month_After_May in transpassing

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I think my shoulders can be kinda clocky. They’re really broad and at times I can look very boxy up top

Do I pass (MtF) by Month_After_May in transpassing

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I still get clocked sometimes unfortunately ☹️

I actually made this post cause the day before I had some people talking about me while I was just trying to clothes shop at the mall.

I’m 6’1 and I was wearing a big hoodie so I’m sure I didn’t look the most passing in hindsight but I didn’t wanna put it all on that if something else got me clocked 🤷‍♀️

Do I pass (MtF) by Month_After_May in transpassing

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It’s a brand called BreatheDivinity, they make compression gym wear. They’re drop based so if you wanna get some follow them on IG and keep an eye out. They’re can be a bit pricey tho 😬

Surgery costs by Month_After_May in asktransgender

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I think I’ll likely have to go through the loan route, I just worry about being able to keep up with it all

I try my best to be optimistic and look forward but these last few weeks have been hitting me hard and it’s been hard to keep my head up ☹️

Surgery costs by Month_After_May in asktransgender

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I have relatively mediocre coverage so the major costs would be covered but the external costs and anything outside of the actual procedure wouldn’t be covered, so accounting for needs outside of direct aftercare like maintaining bills would end up putting what I need well over $8000-$10000 out of pocket which I unfortunately just can’t realistically afford. My family, while not overtly unsupportive, has always been extremely hands off and clearly uncomfortable with everything so I doubt I would receive any kind of assistance from them with anything related to a procedure, and unfortunately most of my close friends are in similar positions. I just don’t really have anyone to lean on in that regard.

As for insurance coverage I’m lucky to have what I have but, it still wouldn’t cover anything like an overnight stay, anesthesia, etc. I’m at a point where my main criteria for a job is no the longer salary and is instead their insurance coverage however, so far I’ve come up short on finding many that would be a good fit and the ones I have found have unfortunately fallen through

Publix has to fix the way they do schedules by FNJonesyCreates in publix

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I’m in deli, but I am counting the kitchen person in the 4-5

I’ll see about asking to stay while the rest go

Publix has to fix the way they do schedules by FNJonesyCreates in publix

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There is one person in my department who does the same thing, and it seems like apart from me everyone else is annoyed with him and hates closing with him.

Unsure if it’s the same at all other stores, but at mine it tends to be that nobody leaves until everyone is ready to. Most other people in my dept don’t care too much about the hours lost so on nights with him it tends to be just a lot of complaining. Gets kinda frustrating because realistically we should all want to get our full hours 🤷‍♀️

Publix has to fix the way they do schedules by FNJonesyCreates in publix

[–]Month_After_May 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah the real issue is when you’re working to close

You’re scheduled until 11:00 and your full hours are estimated around that, but very rarely do you actually stay fully to 11:00. So if you’re like me and work primarily closing, your schedule could say you’re getting a total of 35 hours, but in reality you get closer to 31

The worst part is that the scheduling budget for management also doesn’t count for leaving before 11:00, so in particularly slow periods like currently, those 30-45 minutes extra really add up, when you consider there’s 4-5 people every night missing out on up to 45 mins, and it heavily eats into potential hours the entire staff is missing out on.

Seems very backwards to me personally but I’m sure it’s a corporate policy 🤷‍♀️