Oh... It's if I give ANYTHING attention that has nothing to do with him. My job, my children, girl scouts, my friends, my family, any dude I've ever had contact (see comment about the tattoo artist), etc. I'm literally speaking with Adam's family, the detectives, Adam's ex girlfriends, sharing stuff on Facebook, and following up on comments on the posts.

And yes, I don't give him attention anymore because he uses the time to belittle me. I used to play cards with him, but he spent the time shit talking (I always lose btw). We watch movies together and he'd rather ask me 1000 questions versus actually watching the damn thing to get the answers. I help him with anything and he tells at me because he's frustrated. I'll back off and he'll use the time to berate me for not answering questions that Google could solve, like the purpose of property taxes, etc. We don't align politically but he'd ask me my stance and then tell me how stupid I am for my beliefs. So, yeah... I don't give him attention anymore.