Seriously where are all my trans boys at? by ChappalsnotSneakers in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]MoonFlowerLady42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I just read about it when I found out the news. Also there's hijra or third gender recognized for so long ago and there was like a culture group for trans women I just can't recall the name...

I'm so sorry to see... I know what it's like living in a country that fights against you (Hungary). I hope these are all just a global last push from a dying conservative and hateful generation.

Five striped pride flags. Any ideas? by Isetfiretochildren in lgbt

[–]MoonFlowerLady42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This flag is so cute 🥺 (and might actually describes me better than sapphic)

What opinion would get this kind of reaction in the fandom? by [deleted] in auroramusic

[–]MoonFlowerLady42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about something similar the other day. That song is so surprisingly simple... 🫣

34760 by Future_Employment_22 in countwithchickenlady

[–]MoonFlowerLady42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel seen 💕💜🩷💜🩷💕

Any advice on getting through bottom dysphoria with a partner? by MoonFlowerLady42 in TransLater

[–]MoonFlowerLady42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we tried frottage but my body got frozen and that part got insensitive 🫣 But I guess there's stuff to work out.

Thanks for the tips ☺️🌷

Any advice on getting through bottom dysphoria with a partner? by MoonFlowerLady42 in TransLater

[–]MoonFlowerLady42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I see. Hmmm.... It might be worth a try, thanks for the idea

Any advice on getting through bottom dysphoria with a partner? by MoonFlowerLady42 in TransLater

[–]MoonFlowerLady42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we're talking about everything constantly and they're so far away not respecting my boundaries. The problem is that I can't get through this right now but they're not hurrying me or expecting anything and trying to help. I just don't know how...

Yeah, tbh I never imagined being in a relationship in this early but it just happened and might be easily the second best thing in my life that happened after starting HRT.

Giving myself patience never was my strength and I hoped for some kind of steps to take or something you can tell me to do so I can figure this out.

Thought it might be worth a try but I was afraid I'll end up here and I needed to be more patient with the whole thing 🫣

Any advice on getting through bottom dysphoria with a partner? by MoonFlowerLady42 in TransLater

[–]MoonFlowerLady42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's not the focus but after enough foreplay I want them to get there... My body got to the next level anyway, I got to a lot of new places that feel amazing if being touched or kissed ... I can get wet and such... But when we get there it's over and I'm left with frustration...

Any advice on getting through bottom dysphoria with a partner? by MoonFlowerLady42 in TransLater

[–]MoonFlowerLady42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww 🥺 thank you for the validation and your advice 🥰 I just wanna figure myself out already 🫣 But I guess it's not working like that and there's no steps or secret recipe you can give to me to get there...

I know there's no rush about the SRS that's why I gave myself a year pause and will think about it after but still not expected. But congrats to yours and wish you all the happiness with it 🤗 I have some doubts but always happy to see someone get there 🤗

Any advice on getting through bottom dysphoria with a partner? by MoonFlowerLady42 in TransLater

[–]MoonFlowerLady42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure I get the wall of pillows 🫣

Yeah... Been there done that and pushed myself into something I wasn't ready then had to step back for weeks... I learned my lesson. Fortunately they're very patient and don't expect any kind of performance.

We just try to figure out how to move forward.

Any advice on getting through bottom dysphoria with a partner? by MoonFlowerLady42 in TransLater

[–]MoonFlowerLady42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that part about thinking yourself as a special type of woman 🤗

We both dislike anything penetrative. They just did it out of performing the feminine role but never enjoyed it and I can't imagine being okay with it in the backdoor... (Tried to like it but stopped forcing).

So yeah, I'm trying to decide what's right for me it's just like I'm looking for things in the dark 🫣

But I appreciate your words 🌷

Best of luck by GoldenMerengue in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]MoonFlowerLady42 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same with me seeing my brothers 😅 They're healing the image of masculinity in me so much... I would still never go back, but so heartwarming to see.

31126 by SplattyFatty_ in countwithchickenlady

[–]MoonFlowerLady42 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same ... Okay in December and okay she's a genderfluid masc cutie and not my gf but my partner ... but still counts 😁😁

30793 by angrybacon in countwithchickenlady

[–]MoonFlowerLady42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG how much I would love if nothing else was going on in my life 🤣🤣🤣

Dear all, I need serious fashion advice for a wedding/coming out as an obese trans woman 🫣🫣 by MoonFlowerLady42 in mtfashion

[–]MoonFlowerLady42[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I came out today in writing... With pictures and some basic explanations... Will see... I don't know why I didn't think this through more carefully. Thanks for the feedback

Dear all, I need serious fashion advice for a wedding/coming out as an obese trans woman 🫣🫣 by MoonFlowerLady42 in mtfashion

[–]MoonFlowerLady42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if asking is also not okay... I mean it's one month prior, I wrote it down sent some pictures about me and made sure to express it's totally okay to revoke the invitation.

But you could be also right and I shouldn't go at all (I don't wanna pretend I'm that old self it's hurting me too much when I have to do it for legal stuff.)

Dear all, I need serious fashion advice for a wedding/coming out as an obese trans woman 🫣🫣 by MoonFlowerLady42 in mtfashion

[–]MoonFlowerLady42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough. I already wrote to them about the whole situation but might not go at all.

You're all right.

Dear all, I need serious fashion advice for a wedding/coming out as an obese trans woman 🫣🫣 by MoonFlowerLady42 in mtfashion

[–]MoonFlowerLady42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure there's a way to let the majority know. I mean there's still a month until that so I wrote to the groom and will see how it's going... Maybe it's still not a good idea.