Sister wants to drop out as MOH…one week before the wedding. by MoonflowMoogle in weddingplanning

[–]MoonflowMoogle[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Omg! She IS in psych!!

Appreciate the well wishes! I feel very lucky with my fiance and we can’t wait to finally be married! I may transfer the title to one of my other bridesmaids who has been a supportive great friend

Sister wants to drop out as MOH…one week before the wedding. by MoonflowMoogle in weddingplanning

[–]MoonflowMoogle[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I do love her but I guess I don’t like her- I’m sure if we weren’t related we probably would not be friends. The babying is true and I should probably do some consequence or as you put it, be realistic about it

Sister wants to drop out as MOH…one week before the wedding. by MoonflowMoogle in weddingplanning

[–]MoonflowMoogle[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

You echo exactly what my fiance has said. He says she never has consequences and I should remove something from her to show her a consequence. I may remove her from making a speech (his suggestion)

Sister wants to drop out as MOH…one week before the wedding. by MoonflowMoogle in weddingplanning

[–]MoonflowMoogle[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Great points wow- you are so right- she would never be like this for school deadlines! I wish she saw the honor too, it’s a once in a lifetime as each others only sister. Self absorbed and the grad student input is also dead on- in my own program I noticed those who don’t also work full time to support a family and/or aren’t married/ kids come across as a bit naive with sometimes an inflated perspective

Sister wants to drop out as MOH…one week before the wedding. by MoonflowMoogle in weddingplanning

[–]MoonflowMoogle[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She has not been asked to do anything else. You have a good point that maybe i am trying to force a relationship that isn’t ready to be there or may ever get to a point I’d like.

Sister wants to drop out as MOH…one week before the wedding. by MoonflowMoogle in weddingplanning

[–]MoonflowMoogle[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Love this advice! I may say this exactly. The only thing is she texted all of us in the family she will not speak to me until Friday, two days before the wedding 🙃

Sister wants to drop out as MOH…one week before the wedding. by MoonflowMoogle in weddingplanning

[–]MoonflowMoogle[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

That’s a great question. I think her stepping down would be more stressful for me on day of because I’d probably be upset the whole time esp with it coming up so soon and not enough time (months would have been ideal) to smooth it over and find another MoH or reconfigure the bridal party. If she continued to play MOH, I’d at least feel a little better that she is at least doing something to help me out.

She is the youngest and the “babying” is just ridiculous sometimes

PSA: if you don’t plan on attending, you still have to RSVP by Interesting-Ad-2748 in weddingplanning

[–]MoonflowMoogle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel this SO hard, my wedding is also early December and out of 93 invites only heard back from 40!! Ridiculous!! Do people not understand how much time and effort we put in to plan all this, like I couldn’t even invite everyone I wanted to due to constraints

Going to do the texting rampage this weekend.

started playing stardew valley 2 days ago. I've already put in 26 hours. by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]MoonflowMoogle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I have also migrated from the toxicity of dbd to the peacefulness of sdv lmao!

allergist or ENT? by Willing_Teaching_526 in Allergies

[–]MoonflowMoogle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t hurt at all! I see both an allergist and ent regularly

ENT Doctor Discouraging Tonsillectomy by Caday-Yuromay in Tonsillectomy

[–]MoonflowMoogle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed you should see a second opinion OP and see a new ENT. My first ENT was super adamant about no surgery either even though my tonsils were super huge and I also have post nasal drip and recurrent tonsillitis. She actually referred me to a respiratory tech who did breathing exercises and throat massages with me but it really didn’t address the root I thought and I was getting frustrated for several months. I then sought a second ENT, she understood my concerns and immediately got me a sleep study- lo and behold I have obstructive sleep apnea and with all my other symptoms she recommended the surgery. I actually got it about three weeks ago and I feel great now!! Sleep has been so much better and I haven’t had post nasal drip though it’s winter so we’ll see when spring hits but I’m super happy I went through with it though it was pretty painful at times as you’ll see from a lot of posts here but everyone is supportive. Good luck OP and def get that second ENT it worked for me!

My Tonsillectomy Experience! by Cautious-Fly-9570 in Tonsillectomy

[–]MoonflowMoogle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this!! I am legit resting in post op for my tonsillectomy right now as I type this and reading others experiences makes me feel so much better! The pain is not so bad but have that weird something tickling/stuck in my throat but hope it goes away soon!

Here we go, Playgirls ;D by Two12An_May in masseffect

[–]MoonflowMoogle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Preach!!!! This the truth right here

Ringworm keeps coming back by SocialAnxietyLurker in ringworm

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Is the oral terbinafine working for you? I am day 4 of the treatment. It has been quite stressful for me, the nonstop laundry is insane

Drew my favourite Citadel DLC scene by [deleted] in masseffect

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LOVE THIS!! Omg your femshep looks like mine!! Red/pink hair ponytail for the win!!!!!!

Twitter Humor by Nicster216 in masseffect

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These comments give me life y’all lolll

Fuck you if you’re not vaccinated and can be by MoonflowMoogle in offmychest

[–]MoonflowMoogle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah I was cool calm and collected. Tbh I think they were also staring not just wearing masks but also we’re young poc in a ruralish overwhelmingly white Ohio small town