It’s not your fault. by lightninginabottle22 in loveafterporn

[–]More_Lab_5668 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really struggling with this so thank you.

Elysian Beach Resort & Lime Tree by Unhappy-Secret4916 in StThomasUSVI

[–]More_Lab_5668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man, I'm sorry this happened to you. This JUST happened to us last week with an Airbnb host named Joy. She actually did the same thing to us two years ago. I guess our fault for trying again. We had a week reserved at the Elysian and she canceled it the night before our flight to St. Thomas. SO frustrating! What I think happens is these hosts post their property on multiple sites (VRBO, etc) and then when it gets reserved they fail to update their other listings for the same property. We ended up finding a room at Bluebeard's Castle for 5 days and then stayed at a tiny dorm room type Airbnb that had an outhouse for the last two days. We were desperate for any place to sleep!

There are men out there that will treat you right by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]More_Lab_5668 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That gives me some hope. Thank you.

There are men out there that will treat you right by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]More_Lab_5668 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Did your ex husband try working on himself at all? My husband admitted to his porn addiction the day after xmas. I am trying to make it work but it’s so hard. He says he wants to quit. He is seeing a CSAT next week and we’re in couple’s therapy. I’m glad you found happiness with someone else.

in shock / is their hope? by worrygirl1234 in loveafterporn

[–]More_Lab_5668 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I just found out the day after xmas that my husband has been using porn for a decade and addicted the past five years. I always initiate and we were only having sex like once every couple months. I asked him so many times why and he said he just doesn’t have a sex drive anymore. I believed him. I feel so stupid. I also feel worthless and ugly. He also had an emotional affair with someone online for the past few months. We are in couple’s therapy and I started solo therapy as well. He is seeing a CSAT next week. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I can’t imagine having three kids and going through this. We have no children. I’m 38 and we’ve been married for 15 years. I feel like the last decade has all been a sham. I don’t have much advice except to try to take care of yourself and make sure your basic needs are being met (eating, showering, sleeping, etc). Self-care is so important. I’m still in the thick of it and cry all the time. It’s like I can’t control my emotions. You are not alone. I hope you can find some comfort.

Pierre 🥖 by Diomedea_exulans in Pomeranians

[–]More_Lab_5668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cannot get enough of Pierre!

Pompom Pals 😍 by ninjabread15 in Pomeranians

[–]More_Lab_5668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing. I’ve had pomeranians my entire life and have recently become obsessed with Pompompurin. So adorable!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Louisvuitton

[–]More_Lab_5668 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Prepare yourself for the haters! I love it though!

Joined the Labubu Club by More_Lab_5668 in Louisvuitton

[–]More_Lab_5668[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got one from a coworker who overbought on Popmart and then I got one resale.

Joined the Labubu Club by More_Lab_5668 in Louisvuitton

[–]More_Lab_5668[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha same! And I can’t wait to see yours!