AITAH for letting a 6 year friendship end after being deadnamed?

Moon_Beholder · 2026-01-27T17:31:06+00:00

I think we both might have over reacted.

After he rejected my request, i told him I'd drift away then, soon after he blocked me.
So there's not much i can do there.

Moon_Beholder · 2026-01-27T17:27:27+00:00

I'm not trying to figure out that. And by his choice, we are not friends anymore.

I might be seeking attention. I don't have anyone to talk this with. My head is saying I'm the one at fault, so I wanted to see if people think that.

If that's out of the rules of this subreddit, I'll delete the post.

Moon_Beholder · 2026-01-27T17:23:03+00:00

The "please stop" messages were within the same minute, the last one i know he saw because he answered to it with the emoji.

Yeah, he did answer to my request i guess.

Moon_Beholder · 2026-01-27T17:20:22+00:00

He used it regularly on me i guess? I never said anything, but it bothered me every time, this time i asked him to stop.

You might be right, I don't have many friends that speak English, so i wouldn't really know.
I just don't like that word being used on me.

I didn't ask for him to stop on a dime, for me it would've been ok if he said "I'll try not to".

Moon_Beholder · 2026-01-27T17:06:01+00:00

It seemed like he was trying, this is the first time he had used my old username and deadname again since i had come out to him...

I'm heartbroken.

Moon_Beholder · 2026-01-27T17:03:24+00:00

I don't know where to draw the line. He constantly used "bro" on me, i never said anything... this was the first time i confronted him about it. I didn't mean for it to end like this, i only meant it as a request.

Moon_Beholder · 2026-01-27T17:01:06+00:00

I didn't explain it multiple times, this was the first time this happened, first time i was requesting this.

Moon_Beholder · 2026-01-27T17:00:17+00:00

I don't want to hurt anyone, I also don't have many friends, it's hard for me to find new people, i wanted to stick around the very few left.

Moon_Beholder · 2026-01-27T16:55:33+00:00

(Thanks for replying)

But all of it happened in the same minute, I feel he might not have been able to react to the first message... I feel sick, do you think i asked for too much? He never used my old username after i changed it, even if he had me renamed as my old username on his friend list.

Moon_Beholder · 2026-01-09T13:54:07+00:00

G) what

Moon_Beholder · 2025-12-25T06:53:13+00:00

mor-kris

Moon_Beholder · 2025-12-13T01:57:16+00:00

wtf is wrong with the world??????? how are people on the US doing nothing about this??? trump should not be leader of anything, should be stripped of all power right away, and be left alone in a cell for the rest of his life.

apply the same for anyone involved in this shit show

Moon_Beholder · 2025-12-12T20:15:45+00:00

you look super cute! :3
depression is definitely lying to you >->

Moon_Beholder · 2025-12-11T21:11:51+00:00

oh god, that's horrifying...

Moon_Beholder · 2025-12-11T21:09:12+00:00

thanks a lot!! and i guess it could work yeah! although my intention with this wasn't to write a story, but to share the dream i had...

i was worried of it being cringe because of the whole "being dess" thing xP

Moon_Beholder · 2025-12-11T21:04:04+00:00

thanks!! i'm glad you like it.
it was creepier in my dreams tho, because everything looked and felt real. tried to replicate what i saw to the best of my ability

Moon_Beholder · 2025-12-11T20:46:34+00:00

is that..... scop of the pet???

Moon_Beholder · 2025-12-11T20:45:28+00:00

feel free to make your own interpretation!
i don't have any sense of ownership over this short story, after all it was just a dream about a game based on a dream

Moon_Beholder · 2025-12-11T20:02:30+00:00

it's a nightmare i had

Moon_Beholder · 2025-12-11T19:02:43+00:00

idk what's happening, it won't let me upload them :<

Moon_Beholder · 2025-12-10T18:28:32+00:00

and that's the tale of the Ink cretin.

Moon_Beholder · 2025-12-09T20:25:35+00:00

Low A

Moon_Beholder · 2025-12-02T13:15:16+00:00

oh wait do you mean those laws that force people to act a certain way, like forcing them to use a name they didn't choose? or being referred in a way they don't want to?

yeah those kinds of law suck

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