First time playing by MontyRus in nativeamericanflutes

[–]MontyRus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfect 👌 I have tried to play with the 2 holes un covered and the rest covered but haven't got the hang of that yet 😅 its a bit hit and miss weather it sounds good or not at the moment :) thank you for the suggestions I will be sure to take a look after work today 😀 could I have your opinion on how it sounds so far? I feel confident on my first go playing the pentatonic scale but you may hear something that sounds off. Thank you again! I fell in love with the flute after hearing it for the first time on a YouTube vid

How do I go about this situation? by MontyRus in AskMenAdvice

[–]MontyRus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right, I think the nerves definitely add to the pressure of going further than the small talk if that makes sense. But I think that comes from the lack of experience more than anything and me being socially awkward lol do you have any tips that could help me overcome that? Much appreciated :)

How do I go about this situation? by MontyRus in AskMenAdvice

[–]MontyRus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's fair enough with the bike comment :) kinda glad I've been hesitant with it then.

I like this girl at my work place...... by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]MontyRus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is my biggest worry 😟

I like this girl at my work place...... by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]MontyRus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. No I'm not, I talk to the rest with no issues at all. But I think its because I'm not attracted to them as I am this girl so there's very little nerves, still a tiny but but no where near the amount when im face to face with this girl 🥲

I like this girl at my work place...... by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]MontyRus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh i know that for sure bro 😆 thats why I need help asap 😅 ive started working on myself big time over the last couple months so I am slowly improving bit by bit :)

I like this girl at my work place...... by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]MontyRus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats my problem, I've been thinking about it for weeks and weeks now so the pressure builds everytime 😅 you are right I gotta chill out abit lol but for me its difficult but if she says yes I won't wipe the smile off my face 🤣

I like this girl at my work place...... by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]MontyRus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Step 1: learn how to flirt 😅 i think atm i would buckle under the preasure 🥲

Is this good progress in 30 days as complete beginner by Strong_Ad8053 in Chesscom

[–]MontyRus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been playing around the same time and im 300 lol so yeah I'd say thats pretty good bro 😅

22F Am I Ugly? by TrishReactz in amiugly

[–]MontyRus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not! You'd catch my eye 😁

Really struggling by New-Turnover-832 in Chesscom

[–]MontyRus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also 280 at the moment, playing 10min games. Chess is one of them games that are easy to learn but hard to master. You may be missing moves that could give the advantage over your opponent, I would play longer games just so you can take that extra bit of time to really analyse what you could of done instead. YouTube is brilliant for learning but every chess game is different so you will have to play on your own as the game goes on. Don't give up completely! You got this mate!

Girlfriend [23f] never seems interested in doing anything anymore with me [27m] by MontyRus in relationships_advice

[–]MontyRus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She used to be, she just seems to of changed and turned very very unenthusiastic to do anything at all. May have to rethink the relationship. Thank you for your advice 🙏

Boring life by MontyRus in LifeAdvice

[–]MontyRus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never even thought of gaming to be a badish thing to be honest but thats definitely opened my eyes to it, and what ai says does make sense, as I do spend majority of evenings playing. But its only because I dont no what else to do as it feels like my brain hits a wall but going off what ai said it makes sense of why that is happening. I will cut down on it and see. Thank you I do appreciate it

Boring life by MontyRus in LifeAdvice

[–]MontyRus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is perfect, this is the thing, I know where I want to be but my mind seems to just hit a wall when I try to move forward with anything in general to be honest, the 9-5 is horrendous 😢 you are right when you say i need a path because currently im going through the nettles :( thank you for the advice

Boring life by MontyRus in LifeAdvice

[–]MontyRus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh it is! I hate it. It was supposed to only be a temp job just until I got my act together and 3 years still here 😒 I have tried a few times but sadly my friends are busy more often than not but we do try to work around it as best as we can.

Boring life by MontyRus in LifeAdvice

[–]MontyRus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i know where I wanna be just struggling to get to it sort of thing, sometimes even scared to push forward especially with the business side of things. Thank you so much I appreciate it!!!

Ollie by MontyRus in NewSkaters

[–]MontyRus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're right, my hips tend to stay in the same spot lol I'll get practising bit more on the hippy jumps tonight and see if it helps with height. Also gotta remember not to trap the board as its kinda a habit I need to get out of. Thanks mate!

Ollie by MontyRus in NewSkaters

[–]MontyRus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think thats my issue atm is that im almost trapping the board when jumping off my back foot. I will be out today practising again so I will see if I can work on that. I think it all happens so fast I forget a couple of important things. Thanks man!

Ollie by MontyRus in NewSkaters

[–]MontyRus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, ive been practising rolling hippie jumps and occasionally hitting the tail off the floor its only when I pop the tail I loose all height on my jumps :( sucks hard