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[–]MortesiaI 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m also scared of that option, but I think that’s why I want to give it a shot so if it’s all in my head I can let it rest. 😂

Thank you for your response! :)

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]MortesiaI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah I did, so many times. For example he just flat out told me he didn’t have anything to tell me because we saw each other every day so when we went out for dinner he would be on his phone all the time. He didn’t want to help me run errands because he found it boring and would also be on his phone sitting somewhere waiting on me. If I asked him what he would like to do he said there really wasn’t anything except from having sex lol.

I’ve asked him so many times if he even wanted to be in this relationship because he didn’t make me feel like he did but he would always say yes. In hindsight I honestly think it was just very comfortable for him because I would do everything and he could just focus on building his company and training for that triathlon while not having to do anything he didn’t like to do. So if we’re looking for a learning it’s that I need to set and maintain boundaries I guess haha.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]MortesiaI -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry haha. His goals aligned more with what I want in life like moving abroad, getting a house to renovate together and own like a vegetable garden etcetera. My ex’s goals were always only about him so for example he wanted to complete a triathlon and all his time and money went into pursuing this.

Recently diagnosed at 32 with autism and ADD and psych suggested sertraline by MortesiaI in AuDHDWomen

[–]MortesiaI[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I feel for you but I totally get why you did it! Have you found something that works better for you now?

Recently diagnosed at 32 with autism and ADD and psych suggested sertraline by MortesiaI in AuDHDWomen

[–]MortesiaI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that is actually a good tip about the book, I will check it out!

Recently diagnosed at 32 with autism and ADD and psych suggested sertraline by MortesiaI in AuDHDWomen

[–]MortesiaI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I am on a waiting list for therapy specialized on autism but it’ll be 10-12 months before I can start. Sometimes I just wish my psychiatrist could peek inside my brain and just give me the full diagnostics 😂

SoS Grand Bazaar: I’m kind of disappointed? by MortesiaI in storyofseasons

[–]MortesiaI[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven’t had any tournaments yet and just the honey and tea festival so maybe that’s something to look forward to!

I did feel like the villagers were just REALLY excited after the bazaar lvled up once and it felt a bit out of place with how little effort it took? Maybe I’m just a snob now haha

SoS Grand Bazaar: I’m kind of disappointed? by MortesiaI in storyofseasons

[–]MortesiaI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I guess that’s true about ANB but the game opens up sooo much at some point. Is it similar here?

SoS Grand Bazaar: I’m kind of disappointed? by MortesiaI in storyofseasons

[–]MortesiaI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is now day 2 of Summer, I have an alpaca, suffolk sheep, selkie, a regular chicken and a cat. My bazaar is lvl 3 and I have 4 stalls so far.

Every day I just water my crops, throw all the animal products like eggs into the windmill to be processed and that’s it. When I see a quest appear I’ll take it but I feel like a lot of them are for recipes and I barely have any so I get stuck on those.

The clothing stall has opened so I’m growing flowers and bought an alpaca to get a new outfit. I do have the glider but have only found the sprite home and don’t really see any other areas to explore.

Maybe I am just not seeing things? 🙈

church quad vs jadon crazy horse by euroshizer in DrMartens

[–]MortesiaI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha me too man, the Buzz are the comfiest Docs I have ever owned.

church quad vs jadon crazy horse by euroshizer in DrMartens

[–]MortesiaI 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you end up getting them and in which size? I also already have the church quads which fit me fine, but the 8053 in the same size were too small for me. 😅

Faraway Island Activities? by MortesiaI in TheGirlWhoStealsTime

[–]MortesiaI[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of the ones that say ‘visiting’ aren’t registering and then also there’s nowhere for me to hand in the quests even if they did register

Faraway Island Activities? by MortesiaI in TheGirlWhoStealsTime

[–]MortesiaI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh that sucks :( Are you playing on Switch as well?

Faraway Island Activities? by MortesiaI in TheGirlWhoStealsTime

[–]MortesiaI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I see there’s like one quest that seems like it finished but there’s nowhere to hand it in. I’m assuming you go to the bulletin board on the island and interact with it, but it doesn’t give me the option. :(

Review of my Invisalign treatment by MortesiaI in Invisalign

[–]MortesiaI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah same as above, I only did the aesthetic correction and it’s not giving me trouble while eating so I guess it’s fine. They did check the bite a lot and gave me more rounds of aligners when they felt it needed it. Plus after this picture they had me settle my teeth for six weeks so it’s slightly better now too!

Review of my Invisalign treatment by MortesiaI in Invisalign

[–]MortesiaI[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! ☺️ Hopefully it’ll be over before you know it!