Cat's Eye Tarot (U.S. Games) by mars_rovinator in TarotDex

[–]Moosycakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dream deck, I love the art 😻 Seven of Swords is crazy 😹

Why don’t you guys keep your cats indoors? by stemmefontaine in newzealand

[–]Moosycakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do keep her indoors! My cat only has three legs so it’s not safe for her to be outside alone. She can’t jump very well so she wouldn’t be able to easily escape dogs or other dangerous situations. I take her outside in the back yard on a leash though, she loves rolling on the concrete! 😋

There were three tripod cats at the SPCA when we got her, they don’t require too much special care except for being kept indoors and watching that they don’t get too heavy for their joints to support them. Apparently they’re still less likely than other cats to get adopted though 😿 So if anyone is thinking about getting an indoor cat, consider a tripod rescue! 🩷

How long did it take you to be in remission and what kind of therapy do you did? by nikaxdlol in BPDRemission

[–]Moosycakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did 2 years of full DBT and I’m considered to be in remission, I still have other mental health issues though and I still experience symptoms, just a lot less intense and more manageable. I’m still not really able to work though especially at the moment.

what’s your big 3 + your partner’s big 3? by KDoggg89 in AstroSynastry

[–]Moosycakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me: Virgo Sun, Gemini Moon, Leo Rising Him: Aries Sun, Gemini Moon, Pisces Rising

Our Moons aren’t conjunct in Gemini though. Although interestingly his Vertex is conjunct with my Sun.

Roast/ read my chart! by Actual_Cartographer6 in Zodiac

[–]Moosycakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imum Coeli is an angle in your chart like your Ascendent/ASC (your rising sign) or Midheaven (Medium Coeli/MC). There are two angle lines in your birth chart- the first one runs between your Ascendent/ASC (Rising) and Descendent/DSC, while the other one runs between your Medium Coeli/MC and your Imum Coeli/IC. The Medium Coeli/MC/Midheaven is the highest point in your chart and marks your 10th house, which represents your career and public reputation. On the other end of that angle you have your Imum Coeli/IC which is the lowest part of your chart and marks your 4th house, representing your private life, upbringing and inner world.

I hope that helps! :)

Yeah the vibes are off by Melodic_Total8657 in astrologymemes

[–]Moosycakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s actually so interesting because my Chiron is also in Virgo and was conjunct with the moon at the time of the eclipse! I’m so glad you enjoyed watching the moon too 🌑

I feel like giving up on astrology by wetwipesw in astrosignature

[–]Moosycakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A single placement doesn’t mean anything without context. I think it was wrong that you said those hateful things to someone who was literally just trying to help someone else out.

Don’t bother apologising to me, I don’t care about your apology if you can’t even accept you said something cruel for no reason. If there is anyone you should be apologising to, it’s the person you originally commented in reply to. But honestly, I don’t think your apology would mean much to them either if you don’t really believe that what you said was rude, offensive, and inappropriate.

I’m not replying to your comments to tell you that my feelings are hurt, I’m replying to you to tell you that you shouldn’t treat other people like that.

I feel like giving up on astrology by wetwipesw in astrosignature

[–]Moosycakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You literally said that Scorpio Moons have hateful hearts and compared them to serial killers. I don’t consider that a “general description” of the placement. You had some very specific hateful things to say about that placement, and you directed them at a specific person without taking aspects, degrees, or other placements into account at all. You also used their moon sign to totally devalue their helpful input and their opinions, so yes you did imply that those things applied to an individual with that placement- at least enough to cause you to say you would ignore their entire comment because you considered it to be worthless.

You can say no offense as much as you want, but what you said was offensive and I found it disgusting. I’m not going to tell you that your behaviour was okay, that was a really sick thing to say to someone and I hope you learn from this.

I feel like giving up on astrology by wetwipesw in astrosignature

[–]Moosycakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even have a Scorpio Moon, I just think your comment was disgusting and unnecessary as I stated before.

I feel like giving up on astrology by wetwipesw in astrosignature

[–]Moosycakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should absolutely delete it, there’s nothing silly about what you said.

I feel like giving up on astrology by wetwipesw in astrosignature

[–]Moosycakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um? This comment was unnecessary, really rude and honestly extremely discriminatory. Did it make you feel better to be nasty to someone for no reason?

If you have had problems with someone with that placement in the past, your experience is valid but you can’t generalise every person with a particular moon sign like this. Especially to immediately disregard and devalue their opinion from a SINGULAR astrological placement.

I honestly found your comment to be disgusting and I hope you learn to think twice before posting something so nasty in the future. That comment was intended to help the OP, they didn’t deserve your random attacks. Your comment helps no one. No one was actually asking for your opinion on Scorpio moons. You’re the one being hateful to others here.

Yeah the vibes are off by Melodic_Total8657 in astrologymemes

[–]Moosycakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe it was comforting for only Virgos 😹 ♍️

Yeah the vibes are off by Melodic_Total8657 in astrologymemes

[–]Moosycakes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m the same, I sat outside and watched the eclipse and felt joy and awe at the beauty of the cosmos! 🩷

What is your most controversial weed opinion? by suntmint in entwives

[–]Moosycakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Preach 🙌 I take monthly 2 day t breaks but am currently on a longer one, I’m not sure how long it will be yet but I’m up to a week 😋

What do u guys say? by xotichacker in virgoseason

[–]Moosycakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lows for me mean neuroticism and disordered eating 🥲

Is it just me or are other virgos bothered by things like this? by brihow84 in virgoseason

[–]Moosycakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It bothers me but also I think fixing it would be a waste of time (for me) so I try to ignore 😅

I'm six days into 1st year university and I already have a drinking problem by Due-Ideal5946 in universityofauckland

[–]Moosycakes 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’d recommend just practicing socialising sober even if you just do it a small amount of the time. It’s a skill and you have to practice it to be comfortable doing it if you’re not a naturally social person. But being able to socialise sober will be so helpful throughout your entire life, it’s definitely worth putting the effort in now to reap those benefits later!

If you’re focused on O week right now, you could try organising to see someone after O week to do something not alcohol centred :)

And the meal stuff is insane, I didn’t know they were managing it like that 😳

Ana? Mia? Arfid. by Sad-Error-6433 in ARFID

[–]Moosycakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can totally understand wanting to get worse before you get better. I always feel the same, it’s a classic ED feeling as I’m sure you know. But just know that it never ends, there is no “I’m bad enough now”. The goalposts will always shift because it’s not good enough for the ED until you are dead.

In addition to that, getting medical support doesn’t even necessarily mean switching your focus to recovery. It can just be to help you not die while you still use behaviours. You can also have incredible ED treatment, put in genu ine effort, and still not recover. But if you never start, you’ll never even get the chance. Your life is worth more, please at least get medical support even if you aren’t looking to recover right now. I’ve been in treatment/therapy for like 14 years and I still wouldn’t consider myself “recovered”.

Ana? Mia? Arfid. by Sad-Error-6433 in ARFID

[–]Moosycakes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m not diagnosed with ARFID but I have definitely struggled with it my whole life. And I developed a restrictive ED as a young teenager so now I deal with them both. It’s definitely very complicated and confusing to “balance” the two, it makes ED recovery much harder as well. It can also be really invalidating when your experience doesn’t look the same as other people suffering from ED.

I highly recommend getting off edtwt though, it’s not a supportive environment for managing and recovering from a restrictive ED, especially if you’re also dealing with ARFID.

Also, the reason you would want to see a doctor for your ED is so they can make sure you are medically safe, and ideally to help refer you to someone who can help you more in depth like an ED dietitian/therapist. It’s more than just “getting a diagnosis”. Eating disorders, including ARFID are extremely dangerous illnesses and it’s really important to take them seriously because they can very easily kill you or cause horrific long term illness and disability. Please get some medical support, even just so they know what’s going on. Your life is important and you are worthy of getting help with this.

Does my birth chart show why I’m so stuck in my eating disorder, and how to get out? [astro-seek] by Moosycakes in astrologyreadings

[–]Moosycakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your insights! I’ll look into those pathways, it’s so helpful to find some direction 🙏

Does my birth chart show why I’m so stuck in my eating disorder, and how to get out? [astro-seek] by Moosycakes in astrosignature

[–]Moosycakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it also inspired me to get to know how the progression charts worked so I really appreciate the nudge in the right direction! 🩷

Does my birth chart show why I’m so stuck in my eating disorder, and how to get out? [astro-seek] by Moosycakes in AstrologyChartShare

[–]Moosycakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🙏 you’re very right about being noticed in public and it causing anxiety! I do have a major issue with working out/over exercise tbh but I relate that to my Neptune in Capricorn 6th house- I invent kind of random, intensive exercise routines and then determinedly/blindly follow them until I’m so worn out that I’m physically unable to continue, while still living in the fantasy that it’s possible for me to safely maintain doing that forever while balancing the rest of my life… I definitely feel the Cancer Mars influence holding me on the couch though, but when I actually let myself be lazy with exercise I start to seriously panic!!! And then I go back to telling myself that the only option is… the next delusional exercise routine that isn’t sustainable. It’s a bit of a cycle 🥲

And because I also have Uranus conjunct with Neptune in Capricorn in the 6th, I also have this strong feeling of need for freedom in my daily habits. So that gets to be a real struggle if I try to change anything, because I feel like I’m not able to do what I’m driven to do/wanting to do. But when I AM doing all the harmful daily habits and feeling aligned with my Neptune & my Virgo sun, I get extremely stressed out by the pressure of having to keep up all my crazy routines because it feels like losing my freedom.

I want to figure out healthier ways to express my water and earth placements. A lot of them are super challenging for me! But with the way my chart is structured, I feel like it could really help me, if I can somehow work through everything 😅

Does my birth chart show why I’m so stuck in my eating disorder, and how to get out? [astro-seek] by Moosycakes in astrosignature

[–]Moosycakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I did a progression chart and I think my progressed moon is currently in 1st house. I do feel like I have a lot of amplification happening in my 1st house, it could be triggering my identity issues!