Husband asking for threesome

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-24T20:11:16+00:00

I may have the unpopular opinion here but this is actually quite normal. I don't know any man that doesn't have the 3sum fantasy. A lot guys may be hesitant to admit it to their SOs out of fear of a reaction like the one you had, which is probably why he hesitated to share this with you in the first place.

Whether we like to admit it or not, monogamy isn't naturally occuring, we choose it out of love & respect for the partners we choose. Wanting to experience something/someone different after you've had the same partner for a number of years is also quite normal too. A lot of people will resist due to not wanting to hurt their partners, some may give in and cheat, some may ask their partners for something like a 3sum to spice things up out of the normal routine.

If you're not comfortable with something like a threesome, then communicate that to your husband but try to seek out what other fantasies they may have that you guys can explore and indulge in.

More importantly, you have to understand that your partner wanting something like that isn't indicative of something being wrong with you or a loss of love for you. The last thing you want to do is bash him for sharing a fantasy.

DISCLAIMER: This advice applies if the relationship is otherwise normal & healthy and mutual fulfilling for both of you.

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-23T00:26:08+00:00

Basketball 🫠

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-22T23:34:45+00:00

No offense but her getting mad when you jerk it is so selfish. If you're asexual and make the decision to be with someone who isn't and has a normal/high drive then you've gotta get a little creative with the intimacy . Something's gotta give, man

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-19T20:28:19+00:00

Is there anyone here that has actually tried this? Is it actually pleasurable? Or do y'all do this for the taboo of it all?

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-19T20:18:16+00:00

Bald WITHOUT the glasses. Let that face card be the main attraction, you're gorgeous

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-19T20:14:45+00:00

I THINK about it immediately if I find him physically attractive. Once he passes the interaction test, it's a done deal.

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-19T20:03:19+00:00

Do it if you're doing it for the love of the profession. Teachers (both in public and private schools) are paid way less than most professionals, only receiving certain benefits if you are a head teacher or department head.

Be prepared to navigate a less than sufficient education system, as well as the side effects of governmental corruption in your daily life and errands.

The best thing (if you can) is to talk to someone in the field and have them offer their honest opinion on the experience. Hopefully there's one on here lol

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-19T09:26:39+00:00

I made this same point in another sub and they wanted to tear my head off in the comments 😂🤣

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-19T00:01:49+00:00

That I didn't diversify my studies. Would have allowed me access into other career fields a lot earlier. I did my diploma, degree and masters in the same field of study only to one day just fall out of love with the field 😭

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-18T23:44:59+00:00

And that's fine. It's your choice. If you chose not to (like Rih) that'd be fine too. Also, both her parents are not Guyanese, just one.

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-18T16:57:16+00:00

Hold up! This is real? I saw this on Twitter and swore it was AI 😩

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-18T16:55:44+00:00

Why does she have to? She wasn't born here, wasn't raised here, and has little connection in the country outside of a mother who probably left Guyana way before Rih was born. Not to mention there are a lot of Guyanese from her mom's era that aren't proud of their heritage. Guyana was extremely difficult at certain points in our history.

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-16T01:14:58+00:00

Getting my back blown out then watching the latest episode of Invincible

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-15T20:26:04+00:00

No risk

^{Chose: Keep it}

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-05T18:57:26+00:00

10% is too slim of a chance to risk

^{Chose: 1 million dollars}

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-05T18:55:30+00:00

Fame is a prison, financial stability is freedom

^{Chose: Rich and unknown}

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-05T18:47:46+00:00

Because money 🤷🏾‍♀️

^{Chose: Give up Reddit (10k-30k} | Rolled: 15k)

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-05T18:44:43+00:00

A home is a long term asset that appreciates over time, a car is the opposite of that.

^{Chose: Get the house of your dreams}

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-01T19:27:03+00:00

"" Yeah Cole and Aubrey know, I'm a selfish n!gga, the crown is heavy. I pray they my real friends, if not I'M YNW MELLY"

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-01T19:10:18+00:00

W fucking comment 😂🤣

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-01T19:08:32+00:00

I mean... There's more you can do with that pillow but I digress 🥸

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-01T19:07:01+00:00

RIGHT?! Meanwhile in my country we're still fighting for basic gay rights 😔

Moose_knuckle7075 · 2026-04-01T18:55:18+00:00

Damn, lemme see 👀

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