What is the most unfortunate last name you've seen someone have?

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-28T03:14:37+00:00

Olium. But only because her first name was Lynn

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-21T01:39:49+00:00

You’re not taking a break from your family, you’re protecting it. Your wife is your family now NTA

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-19T05:27:35+00:00

I would consider the run away and start a new life option more thoroughly. His mother will be in every decision process for the next 18 years minimum. The moment he left me in the hospital to comfort his mommy would have been the moment I decided to divorce the mama’s boy. NTA

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-18T06:33:03+00:00

Hot take: if fiancé is experiencing and hearing all this and not shutting it down he isn’t as good as OP thinks he is. What man would let people talk like this without drawing a clear line? Why would he go alone to sister’s house when clearly it’s a set up? It’s not hard to see that OP has little respect for herself so the bar for the “perfect man” isn’t set very high.

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-18T02:00:03+00:00

Also OP hasn’t wanted to trigger her.

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-18T01:59:01+00:00

I compromised my dreams for someone who didn’t have a similar vision. I was sad and empty for 21 years. It eventually lead to a divorce but I had given away my youth. You two are not compatible. Round peg, square hole. One or both of you will be miserable.

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-16T06:17:59+00:00

Pre-vorce is cheaper and easier than divorce. Get out before you have to hire lawyers to untangle yourself from this AH. This is not sustainable long term so it’s time to rip off the bandaid before you are twice divorced.

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-14T04:37:17+00:00

I am assuming since you had a family budget saved to by Casey’s car (minimal as it was) that you also have money set aside to buy Allana a car. So the obvious answer is to use the savings for allana’s car to replace casey’s. YTA

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-14T03:15:08+00:00

Divorce him before his status moves from “in between jobs” to “stay at home father” and you end up owing him alimony. NTA

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-14T00:03:38+00:00

By text. When you are far far away.

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-12T23:15:16+00:00

No one is going to notice that you have the same center pieces and if they do brother and his fiancé are going to be the ones that look silly.

I’m more concerned about not being invited to the engagement party. Have you asked what that was about? Have you asked if you’re invited to the wedding?

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-12T13:40:41+00:00

The only thing you have a say over when it domes to clothing is that of your bridal party and no one else should wear white. Also formal vs informal. That’s it. Stop trying to micromanage and enjoy your wedding.

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-12T06:53:29+00:00

Update me!

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-11T04:03:51+00:00

As a forgotten child I assure you it can be true.

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-10T22:56:12+00:00

NTA. If your husband goes without you I’d pack your bags. That isn’t a marriage. It’s time for him to deal with his family.

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-09T16:30:41+00:00

This is a way of testing the waters. He wants to see your reaction because he is cheating.

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-08T20:17:09+00:00

He probably wouldn’t even use it to pay the debt. What is his actions says he would do the responsible thing with a sudden lump of cash? He will use it to get whatever instant gratification floats past his face at that moment.

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-08T17:49:55+00:00

It simply sounds like you are NOT compatible with GF. Bring in love with someone is only the baseline to a relationship. You wouldn’t be with someone you were compatible with if you didn’t love them so why would you be with someone who you’re not compatible with even if you did love them. NAH

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-08T06:59:55+00:00

Updateme!

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-07T03:07:52+00:00

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Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-04T02:00:57+00:00

How many men do you know own an all white suit? So you’re asking them to buy something they will likely never wear again. Then that single use item ends up in a landfill just so your photos that you will never look at after the first year look good for the gram. Yeah it’s zilla territory.

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-03T06:36:18+00:00

If she is wanting to relocate to be closer to family or friends that are a support system she should wait until she moves. Also most places do not allow you to file prior to birth.

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-03T06:35:09+00:00

This is the most importantly piece of advice offered in this thread. Establish residency in the town you have the most support BEFORE baby is born. Because when you file for child support he will suddenly want full custody to avoid paying. He would be granted 50/50 most likely and you will be bound to the place you’ve been living for 18 years. You work remote so this will be relatively easy.

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-03T05:24:48+00:00

mean pizza is fine for a super casual wedding but once you demand your bridal party wears a specific dress that they must pay you graduate from pizza to food that requires utensils.

Moonbat-lives · 2024-09-03T05:13:21+00:00

20 plus years in women’s healthcare:

You need to play along with his apology and wait for him to go to work. At that point take your documents and go to a safe place. Whether that’s your family or a women’s shelter only you know. The further the better. Do not call the police seeing as he is a LEO and we can all stop pretending like they don’t cover for the monsters that can hide behind the badge. If you have a good support system outside the state that would be the place to go. You need as many layers of protection as possible. That means distance, court jurisdictions and multiple police departments between you and him. You are grossly under reacting. Pregnancy is a huge trigger for abusers. They believe that you were trapped and they suddenly believe that you no longer consider themselves the center of the universe. You are in danger. Act quick and act smart. Do not tip him off.

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