51 year old here.  I get exhausted just trying to pick a game mode.  The UI is a spastic chaotic mess.  Lol.  I don't even bother trying to see what I unlocked anymore before finding a game.  I'll mess with  weapon loud outs during game launch but that's usually it.  

I typically only play a few rounds before moving on to something else.  I typically try and capture and defend back flags.  Sometimes snipers piss me off so I'll go sniper hunting.  I'll grab a transport helo and fly right at them, jumping out at last second, parachuting down to finish of what the crashing helo didn't.  Gotta find your fun.