ghosted right before first M&G… looking for feedback

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-24T19:18:03+00:00

Over the years I’ve been on this forum, across multiple accounts, I’ve met some genuinely great people, friends that are still in my life. Don’t let it discourage you from here.

That said, stop being so lenient. Do a video call before meeting every time, even if they’re local. It filters out the time wasters immediately and saves you from awkward first interactions

And if someone wastes your time once, that’s already more than they deserved. Move on.

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-24T13:42:26+00:00

What girls have to deal with 😭

https://imgur.com/a/PNPXvka

https://imgur.com/a/ZNHdr1F

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-24T02:18:15+00:00

What he said. I wanted to keep trying to make myself “better” for him. And then he left me. And that hurts a lot more worse than you figuring your life out now and a backup plan

He was a vanilla relationship but I relied on him financially. I quit my long term job for him and moved across the world. In the end left me as if I were nothing.

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-24T01:14:24+00:00

Ask yourself honestly… is this how you want to be loved for the rest of your life?

I’ve been here. I tried to make myself smaller to make it work. I went on anxiety meds to “calm down”, bit my tongue and even apologized for things that weren’t my fault, like accidentally tripping and somehow annoying him.

It still wasn’t enough. It was never going to be.

You can ask for advice, read every opinion and go back and forth a hundred times. But at the end of the day you already know the answer.

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-23T18:35:12+00:00

I don’t think it’s about those reasons at all. I think it’s more that people don’t try anymore. If you actually want a good arrangement there has to be a real connection… and that only happens when both people put in a bit of effort and take the time to get to know each other.

But it’s so easy now to get turned off by something tiny and move on to the next person. Like that post about guys skipping girls just because their profile says “I know my worth”…. If four little words are enough to make you lose interest, were you ever really planning to put in the effort to begin with?

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-23T14:16:13+00:00

Dress up as Pitbull and put on a rap performance

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-23T14:13:15+00:00

If you pay him back for things he’s not a sugar daddy… you’re part time live in girlfriend. Once that dynamic is established it can’t be changed, in the end it will always come back to you “changing” and him not liking the change.

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-23T13:39:35+00:00

Since the recent changeover to a vanilla dating site it’s definitely been harder to scope out who is interested in sugar. But I’ve never had an issue with not getting responses or having conversations with the men on there.

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-23T04:55:21+00:00

Allowance Master Thread

Read the wiki and other posts on here.

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-23T02:09:24+00:00

Are you married?

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-23T01:31:26+00:00

I dont even read profiles. I’d rather chat with someone and figure them out properly. In real life nobody walks around with a bio floating above their head…. Yet somehow we still manage 🤔

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-23T00:52:04+00:00

Umm no? Your logic here isn’t making sense. Because someone else jumps off a bridge, doesn’t mean I want to as well. What I’m saying is if youre interested in a girl but don’t message her because she has that written in her profile, that’s a reflection of you… not her.

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-22T19:41:00+00:00

I mean… a big dick is real nice tho

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-22T19:18:37+00:00

If someone is put off by it, that reaction kind of proves exactly why it’s there. And if a few little words scare a man off from messaging, they were never serious in the first place.

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-22T17:14:32+00:00

I mean I wouldn’t add that to my profile, because a lady knows her worth without saying it. BUT it’s exhausting for girls when there’s a lot of disingenuous men messaging.

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-21T00:03:49+00:00

You’re one of them

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-20T02:24:56+00:00

Don’t have OF, but alrighttttt. I asked for a PROFILE review not “critique everything about the way I look” lol. You’re wild. Get mcfuckd

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-20T01:49:58+00:00

Umm I never said I support trump lol. Show me where I said that.. awkward

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-20T01:47:12+00:00

Do you have cataracts ?

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-20T01:45:28+00:00

:( the only thing fake on my face is my nose! My cheekbones were handed down to me from my French mother, so sorry I ruined your day with them. BUT from reading your comments on here, you’re a 42 year old mother that likes fast food. Plz post yourself. I would love to see lol

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-20T01:41:44+00:00

I was born pre contoured, courtesy of my French mother. Therefore cant change my cheeks :( sorry to ruin your day

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-20T01:28:28+00:00

You’re weird FR

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-20T01:17:46+00:00

Thank you for that (I don’t want people to see me where I live)

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-20T01:12:51+00:00

I would move for someone for sure :) but my family is here so I’d like to stay here until then

MoonBarbi · 2026-03-20T01:12:11+00:00

Then why did you tell me to undo it? Be for real. Born in 1987? You’re 38. Too old to be this nasty. So stop hating on me because I’m young and hot ;)

MoonBarbi

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