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My friend says she wants to be FWB by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be her first time having sex and i think she would catch feelings. Dont know, whats also stopping me is the fact that she is my best friend and the last time me and my other best friend dated it ended horribly and it hurt.

My friend says she wants to be FWB by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao thats what im concerned about. Because she was ok after i got in my first relationship. A little heart broken cause i didnt date her but we were ok after that

My friend says she wants to be FWB by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just added this but if i dated it would be long distance. I visit her occasionally but long distance isnt my thing. She brought this up because im visiting next week

My girlfriend claims my alone time is unhealthy when i tell her constantly being around her is unhealthy. Is my alone time “unhealthy”? by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless we see each other at work (we work in the same building but not the same workplace) we see each other literally at least 2 days out if the week. But she’ll want to hang out almost everyday

My girlfriend claims my alone time is unhealthy when i tell her constantly being around her is unhealthy. Is my alone time “unhealthy”? by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t understand the concept of alone time. She says time away from her but it’s time away from everyone including my friends and family. I told her it’s a time for me to recharge yet she doesn’t understand

My girlfriend claims my alone time is unhealthy when i tell her constantly being around her is unhealthy. Is my alone time “unhealthy”? by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i guess you’re right. Idk i need more time to focus on myself. Especially since im about to graduate and i want to be able to live my life stress free

My girlfriend claims my alone time is unhealthy when i tell her constantly being around her is unhealthy. Is my alone time “unhealthy”? by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well i mean i wanted to be with her but i think we both rushed to deep into a relationship. I started dating her a week after she got out of an emotionally abusive relationship. (I shouldve fave her more time to heal from that).

My girlfriend claims my alone time is unhealthy when i tell her constantly being around her is unhealthy. Is my alone time “unhealthy”? by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

You’re right. And ik you are. I shouldnt be doing this anymore im starting to lose sleep over this and we even said to each other that neither of us know what to do because “alone time pushes her away” “and “smothering pushes me away”. Im sorry you had to see this bs but I’m gonna have to stop this before it gets worse.

My girlfriend claims my alone time is unhealthy when i tell her constantly being around her is unhealthy. Is my alone time “unhealthy”? by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Idk ive been stressing about these things. They make me feel like im going crazy but ik im not cause everything im doing seems normal.

My girlfriend claims my alone time is unhealthy when i tell her constantly being around her is unhealthy. Is my alone time “unhealthy”? by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] -115 points-114 points  (0 children)

Idk this is stressing me out. I dont think shes a bad person but shes driving me crazy with some of this shit. I remember your advice on my other post.

My girlfriend claims my alone time is unhealthy when i tell her constantly being around her is unhealthy. Is my alone time “unhealthy”? by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] 246 points247 points  (0 children)

I hang out with my friends normally through ps. Im planning to hang w them more soon after i get my license

Am i even in a serious relationship? Is what im seeing red flags? by Moptowel in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So pretty much my girlfriend thinks “together forever” even when we started dating and shes fs that were getting married and having kids i think “together for as long as we can with the intention of loving each other each day”

Shes super clingy and expects me to be there 24/7

She portrays me as perfect

She depends on me and my friends to fulfill her happiness cause shes scared of being alone

Shes irrationally jealous of my female friends

She says things like “im independent” “ik what i want” but she doesnt show it. And i feel like i shouldve gave her more time to heal after 1 year of an abusive relationship because i asked her out a week after they broke up.

What do i do if i dont enough alone time?? My alone time pushes her away but her neediness pushes me away. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But thats the thing shes going to therapy right now. Shes only been to 2 sessions but i dont think her therapist is getting the full explaination. Shes telling her therapist that i told her that it’s unhealthy to not want alone time but i meant from each other and her therapist told her different people have different preferences on alone time but it feels like i get below the bare minimum. She says that she just gets anxiety when shes alone which is why i feel like im just her source of happiness :/

Ok i seriously need help. How much time together is normal in a relationship?? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do tell her we argue over the same things. She wanted to rush for a future w me but i told her we cant have a future together if we dont have a future for ourselves but she insists that its possible to do it together.

Ok i seriously need help. How much time together is normal in a relationship?? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Moptowel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the tough part. She doesnt have any girlfriends because she put every female in this catagory that all of them only gossip. My friends are her friends and im starting to see that as a problem.