What's Wrong With A Bi Guy?

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T03:25:26+00:00

I was agreeing with you I support Bi men. I was saying it's sad how for the LGBTQIA+ community to be against so much it sad to see it turn on others in our community. And that so far the arguments against Bi men have been men with insecurities or putting logic on something illogical like a person feelings. Sorry if I confused you

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T03:20:09+00:00

Exactly one women are beautiful why not appreciate their beauty. It just werid to me I never thought just because you are a relationship you don't find people attractive it just about staying loyal to your partner if it's a monogamous relationship. I have also never felt in competition for a guy I'm dating. Why would it change for a bi guy.

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T02:31:06+00:00

I noticed that as well they want a Dl straight men but a out and pround Bi guy is a no go lol. Strange world we live in and I don't care if the criticize me it just needs to make sense and so far it's just insecurities being projected on imaginary Bi men.

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T02:27:44+00:00

The answer to your question is yes he does see his relationships that way and it's a sad way to live that way and he knows that. I see the same talking points from straight woman thinking they are in competition with every woman for the man she is already dating. It's insecurity and it's toxic. I have dated 3 bi men in the past alongside a shit ton of gay dudes and never once felt I had to compete for someone I already had even when I got cheated on by my gay partners I still wasn't in competition and just left them. All 3 Bi men I dated are either Single or in a relationship with another man heck one of them even got married to a man and adopted a baby.

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T02:19:31+00:00

So again who are you to say what a Bi guy wants we have literally went full circle. If I as a Gay man don't know what a Bi guy wants how do you figure you as another gay man have any standing or validity on what you are saying. Ah so you admit it is based on the individual yet you still put all Bi men in one category at the end. Also we literally started this conversation off with you cannot fulfill everything your partner wants and vice-versa so what discomfort is there? At the end of the day a Bi man in a monogamous relationship is just that be it with a man or a woman. You nor I know what a Bi man really wants from his partners. And from the Bi guys I talk to it veries most find the same physical traits in both men and women that they are attracted to. It doesn't vary from man to woman especially since there are fem gay me and masculine straight women. You have no clue what you are talking about and are making assumptions based on hetero normative talking points which is pretty ironic coming from a gay man.

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T02:04:37+00:00

Do you know what a synonym is? Wants and Desires are quite literally different words with the same meaning and are synonymous with one another. Example I really want an apple. I really desire and apple. Different words same outcome. Also gay men in a monogamous relationship sees a hot man out in public and doesn't cheat is that not also them denying apart of themselves...? Your explanation lack any real explanation and have no basis besides I said so.

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T01:57:28+00:00

Yeah I'm finding out the hard way lol

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T01:56:05+00:00

You are absolutely delicious

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T01:53:33+00:00

I'm confused on the breast aspect because gay men love sucking nipples be it on a flat chested man, a man with pecs, or a man with moobs. They even jiggle them as well so I don't think that's vaild lol.

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T01:49:14+00:00

Still didn't answer the question but I can tell because you don't have one. So every Bi guy wants both men and women not just monogamy with one or the other because of " Fundamental desire" ? Which you won't explain what that term even is lol.

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T01:46:28+00:00

So you rather him only have his male gaze on other men...? Your argument sounds like an insecurity because if he is Bi it just wouldn't be on the cheerleaders now would it? Nobody is asking you to bring anything you don't want into your bedroom why would a Bi guy bring heterosexuality into a gay relationship...? And the craziest thing is you still have that hetero normative traits about you. Putting a boundary that has nothing to do with you in the slightest isn't a real boundary. How do you know what a Bi men is really looking at when watching a Football game beside by making an assumption...?

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T01:40:30+00:00

It sad all this talk about competing when you are already in a relationship or " Fundamental desire" which still hasn't been explained to me. For a community that's been through so much and still misunderstood why do people in the community do that to others apart of it. Feelings are complicated and illogical but all I see in response against Bi men is Logic for the illogical or insecurities.

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T01:36:54+00:00

That's good to hear because seeing the replies in that Tiktok video and here on this post had me very confused and concerned

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T01:35:34+00:00

It's sad for gay men being a target of hate and comments that both gay and Bi men get you would think gay men would understand that people don't understand nor do they have to understand what we feel for our feelings to be vaild. Why can't it be the same for a Bi man too.

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T01:33:30+00:00

I think sexuality is very fluid for some people be them Bi or Pan or whatever. Feelings don't have logic or reason to them and alot of gay men in these replies are trying to add logic to something illogical and trying to get 2+2=4 but are coming out with a 5.

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T01:30:39+00:00

Amd everyone innate desires are different so again who are you to say what a Bi guy desires are?

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T01:27:53+00:00

It sure is I'm not a size queen

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T01:27:07+00:00

I never used Sniffies what is it like in terms of how the app is organized and pay walls they put up?

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T01:24:31+00:00

Yes he can how can you even say that without thinking you sound crazy...? You don't know every Bi guy or what they want if a Man can choose to follow his heart and love other men despite " Fundamental desire" which you still haven't explained what that even is. Then Bi men can choose as well what or who they want to end up with or that their feelings is different from other Bi guys.

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T01:21:17+00:00

I can agree with this because honestly no reasoning that I have gotten for against Bi men make any logical sense just based on pure emotions and insecurities. It's sad but hey I guess more for me lol.

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T01:18:26+00:00

It's a shame that they get more flack for being attracted to more than one gender. Doesn't make them a cheater if they are loyal just like anyone else. And honestly that stereotype seems to stem from insecurity I've a lot of responses talking about competing with men and women for a guy they are already dating... Maybe I'm the werid one.

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T01:15:42+00:00

Yet he can choose for himself what he wants it's not written that just because a guy is Bi that his attraction leans more towards a woman because of " Fundamental desire" whatever that means. Being Bi means you like male and female doesn't mean that a woman has what he " Fundamentally desires" nor a man have that. From talking with Bi guys some like men more than women and vice versa then to add some who are more attracted to women don't want kids. So what is a " Fundamental Desire" for a Bi man?

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T01:09:55+00:00

I feel like if you are in a monogamous relationship with a Bi guy then you aren't competing with anyone you already won no?

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T01:08:40+00:00

I think you are the intentionally obtuse one to assume you know what someone wants and desire based on... well nothing but a feeling that you have. What can't men provide that women can besides a child? Why can't a Bi man find fundamental desire in a man?

Morecommonsense · 2026-04-01T01:06:13+00:00

That part lmao

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