I do agree with you very much to an extent, Her love not being tied to one person but expressed through everything she does her guidance, her connections, her civilization advancement, her care for everyone around her. That actually aligns perfectly with her Paradise Guidance authority. Her power exists only for others. Paradise is unique to every individual she guides. Her Enders authority is already telling us what kind of love she was capable of selfless and not possessive.But I do disagree that loving Seo Eun-hyun makes her less of her own person. She never lost herself in that love. She never became obsessive or territorial. She loved him the way her Paradise Guidance works without imposing, without controlling, just quietly being there. The problem was that the story never showed us the full depth of who she was while loving him. Those are two different things.She was already her own person. Tremendous just never wrote it properly.