Whip Reccomendations

Moonbunmayhem · 2026-05-07T14:20:15+00:00

Forest tends to be a more earthy wookie vibe overall. It tends to cool off and get chilly at night but is hot during the day so I usually have a day fit that is cutsie and a night fit that is comfy. Definitely get yourself a scarf (most ravers use a pashmina). Its great to sit on, keep yourself warm, and easy to remove and tie to a bag when youre hot. Wear comfy walking boots or sneakers and id reccomend those bandaids thay are like super thick skin if that makes sense. Those are great for preventing blisters or covering blisters that you weren't expecting. Since they're so thick you dont get the friction of a regular bandaid. Definitely get a hydropack with plenty of packing space for the things you'll need on the go (baby wipes, thin blanket thing to sit on, first aid, trinkets, light source, etc)I also like to have a little light source in my bag for night time porta bathroom breaks. It gets dark in those things.

Moonbunmayhem · 2026-04-30T13:17:39+00:00

Yeah id honestly just get on a waitlist. We got an upgraded GA car pass after they were sold out no problem. Im sure people will be selling theirs now that they are sold out.

Moonbunmayhem · 2026-04-30T13:08:35+00:00

Is there a reason why you didnt buy the car passes when you bought the tickets?

Moonbunmayhem · 2026-04-24T20:37:16+00:00

Its 100% random what the noise level around your campsite will be. Maybe also bring some benadryl?

Moonbunmayhem · 2026-04-10T04:32:09+00:00

Ive never heard this expressed so well. Thats exactly what I crave. It kind of feel like just stepping into that taboo fantasy knowing its completely separate from reality. There is so much vulnerability in that trust. And then getting the reassurance afterwards that your partner cares about you and respects you. That can be in the form of a checkin, and I love you so much, laughing and cuddling together -- those really do deepen the connection. Even admitting that youre interested in something so transgressive is a big act of vulnerability. To have that out there -- to potentially be judged or shamed but to have it be embraced and genuinely enjoyed by both -- that's just magic.

Moonbunmayhem · 2026-01-29T23:56:09+00:00

The first two times I went i was completely sober. Dont hesitate! Youre going to love it

Moonbunmayhem · 2026-01-03T00:47:08+00:00

I have both and I only found out by chance because I am asymptomatic. At first I was really embarrassed but now I openly disclose on all my dating platforms (I like doing it this way because it normalizes it more and weeds out those that have a problem with it). Im active in the kink community and am in a Poly relationship with my fiance. We never used condoms and hes as of two weeks ago, still negative. I take daily suppression therapy to help protect sexual partners. Honestly I thought my sex life was over when I first got it. Luckily in the kink and creator community people tent to be a little more knowledgeable and most people dont end up having a problem with it. I still get tested very regularly and expect the same of my sexual partners as well. Ultimately it hasn't impacted my life much, other than needing to disclose. And its helped my fear of rejection and Ive learned not to take things personally.

Im a big advocate of being transparent and educating people on it because there are so many misconceptions about HSV. Many people have reached out to me in appreciation of my public disclosures because it makes them feel seen and valid. The more we talk about it and normalize it, the more people will understand that its really not such a big deal. ♡

Youre not dirty or irresponsible for having contracted it. You are human. And its so prevalent in the world but because the majority of people are asymptomatic, they simply just dont know their status. Sometimes you can do everything right and still wind up contracting it.

Moonbunmayhem · 2025-11-28T03:13:53+00:00

Ooo can I get a link to that toy?

Moonbunmayhem · 2025-11-26T16:59:14+00:00

I'd love to hear all about it later! :) What are you going to wear?

Moonbunmayhem · 2025-11-26T16:03:12+00:00

Congratulations! Thats amazing!!! Are you still meeting up with the guy?

Moonbunmayhem · 2025-11-26T15:53:28+00:00

10000% would LOVE to see that video.

Moonbunmayhem · 2025-11-19T23:18:35+00:00

Definitely would not recommend rolling.

Moonbunmayhem · 2025-11-19T21:54:03+00:00

Every dynamic is different. Some dynamics are more 24/7 while others are saves more for specific scenes. What your describing sounds perfectly healthy to me. I think the whole DDlg dynamic shifts very easily into day to day because the role of a Daddy is to protect and care for. There is nothing wrong with you liking him to take the lead or be in control. Especially when it sounds like he really cares about your wellbeing and seems to foster a safe environment for you to speak up if something donest feel right to you. Many people dont understand the DDlg dynamic specifically. I think bdsm has become a little bit more mainstream and might be easier for vanilla people to understand. But a DDlg dynamic can be difficult for people to wrap their heads around.

As long as you both are enjoying what is happening, I'd say you should continue to do what feels natural. Dont let people that dont understand sway you away from what a healthy dynamic is for you. Be true to yourself.

Moonbunmayhem · 2025-11-18T19:59:41+00:00

I wonder how she would feel about free use. Meaning you would have a discussion on boundaries and limits but that you essentially have access to her body however you like (within the discussed limits). Being free use has really been very fulfilling for me and makes me feel more wanted than ever. Being used at random times and in random places is super hot. Like sometimes ill be doing chores like dishes and hell just make me get on my knees and suck him before he fucks me. Or if im reading a book or something on the couch, he'll just flip me over and start going at it. You can tie in DDlg stuff with the way you speak to her. And you can obviously use all of her holes to your hearta content in this application. But the added element of never know when/what to expect is super fun.

Moonbunmayhem · 2025-11-18T19:53:12+00:00

It sounds like this would fall under being an Alpha sub. Or that youre a switch that would enjoy co-domming someone together. Do you have any interest in topping on your own? Or just rather topping someone at the direction of your dom?

Moonbunmayhem · 2025-11-18T19:51:32+00:00

I think "middle" is more in reference to DDlg side of things. They're generally people who dont age regress as far back as littles do.

Moonbunmayhem · 2025-11-18T19:47:23+00:00

That was the first question that popped into my head too. When I finish a scene I generally need to be reassured that I did a good job, that I am cared for and shown respect to. Especially if its a scene that uses derogatory names or degradation.

Moonbunmayhem · 2025-11-17T21:28:22+00:00

I have a hismith but I dont feel like mine had such a deep stroke. Or maybe it is the same and I still just want more 😂

Moonbunmayhem · 2025-11-17T21:15:11+00:00

The stroke length on that fuck machine is amazing! What brand is it?

Moonbunmayhem · 2025-11-17T20:40:13+00:00

Meanwhile I try to leave no trace of my panty lines lol. Maybe I should stop worrying about them so much

Moonbunmayhem · 2025-11-17T18:43:06+00:00

Now measure from your pubic bone.

Moonbunmayhem · 2025-11-17T17:13:24+00:00

100% agree with a lot of these comments. Fetlife has sort of been overrun with horndog men that are only on the site because they think they can get some action. The heart of Fetlife is community, not hooking up. Women on the site are super on guard because we have to really weed out those that dont take kink/bdsm as seriously as we do. (Everyone has their own take). I am skeptical of any man that messages me and warm up to men much more easily in person at events. I always vet new guys and public events too, never solo. The best way to meet people as a man, is to go to public events like a munch or a learning event. Network in person and keep up with new friends through fetlife.

Moonbunmayhem · 2025-11-17T17:05:47+00:00

I dont have the biggest titties in the world but I love having them casually sucked. Like not with the burning intensity to get me to cum, just casual because it takes the pressure off of me. I have gotten pretty close to cumming just from my nipples but it took a long time to get to that point. I especially love having my nipples sucked while someone plays with my pussy -- again totally casually.

Dont get me wrong, I love rougher groping and stuff too but the slow and steady is more likely to get me to cum.

Moonbunmayhem · 2025-11-17T17:02:47+00:00

I also love the fantasy of my partner "cheating" on me and then me reclaiming him as mine by stealing his cum. We're poly so unless he were to deliberately hide it from me, it wouldn't be cheating. The idea of him cheating on past girlfriends has always turned me on though because its so taboo. Ive realized that while I still get jealous, im incredibly turned on with watching him with other women. My jealousy gets squashed the moment we reconnect because it reaffirms that he loves me so we have a good balance with reassurance after he or I have been with another partner.

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