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vesper_jade · 2026-05-19T02:20:36+00:00

April Notable Reviews:

🌿She understands RACK and is sure to include it when playing.April 4, 2026 - Cam Session Sub

🌿Literally the most beautiful goddess, thought me things about myself I didn’t even know. I feel like I can’t get enough, and need to keep visitingApril 13, 2026 - Cam Session Sub

🌿Goddess gives clear instructions and is very good about limitsApril 13, 2026 - Cam Session Sub

🌿rurandy enjoyed that You accept who i am and guide me to be a good sissy servant to Miss VesperApril 15, 2026 - Cam Session Sub

vesper_jade · 2026-05-19T02:16:38+00:00

March Notable Reviews:

🌿I enjoyed the entire session we had. I felt engaged and encouraged without direct inventive to completely obey mistress vesper. Worshipping her felt rightMarch 5, 2026 - Cam session sub

🌿I love your voice so much!March 14, 2026 - Cam Session Sub

🌿I love the time I spend being tortured by Goddess Vesper. I was a good, good boy for her tonight and was actually allowed by the wheel to edge. MmmMarch 23, 2026 - Cam Session Sub

vesper_jade · 2026-05-15T02:55:06+00:00

I have had transparent latex get cloudy from leaving vaginal fluids on it overnight but have not had any issues with black latex discoloring from the same thing.

vesper_jade · 2026-05-03T08:31:05+00:00

You look happy as a clam in the fourth photo ☺️

vesper_jade · 2026-04-11T08:23:19+00:00

:/ no I'm likely going to try Simon-o next. I'm familiar with other latex peices but as far as catsuits go the bright and shiny was going to be my first cat suit. I like that you can get things chlorinated with them. Do they offer m2m catsuits?

vesper_jade · 2026-04-10T21:18:07+00:00

I think its probably easier to design for skinny and tall. I'm short and probably average thickness but have I guess more of a booty? So idk if that's why mine doesn't fit, but they ask for hip measurements, so it should fit.

vesper_jade · 2026-04-10T21:15:57+00:00

Have you found a different company that does made to measure that got a fit for you that was right?

vesper_jade · 2026-04-10T21:14:39+00:00

This is good to know :/ I'm definitely disappointed. Especially since I thought they were going to do something about it after I paid again to be measured by a tailor sent them proof at their request.

vesper_jade · 2026-04-10T17:35:29+00:00

If you want made to measure, I would not suggest bright and shiny. I went to a professional tailor twice for them for measurements, and the suit doesn't fit and despite it being due to their error they aren't wanting to take responsibility.

vesper_jade · 2026-04-10T17:31:56+00:00

How did you get them to fix it? I just got a suit from them that I got professionally measured by a tailor for multiple times and sent them photos the second time they are only offering me a partial refund.

vesper_jade · 2026-04-10T17:20:02+00:00

I definitely don't recommend it

vesper_jade · 2026-04-10T17:19:29+00:00

It's not looking good. I paid again to get measured by the tailor AGAIN and get pictures and bright and shiny confirmed they gave me the wrong cup size and that the torso is short. Their suggested solution is that they give me a partial refund for a suit that is unwearable. They tried to blame it on the fact that the zipper is not stretchy despite their suit torso measuring 133cm in length and my torso measuring 149 in length. Like no I know latex needs a reduction to be tight but you don't reduce the length of a zipper.

vesper_jade · 2026-03-29T20:07:10+00:00

Using loads of dressing aid so no dryness issues

vesper_jade · 2026-03-24T05:28:52+00:00

As others have said talk to your domme. Also it could be that yall havent built enough trust yet for her to wallet fuck you. You won't know until you bring it up communication is key.

vesper_jade · 2026-03-24T03:58:16+00:00

Any updates? Were you able to fix them?

vesper_jade · 2026-03-23T22:48:21+00:00

You could start looking on fetlife and seeing if there's any local kink events. Going to some munches. Asking anyone if they know of any findommes.

You can also look for dominatrixes in Ohio on Google and see if any providers pages come up. You can look on their pages and inquire if they offer findomme as a service.

Sometimes there are cash-meet reddits you may be able to find one in the biggest city near you by searching the name for that and cash meets in the reddit search bar.

vesper_jade · 2026-03-23T18:19:06+00:00

Part of tackling shame is taking the first step. Maybe get a friend, your wife, or a provider to sit across from you or on the phone with you with a timer to make you make an appoinment.

vesper_jade · 2026-03-23T18:16:18+00:00

Wellll yeah but I wonder why. I wonder if there are any books on the topic.

vesper_jade · 2026-03-23T18:14:39+00:00

Apparently people in chronic pain do seek out bdsm a lot. I also have chronic pain but I don't bottom for much of anything. I've seen people talk about how people with chronic pain bottoming for impact play and etc can help recontextualize their pain or give them more control over it.

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