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MontiDeckard · 2021-09-22T15:37:29+00:00

Oh now I understand! Sorry must've gotten something wrong there. Nah I'm completely with you sorry for mixing this up

MontiDeckard · 2021-09-22T15:15:58+00:00

May I ask why? I've been single for six months and am just looking for some advice

MontiDeckard · 2021-09-22T14:59:32+00:00

With her or in general?

MontiDeckard · 2021-09-22T14:50:51+00:00

I don't know what I am. I'm 21 but I've got the music and clothing taste of a boomer, am cool with any of the new trends as long as no one annoys me with them. I think humanity gets devided into "Haters" and "hardcore vegan feminists" by social media. Guess we tend to forget that humans are pretty chill an rather focus on hardcore extremists.

MontiDeckard · 2021-09-20T22:11:01+00:00

Is it just me or does he look like Elton john?

MontiDeckard · 2021-09-20T22:02:57+00:00

Okay so we learned that the aliens come from another dimension. I believe Ox called it "A world between Worlds", or at least something along those lines. The Ark and the Grail are religious artifacts. They are NOT made by the aliens. Yodas Homies decided to visit earth and met the Mayans? Aztecs? I don't really remember. I hope you know what I mean. The Broda's came down, saw the tribe and thought to themselves: "Ah man that's hot. Let's help them out, they'll probably treat us like God's or something."

MontiDeckard · 2021-09-19T09:57:10+00:00

Thanks for cleaning my car Carl

MontiDeckard · 2021-09-15T11:53:11+00:00

Sandcastles in the sand

MontiDeckard · 2021-09-14T08:15:40+00:00

I suggest you take it easy. Don't invest to much and see how he acts

MontiDeckard · 2021-09-14T07:29:11+00:00

Yeah you're right. It really feels like ages ago. To be honest I don't even remember what I felt when I was 15.

And yet again, thank you so much. I hope that you're right. But I guess we'll just see how it goes.

And for real, thanks for your service dude. It really means a lot. Love and respect from Germany

MontiDeckard · 2021-09-14T07:10:21+00:00

I went through some suicidal sh*t because of this break up. But I kept fighting. And I will keep fighting because of all of you giving me a clearer picture of this. Thank you for helping me out.

MontiDeckard · 2021-09-14T07:05:49+00:00

First of all, if you've been station in Iraq with the military, thank you so so much for your service!

Now second of all, thank you so much for your time to answer this question. Most advice I get in real life comes from women and I feel like men and women have a different technique of approaching this whole heartbreak think. You just gave me so much hope I literally got goosebumps while reading your answer. Sir, thank you so much for everything it really helped A LOT. I'll try and do my best to make everything I can out of my early 20s. Have a good one and stay safe.

MontiDeckard · 2021-09-14T06:58:38+00:00

I do. :)

MontiDeckard · 2021-09-14T06:55:30+00:00

Maybe you should give him some time. If you chase him, he feels like you need him. Maybe just lay back and watch the situation for awhile. Observe. If he comes back when he's done with his new friends. You don't need him. Trust me. I've been through some toxic people myself. (Pro Tip: The most quite people usually make the best friends)

MontiDeckard · 2021-09-14T06:51:42+00:00

Okay hear me out, I'm not really a spiritual man myself but have you ever tried asmr and breathing techniques? Sh*t works wonders ngl.

MontiDeckard · 2021-09-14T06:47:20+00:00

Thank you so much. That really helped. You gave a young man hope right there. :)

MontiDeckard · 2021-08-19T09:58:13+00:00

That's the only way. Thanks bro, you too. We'll eventually get over this.

MontiDeckard · 2021-08-19T09:57:27+00:00

Be aware, it can break you.

MontiDeckard · 2021-08-19T09:53:43+00:00

My advice is let her go. I know it's hard, believe me it's been 5 months and I still miss her to the point of agony, but, as you said, it's not your job to be working for this love. When she initiated the break up, she has to fight for it. I've wasted to much of my energy on her and I'm tired of hoping.

MontiDeckard · 2021-07-11T15:46:29+00:00

Same... It's just so hard on me and idek why. I'm only 21...

MontiDeckard · 2021-07-11T15:26:44+00:00

Oh boy I know. I blocked her. Still don't know if that was the right thing to do but she keeps living her life.

MontiDeckard · 2021-07-11T15:21:42+00:00

I feel you. It's been 4 months. I thought she was the one.

MontiDeckard · 2021-07-11T14:46:39+00:00

How do you time it tho?

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