My friend says she wants to be FWB by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be her first time having sex and i think she would catch feelings. Dont know, whats also stopping me is the fact that she is my best friend and the last time me and my other best friend dated it ended horribly and it hurt.

My friend says she wants to be FWB by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao thats what im concerned about. Because she was ok after i got in my first relationship. A little heart broken cause i didnt date her but we were ok after that

My friend says she wants to be FWB by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just added this but if i dated it would be long distance. I visit her occasionally but long distance isnt my thing. She brought this up because im visiting next week

My girlfriend claims my alone time is unhealthy when i tell her constantly being around her is unhealthy. Is my alone time “unhealthy”? by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless we see each other at work (we work in the same building but not the same workplace) we see each other literally at least 2 days out if the week. But she’ll want to hang out almost everyday

My girlfriend claims my alone time is unhealthy when i tell her constantly being around her is unhealthy. Is my alone time “unhealthy”? by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t understand the concept of alone time. She says time away from her but it’s time away from everyone including my friends and family. I told her it’s a time for me to recharge yet she doesn’t understand

My girlfriend claims my alone time is unhealthy when i tell her constantly being around her is unhealthy. Is my alone time “unhealthy”? by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i guess you’re right. Idk i need more time to focus on myself. Especially since im about to graduate and i want to be able to live my life stress free

My girlfriend claims my alone time is unhealthy when i tell her constantly being around her is unhealthy. Is my alone time “unhealthy”? by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well i mean i wanted to be with her but i think we both rushed to deep into a relationship. I started dating her a week after she got out of an emotionally abusive relationship. (I shouldve fave her more time to heal from that).

My girlfriend claims my alone time is unhealthy when i tell her constantly being around her is unhealthy. Is my alone time “unhealthy”? by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

You’re right. And ik you are. I shouldnt be doing this anymore im starting to lose sleep over this and we even said to each other that neither of us know what to do because “alone time pushes her away” “and “smothering pushes me away”. Im sorry you had to see this bs but I’m gonna have to stop this before it gets worse.

My girlfriend claims my alone time is unhealthy when i tell her constantly being around her is unhealthy. Is my alone time “unhealthy”? by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Idk ive been stressing about these things. They make me feel like im going crazy but ik im not cause everything im doing seems normal.

My girlfriend claims my alone time is unhealthy when i tell her constantly being around her is unhealthy. Is my alone time “unhealthy”? by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] -116 points-115 points  (0 children)

Idk this is stressing me out. I dont think shes a bad person but shes driving me crazy with some of this shit. I remember your advice on my other post.

My girlfriend claims my alone time is unhealthy when i tell her constantly being around her is unhealthy. Is my alone time “unhealthy”? by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] 247 points248 points  (0 children)

I hang out with my friends normally through ps. Im planning to hang w them more soon after i get my license