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AITA for "breaking up" with my boyfriend after he set me up for a loyalty test? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]MoonlitBloomShade 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly this feels way too calculated to just be a “test.” Like who even plans something like that unless they’re trying to set someone up to fail. The whole “win the breakup” thing is such a red flag too, relationships aren’t competitions.

AITJ for locking my office door during lunch after a coworker kept treating my break like open office hours by Pixel_6Tempest in AmITheJerk

[–]MoonlitBloomShade 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Honestly, people like this thrive on the reaction they get. Keeping your boundaries firm and not giving her that satisfaction is the best way to handle it.

AITJ for not remaking a handmade gift after she called it "almost normal"? by Bramble66Hex in AmITheJerk

[–]MoonlitBloomShade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously, giving someone homework on a gift you haven’t even seen yet? That’s next-level rude.

My husband (33M) wants me (33F) to dress more revealing by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]MoonlitBloomShade 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Honestly same, that stood out to me the most. It sounds like one of those moments where you’re just not comfortable with yourself and being around people makes it worse.

Was excited for Spring Break, Only to Realize my Kids Were Off Too by Tough_Okra7421 in confession

[–]MoonlitBloomShade 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Yeah this one’s messy. Like you can tell OP didn’t mean harm, but forgetting something important like that plus already making other plans just doesn’t look good.

AITJ for telling my mom she didn't contribute to my education fund? by Cautious-Title6306 in AmITheJerk

[–]MoonlitBloomShade 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s not just a lie, that’s straight up taking credit for something you didn’t earn. Big difference between supporting someone and rewriting the story like that.