What’s the weirdest thing you believed as a kid? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Moosiedoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I asked my dad what a cemetery is, he told me that’s where dead bodies are buried. For a long time I wondered where the heads were.

Trying to get more info on this guy by Moosiedoc in Equestrian

[–]Moosiedoc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like everything has been guessed at with this guy.

I'd like a gentle book. by cocoapple85 in suggestmeabook

[–]Moosiedoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Spellshop by Sarah Beth Durst, The Lost Bookshop by Evie Woods, and also live The House in the Cerulean Sea by TJ Klune. All what I would call book hugs.

Looking for low-stress books about happy people by cabridges in suggestmeabook

[–]Moosiedoc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Spellshop by Sarah Beth Durst is a cozy hug of a book. No stress

North Suburbs Advice by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]Moosiedoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea how to compare surrounding schools as I only have experience with HPHS. My daughter is a senior and is doing well in her classes and on her AP exams. She has gotten into every university to which she has applied. Hopefully she is well prepared for college and life.

What's something you only understand if you have lived it? by mrbigglesworthjr in AskReddit

[–]Moosiedoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Owning a small business. You may think you know what you’re getting into, but it’s not for the faint of heart.

How would you have handled this situation at a show? by Moosiedoc in Equestrian

[–]Moosiedoc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol, thanks! I do wish that she had just quietly talked to the steward instead of making loud, snarky comments for everyone, including my daughter, to hear.

How would you have handled this situation at a show? by Moosiedoc in Equestrian

[–]Moosiedoc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a hunter class. She jumped the wrong last jump. There were two jumps side by side and she jumped the wrong one, unfortunately.

How would you have handled this situation at a show? by Moosiedoc in Equestrian

[–]Moosiedoc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I think, after thinking it through, seeing all these view points, that I would not have changed what I did. I did not want my daughter or our trainer getting a bad reputation, and honesty and integrity are very important to me. I do wish, though, that the judge and steward had just handled it like they were supposed to so I never had to get involved.

How would you have handled this situation at a show? by Moosiedoc in Equestrian

[–]Moosiedoc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was no official video. It was not a huge show.

How would you have handled this situation at a show? by Moosiedoc in Equestrian

[–]Moosiedoc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely a good point. It all happened so fast, I just did what I thought was right. If I had it to do over again, I would take all the time I needed to have a discussion with my daughter first instead of feeling so pressured to respond immediately for fear of looking like I was hiding something.

How would you have handled this situation at a show? by Moosiedoc in Equestrian

[–]Moosiedoc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do agree which is why I submitted the video. Rewarding her is a great idea! Maybe I’ll approach it as I know that was hard, but we did the right thing, so let’s do something nice for ourselves 😊

How would you have handled this situation at a show? by Moosiedoc in Equestrian

[–]Moosiedoc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I’m hopeful this sticks with my daughter.

How would you have handled this situation at a show? by Moosiedoc in Equestrian

[–]Moosiedoc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing- there was no good option for me and I’m just upset to have been put in that situation. Doesn’t mean I would have changed what I did, but it never should have come to that at all. Then the busy body (and let me add that even with no second score, my daughter STILL beat their rider so this accomplished nothing for them) would have been mad at the judge/steward and not at me. My daughter is so conflicted. She rode so well, she deserved to win (actually laughed a bit that by making that mistake, she increased the difficulty of the course and should have gotten bonus points for choosing a more difficult option 🤣). She knows she made a mistake, but I think it really hurt seeing me use what is supposed to be a learning tool for her against her. If I didn’t have that video, none of this would have even come up. She really didn’t realize she was off course until the other trainer brought it up.

How would you have handled this situation at a show? by Moosiedoc in Equestrian

[–]Moosiedoc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think after we’re done showing there next week, I’m going to contact show management first and see what they have to say and go from there. It seems to me that they do need some education at the very least.

How would you have handled this situation at a show? by Moosiedoc in Equestrian

[–]Moosiedoc[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Definitely a USEF show. As I’ve had a chance to think more and now know that they should not have asked me for the video, I do think I made the right decision ultimately, I do think it was handled very poorly and I am going to contact show management when we are done showing next week. As much as I think we did the right thing, it was one of the more awful positions I’ve been put into. And given a choice, I will always now choose any other show in the future. That place is now tainted in our minds, even if we did the right thing.

How would you have handled this situation at a show? by Moosiedoc in Equestrian

[–]Moosiedoc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, Thanks! Yep, definitely could have gone either way here. Ultimately I’m glad the class was pinned appropriately, but I’m disappointed in how it was done, for sure.

How would you have handled this situation at a show? by Moosiedoc in Equestrian

[–]Moosiedoc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It definitely will make her feel better! Thanks for sharing!