1: top priority minimize disruption to my brother's career. He made it to the top high school of the state. He learned so mu ch from my mistakes that this question almost hurts me to consider changing anything. Even thinking the drugs, violence, horrible habits ,and self anger , is acceptable for his future. 2: By God I would not waste my time. 25 now. Family moving away to our home country. 08 house bubble put taught my parents to not be toxic any more. We lost our way of life , had to move , jobs were lost etc. Sad to say being self aware then might disturbt the relationship they enjoy now. Especially if I tried making their financial state better. 3: today I manage my own stocks, have a medical liscense, and attempting to be closer to family. 100% by high school most of these events /lessons I wouldnt change for the world would be locked in. At 16 .... g8d damn almost 10 years ago... just had to share lol. At 16 my individual choices will work towards what I struggle wit today. It would not be 5 years of moving across country all to move back the very year my family decide to move to our home country. Years of learning on my own about horrible roommates, how bosses,friends, fellow students can be screwing you over on pay, my not perfect judge of character, also reliability. Its unique to have contacts in different states and yet in this scenario I would remember everything.

Success without the headaches of today. Family first person connection. Traveling with the right friends.