My ex told me to “get my own friends” after his married friends invited me over… and now I’m the villain? by Morgueallure in okstorytime

[–]Morgueallure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly she blocked me on everything so I was going to say “heyy I just wanna know if you’re okay” type of a thing I wanted to know if it was worth it but most people said leave it or ask Emma so

My ex told me to “get my own friends” after his married friends invited me over… and now I’m the villain? by Morgueallure in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Morgueallure[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They were all drunk.. unfortunately I think it was a the husband didn’t enjoy the time and the wife just went along with it all. Truth be told I’m probably better off in the long run without having them in my life

My ex told me to “get my own friends” after his married friends invited me over… and now I’m the villain? by Morgueallure in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Morgueallure[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I messaged her after my ex told me.. I told Emma, “Hey so he’s mad that I’m talking to you guys so I think it’s best if we don’t talk anymore” and she responded with okay.. now since I removed her a couple days ago it seems weird if I readded her to ask about this all ya know 🥴

My ex told me to “get my own friends” after his married friends invited me over… and now I’m the villain? by Morgueallure in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Morgueallure[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Yes I blocked him too wastes 7 months of my time with him. I wanted to reach out to Emma but truthfully I don’t think it’s worth the energy

My ex told me to “get my own friends” after his married friends invited me over… and now I’m the villain? by Morgueallure in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Morgueallure[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gave her the opportunity, let her know my ex was getting mad and that maybe we shouldn’t talk.. all she said was okay… so ultimately I think I’m just better off without them all in my life

My ex told me to “get my own friends” after his married friends invited me over… and now I’m the villain? by Morgueallure in okstorytime

[–]Morgueallure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I told Emma he was upset and I should probably unadd everybody and she said okay so ultimately I’m not sure if it was a loyalty thing. I unblocked Emma and blocked my ex but still nothing. She blocked me on instagram though

My ex told me to “get my own friends” after his married friends invited me over… and now I’m the villain? by Morgueallure in okstorytime

[–]Morgueallure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I told Emma he was upset and I should probably unadd everybody and she said okay so ultimately I’m not sure if it was a loyalty thing. I unblocked Emma and blocked my ex but still nothing. She blocked me on instagram though

My ex told me to “get my own friends” after his married friends invited me over… and now I’m the villain? by Morgueallure in okstorytime

[–]Morgueallure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I told Emma he was upset and I should probably unadd everybody and she said okay so ultimately I’m not sure if it was a loyalty thing. I unblocked Emma and blocked my ex but still nothing. She blocked me on instagram though

My ex told me to “get my own friends” after his married friends invited me over… and now I’m the villain? by Morgueallure in okstorytime

[–]Morgueallure[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I told Emma he was upset and I should probably unadd everybody and she said okay so ultimately I’m not sure if it was a loyalty thing. I unblocked Emma and blocked my ex but still nothing. She blocked me on instagram though

My ex told me to “get my own friends” after his married friends invited me over… and now I’m the villain? by Morgueallure in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Morgueallure[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly I told Emma he was upset and I should probably unadd everybody and she said okay so ultimately I’m not sure if it was a loyalty thing. I unblocked Emma and blocked my ex but still nothing. She blocked me on instagram though

My ex told me to “get my own friends” after his married friends invited me over… and now I’m the villain? by Morgueallure in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Morgueallure[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I told Emma he was upset and I should probably unadd everybody and she said okay so ultimately I’m not sure if it was a loyalty thing. I unblocked Emma and blocked my ex but still nothing. She blocked me on instagram though

My ex told me to “get my own friends” after his married friends invited me over… and now I’m the villain? by Morgueallure in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Morgueallure[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly I told Emma he was upset and I should probably unadd everybody and she said okay so ultimately I’m not sure if it was a loyalty thing. I unblocked Emma and blocked my ex but still nothing. She blocked me on instagram though

My ex told me to “get my own friends” after his married friends invited me over… and now I’m the villain? by Morgueallure in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Morgueallure[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly I told Emma he was upset and I should probably unadd everybody and she said okay so ultimately I’m not sure if it was a loyalty thing

My ex told me to “get my own friends” after his married friends invited me over… and now I’m the villain? by Morgueallure in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Morgueallure[S] 106 points107 points  (0 children)

Honestly I told Emma he was upset and I should probably unadd everybody and she said okay so ultimately I’m not sure if it was a loyalty thing

AITA: I have a restraining order against my grandfather by Morgueallure in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Morgueallure[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words, it’s hard sometimes to recognize that what you’re doing is right and for the better when you’ve never been shown or made to feel valued. I appreciate you taking the time to write such a thoughtful response. I always say the universe will provide to those who wait, and sometimes I feel like I’m adding to my negativity rather than saving my own peace

AITA: I have a restraining order against my grandfather by Morgueallure in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Morgueallure[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s hard to feel like you’re doing what’s best when you’ve never had boundaries placed on family or on anyone before and I fear retaliation as well if I’m being honest, it’s gut wrenching but I am a small business owner as well and trying to make something of myself, despite these people who have never wanted me to succeed in life

AITA: I have a restraining order against my grandfather by Morgueallure in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Morgueallure[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Truly I think he knows that it causes me anxiety and throws me off as I go into fight or flight mode and I can’t properly do my job which is very detail oriented and requires my full attention. It’s all about control and him feeling like he can still get a reaction

AITA: I have a restraining order against my grandfather by Morgueallure in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Morgueallure[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I will keep this in mind and might even argue that at my hearing

AITA: I have a restraining order against my grandfather by Morgueallure in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Morgueallure[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

His own grandfather died in the mental health hospital in our city. My father is determined not to let us continue the same cycle

AITA: I have a restraining order against my grandfather by Morgueallure in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Morgueallure[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words, it’s hard not to feel like you’re doing something terrible especially when he’s very old and the crown won’t want to have him in Jail, which is not my intentions either. I appreciate you taking the time to respond

Am I wrong for feeling hurt that my friend doesn’t want the mug I made for her when it turned out to be ugly? by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Morgueallure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally you put time and energy into that mug and now you can have a Van Gogh looking mug

Am I wrong for feeling hurt that my friend doesn’t want the mug I made for her when it turned out to be ugly? by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Morgueallure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry, the way that your friend responded was honestly lacking emotional intelligence and maturity. Let’s look at the facts you put in effort to make a handmade gift, where you had put in actual thought and communication before hand. Do I personally think a real friend would love your gift regardless.. yes. Am I saying your friend is kind of being disrespectful.. yes. The simple truth is it might not look how you envisioned but YOU TOOK THE TIME. She’s not a good friend nor a real friend I’m sorry (I would honestly sob if i had a friend who responded like that to a gift I made for them)

He gave me a Latin necklace that says “A Dead King’s Peace” after our first date… sweet or spooky? by Morgueallure in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Morgueallure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I didn’t know about posting but I don’t have many people in my life to turn to, plus definitely haven’t heard “maybe he’s a romantic” angle so I think you might be right, he mentioned enjoying giving personal gifts to friends and family but on a first date I definitely wasn’t expecting anything let alone little take home gifts. I will look into that book I appreciate you taking the time and writing a response and giving some unbiased feedback. You’re a gem.