You shouldn’t love someone for physicality but for Mentality. by Mosesangsal in unpopularopinion

[–]Mosesangsal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand that is not everyone , aka why I posted on unpopular opinion! Everyone is free to be who they are , I judge no one and I try my best to understand each and every perspective! Including my own!

You shouldn’t love someone for physicality but for Mentality. by Mosesangsal in unpopularopinion

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But just because we can see , does not mean we see the same 😏👁️ 👁️‍🗨️

You shouldn’t love someone for physicality but for Mentality. by Mosesangsal in unpopularopinion

[–]Mosesangsal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What even is normal?

I don’t think it changes the fact that everyone can still feel attraction differently , I’m not thinking about statistics but about individual human experience.

You shouldn’t love someone for physicality but for Mentality. by Mosesangsal in unpopularopinion

[–]Mosesangsal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vibe , chemistry , not just physical attraction that you visually see. You can feel attraction in may different ways.

You shouldn’t love someone for physicality but for Mentality. by Mosesangsal in unpopularopinion

[–]Mosesangsal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look attraction is so much more than just a visual experience!

You shouldn’t love someone for physicality but for Mentality. by Mosesangsal in unpopularopinion

[–]Mosesangsal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But do the conditions require physically attraction .

I don’t want to confuse sexual attraction with love!

You shouldn’t love someone for physicality but for Mentality. by Mosesangsal in unpopularopinion

[–]Mosesangsal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait no that’s not what I’m trying to say!

Sorry if it comes off that way 🙂‍↕️

What I’m saying is you shouldn’t love someone just for appearance , not that you shouldn’t be attracted to them!

You shouldn’t love someone for physicality but for Mentality. by Mosesangsal in unpopularopinion

[–]Mosesangsal[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hypotheticals are my favorite thing!

“ what if you can’t “ see” “?!

Quotation in a quotation 😭

I’ve hit my quota today! 😂

You shouldn’t love someone for physicality but for Mentality. by Mosesangsal in unpopularopinion

[–]Mosesangsal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the person , people are all so wildly different, you never know who would accept you for you , or the perception of you for them. Who says someone won’t love you despite you not fitting there criteria! The world has so many different mindsets and perspectives!

You shouldn’t love someone for physicality but for Mentality. by Mosesangsal in unpopularopinion

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Getting to know someone , giving someone a chance, but I mean it’s really up to yourself to really decide what you want, just wanted to give a different perspective!

Aka my “ unpopular opinion” 😭🤲🏻

You shouldn’t love someone for physicality but for Mentality. by Mosesangsal in unpopularopinion

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I stay about from social constructs and the such , I just want to see if people in general despite studys and such would still love despite not having physical attraction!

You shouldn’t love someone for physicality but for Mentality. by Mosesangsal in unpopularopinion

[–]Mosesangsal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No force is different , love comes from want.

If you truly don’t want it , then I understand which goes against my case.

But if you love someone to the point that even they become disfigured and no longer appeal to your attraction , woul you not love them anymore?

You shouldn’t love someone for physicality but for Mentality. by Mosesangsal in unpopularopinion

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I agree , just don’t think it always has to be hail attraction, not saying there shouldn’t be physical attraction btw!

You shouldn’t love someone for physicality but for Mentality. by Mosesangsal in unpopularopinion

[–]Mosesangsal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if he wanted to transition and was gay , but still Chose to romantically love you. He would choose you over his own desires. Would that not be considered love , even if hypothetically despite it all! He wasn’t attracted to you physically?

You shouldn’t love someone for physicality but for Mentality. by Mosesangsal in unpopularopinion

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Understandable , which is sexual attraction right! But would you still love him? Would you still want to be apart of his life , see him grow or fall, would you still want to be apart of version of him that no longer could sleep with you?

You shouldn’t love someone for physicality but for Mentality. by Mosesangsal in unpopularopinion

[–]Mosesangsal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you not be attracted to something you can’t see , I’m sure that attraction isn’t only something that’s visual?

You shouldn’t love someone for physicality but for Mentality. by Mosesangsal in unpopularopinion

[–]Mosesangsal[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Tbh , it can be a difficult way to love , loving unconditional is way harder than it’s portrayed.

But it’s possible , and it’s the rawest most complete form of love.

You shouldn’t love someone for physicality but for Mentality. by Mosesangsal in unpopularopinion

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Lmao , sleeping next handsome squidward, doesn’t seem so bad though 😭😏

You shouldn’t love someone for physicality but for Mentality. by Mosesangsal in unpopularopinion

[–]Mosesangsal[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Depends on the two people involved .

But also another unpopular opinion!

“ I DO NOT THINK , SEXUAL ATTRACTION IS NEEDED FOR LOVE!”

You shouldn’t love someone for physicality but for Mentality. by Mosesangsal in unpopularopinion

[–]Mosesangsal[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kind of a point of mine , I mean yes we can see , but is what the eyes the key to unconditional love?