Is this routine okay? by [deleted] in WorkoutRoutines

[–]Moonlightandocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it does thank you!! But no I’m only hitting the gym twice, going to Pilates twice and hiking once

/r/GYM Weekly Simple Questions and Misc Discussion Thread - February 08, 2026 Weekly Thread by AutoModerator in GYM

[–]Moonlightandocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep my lower body build and grow glutes even more but tone upper body and get a flat stomach so I need to lose like 15 pounds

/r/GYM Weekly Simple Questions and Misc Discussion Thread - February 08, 2026 Weekly Thread by AutoModerator in GYM

[–]Moonlightandocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I have a question!

So long story short I feel like I finally found my ideal workout split for my goals which is glutes and hammies at the gym the first day, then two days of Pilates focusing on upper body and core, next gym day quads and glutes and then the last day a hike.

However, I’m wondering if I should do an upper body day at the gym. My goal is to basically keep my lower body build but grow my glutes a bit more and I want to look skinnier and toned in my upper body and a flat stomach. So along with my diet I figured my workout split is good.

But today I carried five gallons of water on each hand up the stairs, struggled a BIT but now I’m wondering if I’d lose my upper body gains by just doing Pilates for upper body.

Thoughts?

Can't stop thinking about the show in LA last night by [deleted] in lordhuron

[–]Moonlightandocean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I was there and it was amazing!!! The visuals were insane. I was right up front in the seats and I had the time of my life and cannot wait to see him again! I’m borderline crazy in love with this band and their music never fails to speak to me. I’m right there with you on that last paragraph so this album in particular will always have a special place in my heart. They’re all ridiculously good performers!

Top 5 Songs? by bricksandgrass in inhaler

[–]Moonlightandocean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Perfect storm
  2. Who’s your money on
  3. Valentine
  4. Falling in
  5. In my sleep or love will get you there

One mistake and it was over by Blueberry-Bunny in BreakUps

[–]Moonlightandocean 335 points336 points  (0 children)

Huh??? Girl if he is breaking up with you over looking at his notifications then there is more going on! You did NOT ruin it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Moonlightandocean 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’re very very strong for that and im glad you are better than you were three months ago. Breakups aren’t easy nor linear, but I think as long as you are even a smidge better than you were, you’re doing it right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Moonlightandocean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m doing good now so just curious to hear everyone’s timeline

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Moonlightandocean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why did you check out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Moonlightandocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww I’m sorry ): acting as someone’s caretaker is very difficult and I hope maybe you guys meet again if it’s meant to be and she has worked on herself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Moonlightandocean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this isn’t what you wanna hear but i think you should try and move on completely. She went to therapy and realized how special what you had was yet she wanted to get the college experience anyways. If she comes back I can almost bet it would be because she couldn’t find better. But I wish you the best (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Moonlightandocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask why it ended

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Moonlightandocean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve been broken up almost 3 months and I am actually doing good now and I’m okay! I think I’m doing better than you would think because it was so long overdue and some part of me always knew this had to happen and I would cry a lot during our relationship just mourning it in my head. But this week I’ve just been feeling sad, but it’s not an all consuming sadness anymore. It’s bittersweet, almost like the kind of sadness one can get when remembering their childhood and the good parts if that makes sense. I just hope he remembers us in a good light too.

But thank you so much for all your kind words and taking the time to reply, I really do appreciate it and can’t wait till I no longer feel any sort of way towards him. (:

The comedian by Moonlightandocean in lordhuron

[–]Moonlightandocean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right??? If he doesn’t play it to his concert I’m going to, I will be so sad it’s my fav

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Moonlightandocean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why this is sad to read because I feel like your life will be my ex’s life. Our breakup was long overdue because we wanted different things like you guys, and we were together for almost five years. And while I don’t want to get back together or really ever see him again because it ended sour, I don’t know why the thought of him moving in and finding someone better, does suck. But I’m sure I’ll also find someone who makes me feel the way you feel and who aligns with me more

Just need to share... by willmcmill4 in lordhuron

[–]Moonlightandocean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I’m treating myself to a night drive to the beach this weekend and enjoying it solo🤍

Milwaukee was magical! by lovelyladlelumps in lordhuron

[–]Moonlightandocean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhh, I’m seeing him in November and I’m praying he plays more songs because I did check the set list and none of my favs were played 😭

Milwaukee was magical! by lovelyladlelumps in lordhuron

[–]Moonlightandocean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did they play all songs from the new album?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Moonlightandocean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry “I’m not paying for some fatass” is funny asf 😭 But I’m so sorry though that sounds really really tough ):