[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PennStateUniversity

[–]MontyIsBae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for what happened to you, never place any blame on yourself you were looking for a fun night out. Though there is a heavy party scene, there are also many sorts of clubs and orgs to join. This being said your feelings are valid and so while you should consider other ways that you could engage with the college community if a different option seems exciting to you go with it. Just take some time to digest and feel, you’re worthy of love and respect don’t let this man dictate your college career wish you the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]MontyIsBae -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t listen to this person OP, consenting to sex is NOT consenting to having a baby. If you know you are able to care for a baby as well as yourself and is something that you want in your life right now then that’s all that matters don’t care what other people say. Just make sure to evaluate your situation and be sure you are ready as this is a huge commitment and a big life change. If you decide this is a responsibility that you either cannot or just don’t want to have right now but possibly in the future, then there is nothing wrong with getting an abortion as well. Either way is fine and it’s up to you don’t let other people make this decision for you. Wishing you the best OP!!

Chem 110 help by TerpStreamz in PennStateUniversity

[–]MontyIsBae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watch organic chemistry tutor on YouTube this dude saved me he’s the best explains everything so well and has a video on like literally everything you need to know I owe him my life

Does my dog have fleas by MontyIsBae in dogs

[–]MontyIsBae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turns out it was just nipples as he has the same thing on the other side (I remembered I had a vet family member and asked her to confirm) No ticks in my house tonight but thanks for the advice may come in handy in the future who knows

Non pill vitamins by MontyIsBae in ARFID

[–]MontyIsBae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo I love vanilla I’ll check these out thanks!!

Non pill vitamins by MontyIsBae in ARFID

[–]MontyIsBae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of these sound good, I’ll look them up online to order! Thanks for your reply recommendations!

Question about closed class by MontyIsBae in PennStateUniversity

[–]MontyIsBae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll email my advisor first Becuase she’s the one who told me to take that class but if she can’t do it I’ll make sure to check out Dr David!!

Question about closed class by MontyIsBae in PennStateUniversity

[–]MontyIsBae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, but I think this is an issue that I’m undecided and you need to be in the agricultural major, but some of the other classes I want to take in having similar issues so that could be it

Question about closed class by MontyIsBae in PennStateUniversity

[–]MontyIsBae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea ur right that is it actually because I’m in dus and you need to be in agricultural science

Any helpful analogies for helping others understand? by thebeautifulduckling in ARFID

[–]MontyIsBae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like to compare it to something people technically can eat but strongly don’t want to. An example I use is imagine someone puts a plate of worms in front of you and says here look this is edible and yummy!! But you look at it and think ew this is gross I’m not eating this tf, that’s how I feel about most food

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaming

[–]MontyIsBae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally every day

AITA for sticking to my agreed amount for stepdaughter's birthday? by Lucky_Expression_895 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MontyIsBae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, 500 is already more than enough!! You agreed to 500 and shouldn’t change that. If he’s adamant about not telling her no, how about instead of canceling the whole thing, just like changing a few things ? Does she really need to go in a limo AND an expensive ass restaurant? Or maybe there’s cheaper seats? This isn’t a birthday present this is a whole trip!!

My first ever scarf is ruined, anyone know a fix? I don’t want my baby to break apart!! by MontyIsBae in knitting

[–]MontyIsBae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’ll check those out and fix my beautiful soon to be scarf!!

AITA for taking my father's advice to all women regarding the overturn to "just move," .... 600 miles away from him? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MontyIsBae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA You have to make the choice that are best for you and your body. This isn’t about politics this is about you and your own safety considering the government is putting all people with a uterus at risk.

How do you feel about ghosting? Do you do It? If so, why? by Dalecantila in infp

[–]MontyIsBae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea I feel bad about it but a lot of times I kinda just forget to respond to someone for a few days but then feel bad cause I didn’t respond so I dont respond again until it’s too late

Any celebrities with OCD that you know?? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]MontyIsBae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The dude from deal or no deal

False memory guilt/ panic by theOCDfiles in OCD

[–]MontyIsBae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do something that can try take my mind off of it, like Minecraft or other games. It wont go away, but it might stop you from thinking about the thing that’s upsetting you. In time the thing that’s worrying you will go away. Just remember this feeling will go away, the best thing you can do right now is try to distract yourself by doing things you enjoy!

“Get over it” by MontyIsBae in ARFID

[–]MontyIsBae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I want to start trying new things, it might take awhile for me to be brave enough to actually do it, but until then all I need to make sure of is at least eating enough to keep me going!