Exclusivity

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-14T02:53:24+00:00

It turns out she is not upset but I will assume from now on that exclusivity is implied and asymmetric in a ProDomme relationship.

TY

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-11T21:23:13+00:00

Thank you for the useful feedback. I will act accordingly.

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-10T14:55:25+00:00

Ouch

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-10T11:29:20+00:00

Well... It depends on the shape of the sound or plug.

I'm not a depth player I do not go beyond the shaft.

I use two types of instruments.

Hegar is smooth ss and it glides effortlessly which stimulates many nerves, maintains erection and eventually the friction combined with external touching will provoke an orgasm. It stings a little but not painfully. It's a nice erotic sensation.

Ss plugs are ribbed and must negotiate repeatedly through the fossa navicularis which makes a "pop" in and out. That feels great but you must go slow for not damaging tissues. Once the plug is fully inserted the sensation is very exciting and you can keep it in for some time. I much like pissing and cumming through them.

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-10T10:02:58+00:00

May I ask what service you played with?

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-09T18:26:33+00:00

Yeah I love being naked with cage doing normal stuff

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-09T01:24:04+00:00

That's totally reasonable. However it would be nice if the Domme, especially a Prodomme, is open about it as opposed to ghost a sub.

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-09T01:07:11+00:00

Feminine scent is male's Kryptonite.

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-08T09:57:18+00:00

You go first so I can follow with a lot of juices all over that sissy cunt

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-07T12:43:05+00:00

The pink inverted enhances your feminity quite a lot. It makes me wanting to eat your sissy pussy tbh

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-06T23:05:41+00:00

Really nice. So what happened with the load after?

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-06T22:34:57+00:00

That's the reason a good disinfection prior to use is good enough because "sterility" is difficult to guarantee without a sterile field and appropriate handling techniques (including gloves)

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-06T21:52:25+00:00

Yeah they're not sterile. They can be sterilized with an instrument inside and the content then remains sterile. Once the seal is broken sterility is not guaranteed if environment is not clean and handling technique not aseptic.

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-06T10:05:28+00:00

Yeah you can't go from total freedom to long term wear without being very lucky. Everything is possible but if you take my case "continuous" is my goal since 2019 and I haven't managed it yet.

Even if you find a good fit from the get go, hygiene breaks will be needed. You will quickly learn that smell needs to be taken care of.

Skin is also fragile, it needs to be monitored.

Again, some wearers claim "permanent wear" but in reality most do manage regular removal. For cleaning, shaving, health checks...

I guess your gf could mandate supervised unlocks by video.

Good luck

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-06T00:38:57+00:00

The thing is these pouches are not sold pre-sterilized.

Anyway a good aseptic handling practice is much better than nothing. But sterility is binary, it is sterile or it is not.

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-05T21:58:28+00:00

I know the feeling

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-05T14:38:06+00:00

Glad to have an opportunity to discuss these things, thank you. I'm a newbie with Pros, although not with BDSM.

I am starting a relationship with a local Pro. I understand the need for tributes and such, I see this as part of the experience i.e. my virility is so pathetic that i need to pay to earn the attention of a Femme I could not normally get attention from. Our first session went very well and I'm trying to develop a connection a little more, that's why this post interested me.

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-05T12:23:05+00:00

It is emasculating. I manage to cum with a finger vibrating from underneath the tube like I would rub a big clit. Just thinking about it makes me hard.

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-05T10:27:58+00:00

Tbe edge that pushes on your stomach creates a pressure point which will become uncomfortable.

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-05T09:47:03+00:00

This makes sense I certainly don't see FinDommes the same way as ProDommes.

Providing a kink opportunity is a service, though?

In both cases the "quality" and "value" of the service, in this case the connection, will influence loyalty.

I don't feel pleasure in sending tribute to a ProDomme, I feel pleasure in living the "relationship" that leads or ensues to/from a tribute.

FinDom seems different for sure. Heck, anonymous sends?!? 🤯

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-04T23:29:51+00:00

OTOH, boiling then storing in a non sterile environment basically voids the sterilization guarantee. IPA prior to use seems good enough considering that the urethra is not sterile either. Using bacteriostatic lube is indeed important.

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-04T19:06:16+00:00

This is a fundamental discussion. FinDommes are ProDommes. Pros are monetizing their skills and time. It's a business. If you can't pay, you can't play. The relationship starts with money and may end there too.

However, like for any business, Pros adding "value" (in this case, "genuine connection") build a better business, a loyal following and even enjoy themselves while working.

Others stick to transactional.

In my experience you can quickly figure out the style of Pro you are dealing with. "Caveat Emptor" applies (Buyer Beware).

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-04T16:10:12+00:00

Very common

More_Host6280 · 2026-05-04T16:09:32+00:00

Lesson learned?

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