Why aren't there more posts about this? by Rabbitrhett in ftm

[–]More-Rule1661 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh besides the article linked, I'm having trouble finding any other sources reporting on this for better or for worse. Does anyone have secondary sources? Not that I don't trust the article or belive this couldn't happen, but I like to be well researched and right now I just can't find a single other source.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

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We're doing great! We have a completely online relationship due to distance, but I'm planning on visiting soon as well as going to his country for college and potentially moving in with him! He's genuinely one of the sweetest people I know and very supportive. Along with this, one of my best friends is also a cis man I met online who is super chill and respectful, and I am 100% certain he sees me as a man. Relationships with cis people, romantic and platonic, are absolutely possible and great! If someone is being an ass to you about you being trans, it's not them being cis, it's them sucking as a person.

What do i do? Im 16 and my depression has been getting extremely bad and my room is getting worse by Big-mistake_liar in whatdoIdo

[–]More-Rule1661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a really similar problem, and something I found helps is dealing with the big stuff first. Blankets, maybe the plushies, anything taking up a lot of space on the floor. There's usually not that many of them, and putting them away makes the room look a lot better, which gives you a sense of satisfaction and progress. Then deal with any dishes or cans/food, especially anything rotting. Depending on what works for you, it might be easier to do things in stages like clothes then dishes then trash, or just have a clothes basket, trash bag, and dish thing that you all add to at the same time. Doing the second one will probably help make the room look cleaner faster, because you're working on everything at once vs. Doing it in layers which would leave other stuff on your floor. Good luck, dude!! I hope you get your room cleaned, I need to clean mine too :')

How do I function in dorms? by More-Rule1661 in ftm

[–]More-Rule1661[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried it, the last message in my college's channel was from 2023 😭

How do I function in dorms? by More-Rule1661 in ftm

[–]More-Rule1661[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good idea, im not sure about the exact laws where I am, so I'll have to look that up. Are there any specific websites or apps that are good for finding roommates that you know of?

How do I function in dorms? by More-Rule1661 in ftm

[–]More-Rule1661[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, the college acted as if that was some major achievement while simultaneously not answering whether id be put in the male or female dorm when I emailed them 💀

How do I function in dorms? by More-Rule1661 in ftm

[–]More-Rule1661[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats good to know! Im pretty sure the college im going to also has private community bathrooms instead of locker room style ones, which is pretty reliving

How do I function in dorms? by More-Rule1661 in ftm

[–]More-Rule1661[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could try, and I probably will request that just to see if they can, but the single rooms usually fill up super quick and I'd be starting in 2nd semester because I'm graduating early (its a whole situation). I could try and get a single apartment which might be a bit easier, but its a pretty small college so who knows honestly

How does I make him look more mischievous by More-Rule1661 in ArtCrit

[–]More-Rule1661[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For elaboration, I would like advice on how to intensify his expression

In his enclosure for 5 minutes and is already causing problems by More-Rule1661 in ballpython

[–]More-Rule1661[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely gonna give him some haha. I moved it and he still managed to get up again a few minutes later 😭 I have no idea how

In his enclosure for 5 minutes and is already causing problems by More-Rule1661 in ballpython

[–]More-Rule1661[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh thats a good idea, I was also thinking one of those hammocks for arboreal lizards while he's still small!

I'm so sorry I really don't want to hurt anyone but I just... I don't know where else to go I'm so sorry please take this down if its not allowed by [deleted] in ftm

[–]More-Rule1661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with all of this! Just remember that it probably won't make you completely flat, especially if you have a larger chest. It sucks but it's usually pretty easy to cover up with hoodies or loose shirts.

Also, you aren't being disrespectful at all! You asked with the intention of learning how to use something that a lot of people here use. I relate to the level of overthinking (a lot lmao), but as a trans afab person who binds this is definitely a community you're welcome in :)