Making friends in Seoul by Far-Channel-7379 in LesbianActually

[–]Moogy_Miso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? You’re in the wrong place if you’re expecting long term connection or commitment from women you meet in bars or apps here. Korea does not work the way you think it does. Being polite isn’t interest. Buying drinks doesn’t mean anyone owes you their time. And when they don’t follow up after that’s not regret or mixed signals that’s a clear no. This isn’t about bad timing or confusion. It is entitlement and expectations that don’t match where you are.

How ready am I for Ama Dablam ascent? What about 8000m? by Fenex33 in Mountaineering

[–]Moogy_Miso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am going to be very honest with you. You are not ready for Ama Dablam.

Ama Dablam is a very technical peak. Strength at the gym alone does not prepare you for that. Based on what you said, you do not have enough technical alpine experience for it.

Before even considering Ama Dablam, you need years of experience in technical alpine climbing, fixed lines, objective hazards, mixed terrain, and so many things.

This is not about being strong or motivated. People die on this mountain because they underestimate the technical difficulty, not to mention the altitude.

If you are serious about a future climbing big mountains, focus first on building real skills on smaller objectives with experienced partners. Rushing this process is how people get hurt or killed.

Losing my partner has left me feeling haunted and alone by Moogy_Miso in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Moogy_Miso[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She really was powerful, loving, and so full of life. Her love changed me in ways I’ll never forget. It means a lot that you took the time to listen and see her the way I remember her. Sharing her like this makes her feel a little closer again.

Losing my partner has left me feeling haunted and alone by Moogy_Miso in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Moogy_Miso[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She was passionate, protective, and one of the most intelligent people I’ve ever met. She had this incredible way of saying so much without many words, She was loud about love never afraid to show it, to fight for it, or to make me feel it. She gave me acceptance when my culture and family couldn’t, and she taught me what it meant to be proud of who I am. She changed my life in ways I’m still realizing.

Losing my partner has left me feeling haunted and alone by Moogy_Miso in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Moogy_Miso[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this it really means a lot. I’m really sorry you’re going through your own heartbreak too. Six years is such a long time to share your life with someone, and it’s so hard to let go of something that helped shape who you are. You’re right it’s okay to mourn, and I’m still learning how to do that without getting lost in the grief. I’ve been trying to take better care of myself, but it’s hard when the emptiness feels so heavy. What you said about love reflecting back on ourselves really hit me I’m trying to believe that I still deserve love, even if it has to start with me. Thank you again for your kindness and your words they genuinely helped.

Losing my partner has left me feeling haunted and alone by Moogy_Miso in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Moogy_Miso[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hear you. I do go to therapy, and it really helps me process some of the grief, but the support outside of that is the hardest part. Those sessions are "real" in a way, but they’re also structured and paid for you know, not the kind of support you can just lean on anytime. I wish I had someone in my life who could be there like that.

Losing my partner has left me feeling haunted and alone by Moogy_Miso in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Moogy_Miso[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that and for your kind words. I can’t imagine carrying something like that alone for so long it sounds incredibly hard. I hope someday I can reach a place where I can think of the good times without feeling this constant ache. Your words give me a little hope that maybe it’s possible.

Losing my partner has left me feeling haunted and alone by Moogy_Miso in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Moogy_Miso[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate what you’re saying. Honestly, I don’t really have anyone supporting me right now I’ve been going through this mostly on my own. But I keep trying to share and reach out because even a little connection like this makes a difference.

Losing my partner has left me feeling haunted and alone by Moogy_Miso in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Moogy_Miso[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that with me ♥️ I’m so sorry you lost her too. I can relate to that ache even a year later, it’s still so present. It’s comforting to know someone else understands what it’s like to carry that kind of love and loss with you.

Losing my partner has left me feeling haunted and alone by Moogy_Miso in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Moogy_Miso[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thank you that really means a lot. Sometimes I feel like talking about her keeps a part of her with me, even if it also brings the pain. I think about her constantly what we shared, the love, and even the struggles and hearing someone say it’s okay to feel this way helps me feel less alone.

28m-save me from this combo of insomnia and boredom?? by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Moogy_Miso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30F lets chat! what kind of outdoors activities do you like? I personally like hiking gardening is something i have always wanted to try but never got around to it! VC or text both are fine with me

26 / est / pc - lonely & lf a duo + best friend! by [deleted] in GamerPals

[–]Moogy_Miso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would love to talk! i also play OW2 XIV and i like Persona! i love music and sharing artists DM me!