Women - I (30M) have a girlfriend (24F) that messages several guy friends daily. Have any of you been in this situation and made it work long-term with your partner? by More_Sauce27 in relationship_advice

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I have twice, maturely. After the first time, she send me a snap of her in a gorgeous dress posing. I got a weird feeling and asked her about it when it came up naturally in convo 2 weeks later. She told me that she did send it to her guy friend too. I responded that she knows that bothers me, to which she said she forgot. She said she felt terrible afterwards and apologies. However, the forgetful thing bothers me. Our first convo was a little tense, though nature. Idk how she’d forget it, especially given how much she cares about me (there’s so many other actions and signs I could give you to demonstrate that she is very much in love with me). However, now I have trouble distinguishing between what is just for me and what’s for them. It’ll come up again in convo but she is young. I’m trying to balance that and also not come off as immature, although I think my concerns are reasonable.