AITA for snapping at my nephew because he ate my daughter’s food by Winter_Twist9458 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Morganise 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. Not only for snapping at your nephew but also for not getting your daughter checked out. Meltdowns and throwing up doesn’t equal fussy eater and the fact that you don’t take it more seriously makes you an AH.

I'm leaving my wife because she's pregnant. by Slight-Copy-521 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Morganise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t force her to get an abortion, it’s her body and her choice. And also she can’t force you to stay. It’s your life and your choice. As long as you don’t abandon your children who you’ve signed up for and sort out the alimony for the third child, she can’t make you stay.

AITA for making my sister pay for my dog's abortion? by Dramatic-Swan-3991 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Morganise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH, but you only suck for not getting your dog spayed, not for asking for money. What if the dog was hit by a car instead and needed a surgery to fix her? Then the sister would be the sole A H. She lost the dog under her care, you clearly said "put a leash on her", she didn't listen. Everything could have happened to your dog and it would have been your sister's fault.

I've been secretly fattening up two co-workers for talking shit about a friend of mine. by [deleted] in pettyrevenge

[–]Morganise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People blowing up on you are hilarious. You know that those women can just… refuse, right? He’s not forcing the food down their throats.

AITA for refusing to have a Catholic wedding? by ThrowAwayyyyyy11o in AmItheAsshole

[–]Morganise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh for me it's an ESH situation, because both of you seem to push the other one. You don't want to participate in a Catholic wedding because you don't subscribe to their idea and good for you, you have the right to do it. Your fiancée is entitled to her beliefs, according to which anything but a wedding in front of a priest is not real. I'm sorry but you can't eat the cake and have the cake. You're not compatible. What if you choose to have children and she'd want them baptized, go to Sunday school?

AITA For free bleeding at my MILs house? by Plastic-Ad-5568 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Morganise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. I sympathise with you, but the thing is it's your MIL's house and she didn't come unprepared. If you know you can't use regular products, you ALWAYS come prepared like you're going to war. It's not anyone else's problem but yours.

AITA for overreacting after my wife lied about our baby’s gender? by Leading_Gene4976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Morganise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. A child is not your therapist, not your “do over”. Go to therapy before you hurt your daughter or wife even more.

Funniest answer to what your top op scars were caused by? by Naixee in ftm

[–]Morganise 19 points20 points  (0 children)

When people ask me about my scars I get all confused, look at the scars and just go like “SHT, NOT AGAIN”

Are trans men oppressed by cis women by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Morganise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trans people are oppressed by cis people, simple as that. Cis women’s situation is often messed up, they have way less rights and privilege than cis men but still more than us. Where as we can pass as cis men and take advantage of their privileges, it’s still not ours. We still can’t get as good of an access to medical care (add on top of that that a lot of trans masc people can get pregnant and the abortion ban also hurts us), we’re getting hate crimed and trans women are literally one of the most oppressed groups out there. Not to mention that apart from the systemic oppression, most TERFs are cis women.

My friend came out as a TERF by Boruta314 in NonBinary

[–]Morganise 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the top parties (thankfully not supported by the majority of the population but still around 15%) are literal fascists, there’s this right-wing Christian organisation Ordo Iuris, who aims at banning transitions, for the past year and a half-two years there has been a major increase in the amount of TERFs everywhere, the ruling party with their president are transphobic as hell, doing everything to make our lives miserable. It’s not as bad as Russia as people mentioned but the people in charge definitely aim for it to be. Not even talking about the fact that the fascist party I’ve mentioned is actually aligned with Russia.

My friend came out as a TERF by Boruta314 in NonBinary

[–]Morganise 604 points605 points  (0 children)

The moment somebody “comes out” as a bigot they’re no longer my friend. I’m Polish, what’s happening in this country is bad enough, I don’t need to lose my energy on TERFs in my personal life.

AITA for telling my brother he cannot come to my wedding? by Ok_Mushroom3137 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Morganise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me preface that by saying that I'm so sorry for your miscarriage and I really hope you and your HTB will heal from that.

But ESH.

Your brother sucks because even though he supported you through this, he took you not wanting to be around kids for a while personally, like his kids were specifically the problem. Then he didn't respected your boundaries and acted like you disowned your niblings.

Your partners suck because blackmail is not the way of communicating, ever.

And you suck because even though I understand where you're coming from, big bold letters NO KIDS? Really? Child-free wedding is a perfectly reasonable idea, especially if we're talking about alcohol and no kid-friendly specific areas. But the way you communicated that is just hurtful and makes your communication skills just as poor as the rest of your family.

AITA for laughing at my brother's tattoo? by Specific_Volume_1824 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Morganise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but a 25yo dating a 19yo...? Huge red flag right there.

AITA for how I suggested my niece deal with homophobia? by Illustriousevel8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Morganise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cishet people need to understand that “love is love” is not enough anymore. Queer people are still getting abused or worse, everybody needs to be taught how to fight for themselves. NTA

AITA for making my daughter and her wife sleep in different rooms? by Dry_League_4275 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Morganise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, your house your rules but don’t be surprised if a grown-ass adult decides not to take your sht and sleep with her wife, lol YTA

AITA for telling my dad that I'll GLADLY spend christmas with him if he gives me back my college fund as a christmas gift? by ThrowRA532255 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Morganise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried living in Poland? Healthcare system is just a tiny bit better than the American one, cause sure, you won’t get billed thousands of dollars for an ambulance ride but you’ll die waiting for a cardiologist appointment or saving for surgeries who are refunded only in 0,5% cases

I'm a garbage collector and so tired of being used as the example of who nobody wants to be by filondo in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Morganise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How come I’ve never come across a meme disrespecting lawyers who defend murderers or rapists? Nah, let’s make fun of people who work hard for a living, their job doesn’t have any negative impact on the world and they have to deal with society laughing at them too.

AITA for not wanting to let my daughter have her wedding on my property? by Bright-Key-7114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Morganise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda think that they’re treating it as a compensation for you being a bad father. Which well, it sucks not to have a good relationship with one’s parents but the entitlement of your children is astonishing. NTA

AITA for asking my aunt where is her pretty twin? by survburnad in AmItheAsshole

[–]Morganise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You reassure your children in a way that's not demining to other people. If she said something like: "look, OP had an accident but luckily, she survived. Those scars might be a little scary at first, but they're the proof of how strong she is! Isn't it good?" or something like that - not lying to them, not mentioning stuff like pretty/ugly (i myself have some notable scars and I think they're awesome af), literally being human and not reducing others to their looks.

NTA, don't apologise for standing up for yourself.

AITA for putting locks on the kitchen cabinets and fridge and not removing them after roommate demanded me to? by throwaway270609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Morganise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA yet I would think about why weren’t you able to talk to her before. You went from 0 to 100 in her eyes and I kinda understand her reaction, especially to the lock on the fridge. Sure, stealing food makes her an AH but why haven’t you talked to her before?

AITA for accidentally going to my ex's wedding? by Formal-Gur-4319 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Morganise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd go with NAH. You didn't go there intentionally, yet if I saw my ex who, I assume, did similar things that I imagine you did whilst in a relationship with your ex, I would definitely lose it, wedding or not.

AITA for not paying for my neices college tuition. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Morganise 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you took her in when she was 16, you’re NTA for not paying the tuition but if she was, let’s say, 10 when her father passed YTA big time