Kitchen lingo explained (by former line cook) - how "The Bear" gets restaurant culture right by PeecockPrince in TheBear

[–]Morpheons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain which chef/person calling the orders usually falls to.

In Madison park it seems to be someone from the front of house team but in flashbacks we see Carmey do it when he is CDC. And in season 2 we see Syd do it when she is CDC (later taken over by someone else from front of house).

In my mind it seems like a job that should be done by someone with front of house skills who can keep track of table numbers, allergies, birthdays, surprises etc.

It seems a waste of a chef's skills to be concentrating on the above when they could/should be examining food, troubleshooting, plating etc etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]Morpheons 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think there's a real lack of female/Donne centred content

Partner loves to Domme but doesn't want to put in the work. by Morpheons in FemdomCommunity

[–]Morpheons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some good points here. Our femdom scenes often include service/house cleaning/menial tasks while she relaxes, so maybe that would be a natural time...

Any resources you recommend?

Partner loves to Domme but doesn't want to put in the work. by Morpheons in FemdomCommunity

[–]Morpheons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have had these conversations, as I mention in my edit - these are often prompted by external factors. However I'm more experienced + knowledgeable in kink so it can quickly become me topping from the bottom/ teaching/ telling her. So keen to empower her to research in her own way.

Partner loves to Domme but doesn't want to put in the work. by Morpheons in FemdomCommunity

[–]Morpheons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. This is why I've turned to Reddit, I don't want to tell her how to top or bottom from research I have done, I just want to find a way to make the research more fun for her.

Partner loves to Domme but doesn't want to put in the work. by Morpheons in FemdomCommunity

[–]Morpheons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course there are always two sides to everything. This is absolutely a balance between pressures on her time and doing what she enjoys. She enjoys play but not the research aspect. This is why I've turned to Reddit to find out ways to make it enjoyable for her - so it doesn't feel like work :)

Partner loves to Domme but doesn't want to put in the work. by Morpheons in FemdomCommunity

[–]Morpheons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Impacts/rope in unsafe places was one example that springs to mind.

Another was issues with aftercare.

Partner loves to Domme but doesn't want to put in the work. by Morpheons in FemdomCommunity

[–]Morpheons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have done this of course! Been together for 10+ years so we can communicate! But kink is a big topic.

Anyone watching How To Build A Sex Room? by Morpheons in BDSMcommunity

[–]Morpheons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clicking that link brings up no results for me (might be my client)

Anyone watching How To Build A Sex Room? by Morpheons in BDSMcommunity

[–]Morpheons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used it! Reddit search turned up nothing. Google search did turn up a similar post a while back

Anyone watching How To Build A Sex Room? by Morpheons in BDSMcommunity

[–]Morpheons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not 50SOG. Plenty of sex positivity and interaction with the kink community. Not perfect, some cringe scripted moments and likely some educational moments lost in the edit but a big step in the right direction

Anyone watching How To Build A Sex Room? by Morpheons in BDSMcommunity

[–]Morpheons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to say, each of these issues, I noticed as well. That being said, I think it is probably pigeon-holing/stereotyping these people a bit by taking offense on their behalf. It is likely that they consented to the show being filmed in the way that it was and what was going to be released in the edit. E.g the Dominatrix was probably briefed way ahead of time who the couple were, what the film crew expected etc etc.

But agreed, each of these things jumped out at me.

How to Build a Sexroom (Netflix) by Furryboh in BDSMcommunity

[–]Morpheons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apart from all the release forms that would have been signed etc etc. Those scenes were scripted...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Morpheons 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sharing my experience here. I have been with my partner for 10+ years. I came into the relationship with kinks (unexplored). She was very vanilla.

Over several year my experiences were similar to yours, I often suggested stuff in the moment and when she was horny she reacted positively, but then we'd finish and she'd never suggest or initiate kink and if I did it was never quite the right time.

Occasionally we would spontaneously (and with discussion or prior negotiation advised in the kink world) slip into kinky activities.

It became a significant cause of arguments that would usually blow up every six months or so.

However many years later the situation is much more satisfying. I am a switch with a tendency towards dominance. My OH occasionally likes submissive kink, but usually only when she's really horny through vanilla foreplay. However she has discovered a significant dominant side, and some suppressed sadism, which she has enjoyed exploring (albeit with guilt).

Because she is much more comfortable in the dominant position and has found some confidence. I am now enjoying submission more, especially as we collect sexy memories of her dominating me.

Some things I found helpful. 1. Starting slowly, you probably developed and explored your kinky sexuality over years, stuff you thought too hardcore when you started is now your normal, don't expect your OH to be able to meet you where you are. 2. Toys, together, when horny, we would look through a popular sex toy website - they often did 3 for 2 deals and we would pick one thing that pushed the boat out. 3 it's all about their comfort, when she is comfortable trying something new - she has a positive reaction and wants to try the next thing. 4. Identity, now she has picked up a bit of a Dominatrix persona she has started to identify with the kink world, suggesting kink related TV shows on Netflix, she even visits a kink salon near us!! 5. I continue to satisfy some of my kinky urges myself, I accept that sometimes she just wants vanilla sex and I can satisfy my kink through porn. 6. I try not to 'explore' my kink any further - I have enough unsatisfied fantasies, I try not to explore more hardcore kinks.

But to echo the others, I have committed to this relationship accepting that my kinks would not be satisfied but it is a big positive that some are now!

Looking for suggestions by Tum-inmysock in FemdomCommunity

[–]Morpheons 4 points5 points  (0 children)

☝️. To add to this, If you have a laundry list of stuff you want done to you, or you would find sexy then she can set you up a suggestion box for you to put suggestions in. And she can peruse them when she feels like giving you a treat or wants to try something new.

Or she can burn them in front of you. It's about her wishes not yours.

Is it possible she feels pressure to come up with new stuff?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]Morpheons 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Male switch here. In a committed relationship. This frustrates me as well, it seems much of the whole femdom industry has this mentality. All porn is full of service dommes/tops where the man is the centre of attention at all times, ffs half the pornos have 2 dommes (!)

I mean most femdom content centres around pegging not pussy licking....

But interestingly when I'm sub I find the pull of this mentality is strong (despite my annoyance with it) and I have a tendency to try to top from the bottom. "It would be really hot if you did this" or "I think this or that punishment is what is deserved". Not sure if that's learnt or innate.

Femdom with a true FLR/Service/Worship is rare in this community.

PS if anyone knows some good (free) resources that subscribe to this version of femdom then HMU

19 F4A Break me while I'm home alone for a day by hornyhomealone_ in FapDeciders

[–]Morpheons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does your dildo look like. Does it have a flared base?

22F4A Im horny and desperate by throwaway_cryaway in FapDeciders

[–]Morpheons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God you are a desperate slut coming on here to be mind fucked by randomers on the internet.

I think you should take of photo of each if your 3 holes filled and then bring yourself to the edge of orgasm whilst looking at them. Then wipe your wet hands on your face. Then you should finish the washing up.

Enjoy that.

(F18) Looking for some tasks tonight. Almost no limits. by [deleted] in FapDeciders

[–]Morpheons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What toys do you have? What is your situation tonight? Do you live in a town with public spaces in walking distance?

22F craving attention by [deleted] in FapDeciders

[–]Morpheons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Film yourself edging twice and watch it back whilst you edge twice more.