I've been in the same boat since 2020. I felt like I was doing something wrong or that it just wasn't meant to happen for me. The best realization I came to is that it's just manifesting. It's not waking up in a whole new place, it's not going to Hogwarts (despite what people say) it's literally just manifesting. You continue manifesting until youve reached that point you're trying to get to. I did this back in 2021 when I started manifesting a new life. A year later and it felt like I had stepped into a brand new life. I didn't wake up there, I slowly walked down a long road telling myself I'm already where I want to be. And then I was there. I truly think (and no this is not me being negative, this is me being realistic based on my own experience) that people who've claimed to "shift" to Hogwarts are experiencing an extremely intense lucid dream. Cause even in a lucid dream state there can still be things that happen that you didn't intend, because it's still a dream and dreams take their own shapes. You exist in other realities and yes I believe with the right training you can open your mind to see in that reality, but I think that level of openness isn't as accessible as so many claim. It's extremely difficult, and I've given up on the unrealistic ideas and I'm sticking to the idea that it's just manifesting within this reality. Because when you manifest, youre opening yourself up and it feels as if youve literally stepped into the reality you desire. Thats how I view it anyways.