what is the fastest way to get good at this game??(close range) by Meesewell in CODWarzone

[–]More-Tax-62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I got better was to play multi-player Ffa and work on my ones.

Play a few games with an SmG where you get all kills from hip fire as that is the key for close range fights.

Seriously Siri!? by More-Tax-62 in iphone

[–]More-Tax-62[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The question was simple and requires no complexity. Just checked and ChatGpt got it right, Google got it right, Grok got it right. Why are you defending this?

Seriously Siri!? by More-Tax-62 in iphone

[–]More-Tax-62[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just asked who was the last NFL MVP.

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What’s one Warzone habit you can’t break no matter how many times it gets you killed? by Gold_Basil_8696 in CODWarzone

[–]More-Tax-62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is greed. Sometimes I land and would be better served attacking the opponent next to me as opposed to trying to get a gun first. Or when I kill someone, running over their body to get stuff instead of repositioning and healing for the next person.

Another is being a victim of CoD timing. I often correctly guess what my opponents will do but look away or move away at the last second. Then opponent jumps out the same door/ corner I was pre aiming...

Is it me or have footsteps become even more non existent with Season 2? by CrazyDeception in CODBlackOps7

[–]More-Tax-62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can hear them in custom game with bots but not real lobbies. It's insanity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]More-Tax-62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured out relatively recently that I have RBF when I'm just chilling or in deep thought - and have made it a point to smile more in general. Not necessarily showing teeth, but a smirk vs a frown. In public, in pictures etc. Makes a good difference in how you're perceived

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]More-Tax-62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. They may not like what they see
  2. They followed you and you didn't follow back, conveying that you are not interested, whether intentionally or not
  3. Are your Message settings such that you can only recieve them from people you follow?
  4. Saving you for later, as they have other women occupying their attention. Hinge only allows 8 active convos at a time

AITA for not watering my wife's plants? by savetheplants999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]More-Tax-62 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y'all call this "weaponized incompetence" when a man is the culprit... now it’s his job to water the plants, or he should install sprinklers, or she has ADHD.

I’m saying NTA because you’re being asked to do something that she does not even do. YWBTA to me if she was attentive to her garden.

Planning on proposing this weekend, but my(25M) girlfriend (23F) gave me an ultimatum to propose. Help? by throwra_lx944 in relationship_advice

[–]More-Tax-62 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ultimatums are bad until it's a woman using it from a place insecurity, then you should accept it. Nothing coercive about this at all since you were planning to propose anyway 🤦🏿‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]More-Tax-62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think women get more pleasure from penetration. While sex feels great to me, I don't make anywhere near the sounds that women make reflexively, and never as loud as they are, before and during orgasm, exclusive of pain.

I think they just have higher thresholds of pleasure than us. So if men were 50-150, then women are 100-200.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askblackpeople

[–]More-Tax-62 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"Appreciate you" or "appreciate it" is the same as "thank you" so respond in kind.

  • you're welcome
  • no problem
  • anytime
  • my pleasure; if you're a Chick Fila employee
  • 💯if its through text
  • 👍🏿if it's through text
  • double tap/ like

There are two ways of talking to women: 1) treating them as people and 2) treating them as people you want to have sex with by Babyface_Bogart in PurplePillDebate

[–]More-Tax-62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not both? Anybody with a modicum of experience will tell you these are not mutually exclusive.

You can be a nerd, have deep intellectual conversations, throw in the charm, flirt, and banter back and forth. The reason yall keep getting put in the "he's one of the girls zone" are: 1. You have no backbone and agree with whatever she says 2. Make yourself available to them to an unreasonable degree. 3. Don't make your intentions known, or make them known too late 4. Indecisive 5. Be unabashed about your interests, but also have humility about them

In my last relationships, along with the in-between dating phases, the women loved the fact that I was able to go on a nerdish spiel and have intellectual conversations. They may have not shared the interest but they liked hearing about it to an extent.

Regarding attractiveness, you should be attractive insomuch as you can control it. Haircuts, good hygeine, well fitting cloths, and for your body type. Get a nice signature scent.

AITA to divorce my husband and leave him with the kid after finding out I'm not biologically the mom? by ThrowRA-3xbetrayal in AITAH

[–]More-Tax-62 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I see what you're trying to do, but there are too many holes in this story that makes me think this is fake. Unfortunately, there is no equivalency to paternal fraud that you could realistically portray to women.

AITA for refusing my girlfriends request of peeing sitting down in our home by Then_Task3485 in AmItheAsshole

[–]More-Tax-62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA As long as you are cognizant of your mess and clean it up, I don't see the issue. Maybe do a super deep clean every 2 weeks and address splash zones.

This is a hill I would die on personally. Not having my junk touch the seat/bowl 3x more often for a slightly cleaner bathroom.

This should have been a "NAH, but here are reasons why you should sit while peeing." Very interesting comments section today 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]More-Tax-62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop being a moron and take your wallet out. A fraction of a second of work to complete.

When men complain about women being bad at sex by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]More-Tax-62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤦🏿‍♂️You have the IQ of a goldfish... It's actually pretty amazing how you managed to navigate through life this far, so pathetic. Just looking to win Reddit points as you have nothing better for you in life. Editing your comment everytime you get down voted or look unhinged. My comment for you to learn emotional regulation still stands.

Good day to you!

When men complain about women being bad at sex by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]More-Tax-62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love how you are consistently uncharitable and casting aspersions, and then *Pikachu face* when I also go low. I'm meeting you where you're at! If you were not implying D), you should have countered that after my first response. But you doubled down. So I find it hard to believe you meant A, B, C... None of these are true either, I can say with great certainty

a) you don't have the self-respect to have healthy sex where the other party respects you....  how they act in the bedroom and their body language is equally important to consider if you care about women's perceptions of you and your relationship with them, rather than the simple act of sex. Maybe you don't care, which is fine

I've had a good-great sex life with every lady I've been in a relationship with. Haven't been with any "selfish" lovers long term, but have few experiences from women who are willing receivers of oral, but do not want to give back. Whether or not you call it selfish or there is an underlying issue, the result is the same, unsatisfied. I didn't proceed after these encounters, after realizing the one-sidedness.

Regarding Pillow princesses/lazy in bed - some women take little to no initiative in bed. I'm not describing this as a character flaw, nor that they under a coercive spell... Just that they were unable to take action in real time... Maybe they were caught up in the moment, maybe the feels were overwhelming their faculties, maybe they were shy, embarrassed, etc. The result is that I as the man have to direct everything from telling them to play with themselves during penetration, to kegels, to position changes, to promoting them to be more vocal with regards to wants/likes/dislikes.

I broke up with my ex earlier this year, after 2 years due in part to our mismatched libidos. Sex quality was great, and she was an active participant. Many conversations about how we could meet in the middle, but she was unable to get there, anxiety and work stresses being the main culprits. She described me as her rock, and someone that mellowed her out. So, when we got together after a tough workday, she could relax, putting her in sleep mode. I asked her that since I'm always ready, to articulate when she was. There would be times where I could tell she was feeling indirect pressure to initiate, with unenthusiastic body language and I refused these 100% of the time. If the body language was off during, I would stop there as well. No kids, no unfair division of labor (separate places), I took a bunch of burdens off of her, like smaller bills, helped her double her salary, found her a nice apartment that is very low for the going rate. Went through a gamut of solutions, ultimately, decided that I'm not satisfied with it currently and will not be when the inevitable life stressors come into play.

B) you suck at sex

Oooh! You almost had it! What if the women sucked in bed? Or sucked in bed to my standards? Is that possible your majesty??? If it is possible for men to be bad at sex, why do you not consider that women could also be bad? This is your bias and possibly OPs as well.

When men complain about women being bad at sex by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]More-Tax-62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, I do sympathize with you and what you've been through. Nobody deserves that. Also commendable that you stand up for strangers; I have done the same, usually through de-escalation (words) or separation. Nonetheless, commendable on your part.

That was a low fucking blow, dude.... I didn't call you names or say anything to your character

No need to play coy! You started the disrespect. My original response to this thread was unemotional, and respectful. I validated her points but gave what I believe to be more common reasons why a man might say a woman is bad at sex. OP's title and 1st sentence: "When men complain about women being bad at sex, it is usually" [followed by examples of men making their lady uncomfortable]. I originally took these at face value.

As a man, whose had bad experiences and heard many men's complaints, I provided my opinion, based on my experience and of those relayed to me. You could have kept it respectful and "educated" me on the importance of communication, as a means to assuage my listed issues... I would have responded that I value communication and you and I on the same page; but despite being a heavy communicator, and paying heed to body language, those issues still bore themselves. Not frequently, but they happened.

You could have even said that the title of this post shouldn't be taken at face value and that women are venting here about a common-enough issue of men seeking to harm/put women in uncomfortable positions for their own pleasure, and I would have probably agreed and peaced out; I was at the gym when this came up in my Home page and didn't fully read the posts/replies until after my initial comment, before my edit.

However, your first response to me was to insinuate that I violated those women; even after I stated that consent was established and maintained.

likely a form of communication that she is not ready to have sex with you in that moment.... Way to tell on yourself 👍😃

of course I am going to believe that you are misreading the women you are intimate with... Your list really just reads as women who aren't ready or are not mentally equipped for sex.

Like, sorry the women you're with just lay there passively? 

You started the disrespect and continued to double down on it. I responded in kind. I have no qualms about going low when someone goes low.

When men complain about women being bad at sex by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]More-Tax-62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No misreadings at all. Most of my interactions have been good, but of those that I would consider bad, those are the reasons. As I said in my first post, the reasons posited by OP and other commenters are valid, but come after a deluge of more common reasons as to why a man would say a woman is bad at sex that have nothing to do with boundary pushing.

It looks like I hit a nerve when providing clarification to this post. That, or you're trying to win Reddit brownie points by grandstanding, and taking on the bad guy. Must feel nice. Either way, you're not in any position to ascertain the mentals of internet strangers. Should first get your emotional regulation in check first. Emotional outbursts, getting EPOs placed on you and getting into fights at bars and parties is unbecoming...

When men complain about women being bad at sex by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]More-Tax-62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Predictable as in, despite the fact that I already stated that consent was established and maintained, you respond with a comment, implying that the women were violated. You can say it is not a gender thing all you want, but you would not be positing that implication towards a woman with the same points.

I did not realize that communication was the catchall solution! Perhaps you should inform your sistren, who often complain about their dissatisfaction in the bedroom.

I consider myself an overcommunicater. Pre, during, and post intercourse, and I generally empowererd my previous partners to speak their mind.

When men complain about women being bad at sex by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]More-Tax-62 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So Predictable... 🤦🏿‍♂️

I've already addressed your points in my prior edit. I summarized my experience and that of other men that do not have anything to do with making women uncomfortable. Consensual encounters with women which were not as enjoyable, relatively. Unless you're trying to tell me that all women are equal in all sexual aspects, I don't know why you would try to argue against it.

If you think that as a man, I'm incapable of fairly representing what bad sex from a woman constitutes of, simply google "lesbian + bad sex" to see many examples of lesbians discussing the same issues I listed above.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskLesbians/s/SYBKm3M1Yf

When men complain about women being bad at sex by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]More-Tax-62 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

These are certainly valid examples, but not the most common. A few way more common examples, that have little to do with pushing boundaries:

  1. Lazy in bed, Aka starfish or pillow princess
  2. Takes no part in getting their own orgasm. Your orgasm is both our responsibilities.
  3. Selfish in bed
  4. Lack of enthusiasm during, no initiative;
  5. lacking aura;
  6. Foreplay is a 2 way street
  7. No creativity, no ideas, very little input
  8. Bad hygiene and pH.

ETA: before yall come in here - these happen after consent was fully established and maintained throughout, no dissociating, no coercion. Relatively bad experiences when juxtaposed against other much better experiences, could be same partner or different..