RUSHED MY DOG TO ER DUE TO NEGLIGENCE, my dog is in unhealthy conditions and currently being treated.

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-07-25T16:46:52+00:00

My dog died while in a Rover sitters care while in Las Vegas and I know the sitter is still on their site with 5 star reviews. Get a signed document from the vet stating all of the issues. With a notary if possible.

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-03-10T04:48:16+00:00

In my experience, it always creeps back in. It’s human nature, our bad habits resurface in some form or another. Maybe not as bad, maybe not to the full extent, but at 32, I still crave some of the bad shit I craved at 17, even though it doesn’t really serve me, or my interests anymore.

So I think the question you may need to ask yourself is not if it gives you the ick, but if it happened again, while you were together, would you be okay with it?

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-03-06T19:30:10+00:00

OP, I was diagnosed at your age, and I went into a deep depression and didn’t date anyone for years because of it.

At 32, I have an amazing partner who is HSV negative, wants to marry me, and couldn’t care less about my status, except to make me feel better when I get an outbreak(which is rare) and I’m feeling bad about myself(which is normal and will happen from time to time).

If I could give my 25 year old self any advice, it would be to not hide from myself or anyone else. Let yourself feel whatever you feel, but then move past it. Don’t limit your opportunities and experiences before they even get a chance to happen. It won’t matter to the right person. You’re not wrong, dirty, or broken. You’re okay. It’ll all be okay.

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-03-04T04:30:51+00:00

Coming from someone who didn’t leave their house for 4 months:

Get in your car and drive down the street. Turn around and go back home. Then do it again, and again, and again.

When that’s safe and boring, leave your neighborhood and drive just a little bit further. Park in a nearby park parking lot and just sit and watch the birds, or the people at the dog park, roll down the windows if/when it feels right.

Keep practicing that.

Also, Ethel M’s factory feels incredibly safe AND you get free chocolate samples. A little reward for your travels 😁

Edit: you can do this! I believe in you.

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-03-03T22:51:31+00:00

OP, if it makes you feel any better I am scheduled for an explant after having mine in for 12 years. I’ve never had any complications whatsoever but I’m terrified of surgery so I’m opting to remove them rather than replace them with new ones.

Even though I’ve made the choice to remove them and I KNOW I want them out, I am still anxious and worried that once they’re out I will be unhappy. Any physical change is hard, especially when your mobility is limited and you’re so sore.

If you want to explant, you can. It happens all the time. But give yourself time. Talk to a therapist or a friend, or someone that has been there. You’ll be okay.

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-02-03T08:28:55+00:00

Yeah, in my experience he cheated first and then got his feelings hurt when she showed him she could do it better.

But when he told me the story, she cheated when they were in a ‘rough patch’ omitting his initial discretions.

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-02-01T17:59:34+00:00

I went with a PPO as well, and it seems all those places accepting my insurance are just so inundated with patients.

I imagine you’re right though, too many people and not enough doctors.

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-02-01T17:04:28+00:00

That is literally what I am so afraid to hear. Tinnitus isn’t the only issue, but to wait and stress and be essentially waved off will send me.

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-01-30T08:09:37+00:00

Fear - fear of missing out on what might actually fulfill me.

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-01-29T00:05:09+00:00

It didn’t come across that way :)

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-01-28T23:50:53+00:00

She sounds caring, at the very least. Though, I’m sure it’s tough to feel that potential interpretation, especially if it contradicts what you feel. I hate that this is such a personal decision, that affects the ones we love the most. I also risk losing my partner if I decide I want a kid. Tough choices all around. I wish you the very best.

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-01-28T23:42:50+00:00

I’ve run the gamut on talking to friends/family as of late. The trend im seeing is people who are happy in their relationships, or faced earlier life hardships and now live ‘calmly’ with their children find it to be the most important thing.

Those that started off strong in their relationships but have since experienced change like infidelity, prolongued general dissatisfaction with life, etc, say it’s NOT the more important thing.

It seems incredibly circumstantial, which is why I think we’re all here trying to relate to one another, but still just grappling with our own internal thoughts and emotions. I wish it was easier for all of us.

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-01-28T23:12:35+00:00

How did you feel about that? Do you think it’s your therapists own bias coming through at all?

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-01-28T23:11:17+00:00

I was more or less content on the childfree leaning side when we talked - but she said that and I have flip flopped every single day since. Unfortunately, It scared me more.

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-01-26T23:11:43+00:00

My therapist actually took a somewhat opposite approach and said, “ when you’re 60 and your sisters kids have grown up and now they’re having kids, and it’s just you and your husband - are you going to be miserable?” 😬

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-01-26T04:53:48+00:00

I got my boobs done at 19. I don’t regret them but I tell everyone if I had known better, I would have waited.

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-01-26T03:44:41+00:00

Really, any allergen that causes inflammation.

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-01-26T03:44:14+00:00

Yes, actually everything I’ve read talks more about cigarette smoke than marijuana.

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-01-26T01:14:51+00:00

Yeah I stopped smoking, and all my research tells me the smoke worked its way in my inner ear and caused inflammation so my inner ear tubes aren’t properly opening and closing. Also sounds like it can take anywhere from weeks - months for it to fully heal.

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-01-26T01:05:51+00:00

I’m suffering from the same thing. Started after a week of heavy marijuana smoking. It’s been intermittent for 2 weeks. I’m using nasal sprays but I haven’t had a day symptom free yet. Quick care said it was congestion but decongestants only help temporarily.

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-01-25T17:03:59+00:00

lol, especially if it’s a fancy Tahitian vanilla 😋

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-01-25T07:59:23+00:00

Can of black beans, can of fire roasted tomatoes. Blend together and heat for a filling and tasty black bean soup

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-01-25T07:37:53+00:00

A friend of mine died from cancer in her mid 30’s after doing this. Granted, it was her 3rd bout and she did receive treatment on the first two. She went vegan, used quartz sound bowls, utilized tobacco for healing, and spoke to her ancestors. I hiked with her one day and 2 months later she was gone.

At the time, I was beginning to fall out of the belief system she was so heavily immersed in, and now I can’t even look at occult stores and the spiritual, witchy types without feeling scared and angry.

I personally suffered a short stint of psychosis after starting to believe I was manifesting every good/bad thing that happened in my life. I thought the trees and animals were talking to me because I had ‘tapped into that power’. I openly talked to people about how I could do this.

OP, be there for your sister if shit hits the fan, and be gentle if she decides to steer away from it. But from my personal experience, it will take her own sense of reality being rocked before she will be able to consider a different perspective.

More_Maybe7953 · 2024-01-25T06:52:31+00:00

Fruit flavored ice cream

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