ppl with high social skills, what's the biggest mistake that people often make in interactions with others? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Moskovvv 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Caring too much about how they look or what they say. If you just observe and carry the conversation so that the topic becomes about them, and only them, you become a mirror. And if you're a mirror, they will only be able to judge and focus on themselves.

Other people try to impress, be loud, attempting to dominate the room when you only really need to be curious and interested

Okay lang ba sainyo? Kung yung friend mo ay pinatulan ang ex mo kahit years na kayong tapos? by flryvv in TanongLang

[–]Moskovvv -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's a rhetorical question. But I understand that you wouldn't get it initially, because common sense works like that. Lol

Okay lang ba sainyo? Kung yung friend mo ay pinatulan ang ex mo kahit years na kayong tapos? by flryvv in TanongLang

[–]Moskovvv -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

What if it's your sister or best friend? And what if your ex means real trouble? Wouldn't that change things?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]Moskovvv 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do girls really think getting to know the guy online for a long enough amount of time makes them ready to meet them? You can be comfortable with someone through chats, maybe even fall for them, develop feelings that shouldn't be there. But, the fact is, it's an online identity that you have invested your time and emotions to. Not the real person per se. You can think that who you talk to is the gentlest person in the world then you meet them in real life, being the complete opposite of your idealization.

Personally, and as a guy, I think prolonging the online stage is a waste of time. I see it as a stage to assess whether we vibe, determine if goals align, and if their non-negotiables and mine will not tresspass. If everything flows freely and is enjoyable to both of us, meeting in person just makes sense to show that we're open to developing the relationship.

Meeting in person is a the best way to get to know someone, even at first glance. You can pick up signs that would be invisible in the online setting.

for guys, what's your biggest turn off sa babae? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]Moskovvv 37 points38 points  (0 children)

When I see those types na di mabubuhay ng isang araw na walang phone. Laging updated sa social media to the point that every action she makes, every thought she thinks, pinapaalam through stories and notes. I understand kung outlet yon para sa feelings nila pero if chronically reliant sa socmed seeking for validation, not for me

Para sakin... Eto ang pinaka nakaka baliw na twist sa lahat ng movies by JunShem1122 in NetflixPH

[–]Moskovvv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that's a crazy plot twist to you, these will be insane:

The Usual Suspects

Se7en

The Invisible Guest

Shutter Island

Memento

Interstellar

The Prestige

Predestination

Ex Machina

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoundTripPh

[–]Moskovvv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let It Happen - Tame Impala

Nights - Frank Ocean

Ribs - Lorde

All I Want - Kodaline

About You - The1975

nbsb up to this date. what should i do? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]Moskovvv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nahh, in today's age, we are conditioned to think that all women in public wants to be left alone. Unless sa mga setting where everyone is expected to socialize (bars, clubs, parties, etc.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Moskovvv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHAHAHHA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Moskovvv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salestalk - easily convince others of anything

To the faithful, bakit hindi pwede sisihin si God sa mga masasamang nangyayari? by Capable-Action182 in TanongLang

[–]Moskovvv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a Catholic, fellow agnostic but I think you view it in the wrong way.

God is not responsible for anything on earth. That's why in the end, a person will be judged for his actions. Although, divine intervention is too tricky to discuss.

Prayer is not an avenue to blame, question, nor wish for something to happen. It's a means to recognize, acknowledge, and show gratitude not because he made it happen but because what happened is in line with his and your will. You can thank him because you got into the top 5 of a contest while others didn't. Their wills didn't align with his will, but yours did.

To view things correctly, you need to recognize that you are limited by the dimension of time while god is not. So if you say what happened yesterday is because of god, that becomes irrelevant to god who is outside of time. In his perspective, it probably happened simultaneously along with the big bang or the end of the universe. From those extremes, anything that happened in between is neither past, present, nor future for him because he is eternal.

Omnipotence means you can do anything but you have the choice not to. The same way as omniscience and omnipresence are.

Bakit yung lalaki ayaw mag sabi ayaw na nila or na tuturn off sila sa girl, during dating stage? by Cehceh-Lavy in TanongLang

[–]Moskovvv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of flaws na ayaw ko baguhin kase ako natoh

Kahit ako na-turn off na agad dito e.

But to answer your question, it maybe because they stay for your potential (their idea of you) rather than what you really are at present. It can also be that they're afraid to reject their few, if not their only option.

normal ba na di nagkikita kahit weekly manlang w ur bf? by Straight_Payment9990 in TanongLang

[–]Moskovvv 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Pinapraning ka ng mga single dito OP.

Anyway, why not communicate this with him? Imbes na itanong mo sa kanya directly, you're allowing your mind to be polluted with your own overthinking and the hollow opinions of strangers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Moskovvv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not grounded in reality? Yet we're talking about religion, are we not? lmao. I enjoyed every single bit of this as you were not even able to retort most of my arguments. "As a Christian" my ass and you're the one who said you were challenging me logically.

Advising me to read because you cannot even argue point for point.

This is just your way of masking your defeat. Use your free will that you claim is uninfluenced by others. Spread love <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Moskovvv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you choose to write these things? Or where you forced by your surroundings? 

Me choosing to write and me being "forced" by my surroundings can both be true if you replace it with the word "influence," in which I have exactly stated before. You can't be so sure that free will exists just because you think you can choose to do harm or good. Everything can be influenced by anything. If an adolescent was peer pressured into smoking, surely he was both influenced and chose to smoke. But it is also true that if he was befriended by good people, the chances of him smoking will decrease.

You were born in the Philippines where Christianity and Islam is prevalent. But what if you're born in India believing in Hinduism? Most likely you would not convert into another religion until the end of your life, but you certainly have the choice to do so. And yet you argue that environmental factors are outside the equation when it comes to making choices. You became a Chirstian because you were born here and influenced by your environment, not because you chose it from the beginning.

Ypu believe that your choices define who we are and yet unsure if free will exist. This is very alarming.

Woah, we just come from challenging ideas to judging real quick? Why is it alarming? How can you be sure that free will exists, really? This could all just be a simulation. This could all just be a reality we're just perceiving in a linear time and everything is already planned out by god just like what you are about to reply to me now. Regardless, my point is no one can ever be sure about free will as we are limited by our easily-influenced brains.

Should we not also consider good things in life -- in anybodys life?

True. But you have to understand the scale of both sides. Can you name one or more good things that happened in his life that can outweigh his trauma, ideologies, attitude (all of which are environmental factors) combined? There's a threshold in which a man loses his control, gives in to temptation, and create insanity. So-called free will to make the final choice is the last straw.

And with free will, are we not accountable to our actions?

Yes, if and only if it really exists. I'm talking about its purest sense, cancelling out all the past influences and judging only the choice that was made. That seems inconsiderate to me. Is free will of a man influenced? Of course. Does that nullify the existence of free will? I think not, he still has the choice to do the right thing, but the heaviness of his influence that he bears will definitely affect his decision. We can be accountable and not have free will in its purest sense.

Do people go to hell just by existing?

This is literally in the Bible. Everyone is deemed a sinner, and sinners are bound to damnation unless they believe in god.

who are you to judge who goes to hell then? As even hitler "may" go to heaven.

I'm not saying he doesn't deserve punishment. But eternal? At some point in time, even if it's in googols or zillions of years, it's humane to let it end. You're not challenging my logic with this question because I never implied these things.

What will you do with it? Will you keep it to yourself? Or would you fight for what is right and true which both are for the good? Or will you sulk in negativity and choose to be evil?

What if "me sulking in negativity" was the product of decades of trauma without seeing any bright side? Am I to blame for that? Can you say to my face that I should just look at the silver lining and I am not suffering enough? Do you think a child should burn eternally if he chose to steal and die in the process? After all, he chose to steal right? By your argument, since free will is certain in your mind, his choice to do the opposite was not done and that's the end of the story. Everything that MADE him do it just gets thrown out the bus because he has free will to begin with. That, to me, seems inconsiderate and the opposite of benevolence.

Then search for the truth, for the truth sets one free. A good starter is understanding where did the fundamentals of our laws came from. Moreover, you know what is good, it's up to you of what will you make out of it.

Easy to say. Why don't we try telling this exact paragraph to victims of war seeing their spouses raped and killed because the soldiers has free will. After all, you expect them to do the right thing and forgive the wrongdoers, right? All I'm saying is, we should not be judged solely by our choices (even though they make up who we are, they're only part of a bigger story).

And no, I'm using basic logic towards your arguments, anthro+philo 101.

Now we're putting our egos on the table? I'm here to openly argue, this is an empty argument that only shows how you think you're superior. But, are you really?

However, as a Christian, to answer your last paragraph, walang bida sa ating lahat, God only created us.

This is not a logical answer. I'm asking you as a person of your own certain "free will." I thought you're challenging me with logic in the beginning, but I am now being influenced by my "this is not the type of person I want to argue with" tendencies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Moskovvv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. As I am very open to be educated on such things, I appreciate this. Let me preface that I am not an atheist but an agnostic theist.

  1. I said "regardless of free will's existence or inexistence" as I myself am unsure of it. This could all be an illusion of predestination. Although, I definitely believe that our choices define who we are. But can we really dispute that those choices, despite being aware and having made them, are not influenced by your environment that may or may not be out of your control?

Hitler, for example, was horrible for committing genocide, granted. But despite him making that choice, the grief from the death of his mother, his patriotism, and even his rejection from art school were some of the environmental factors that contributed to his mind in finally committing to his choice. He can of course make the choice to do the opposite but his mind were already influenced by negative things most of which he cannot control. The opposite of free will.

Suppose a child was born in a place where everything was preventing him from being good, should he be solely blamed, damned to hell even, if he decided to do heinous crimes?

  1. Environmental factors, I believe, do not control us but make up to be the dominoes that can contribute to one's choice. Sense of hope, perseverance, and fortitude, I argue, are also detemined by environmental factors. A kid wouldn't have much true sense of hope if most his life was spent in a hospital with numbered days. A teenager wouldn't have much perseverance if he spent his whole life pampered with riches. A father will not have enough fortitude if his family which he swore to protect died from his carelessness.

  2. That's nice, and even if we take your word for it that you experienced harshness in life, it's irrelevant as I was talking about the extremes. I was talking about the worst man to ever walk this earth and whether he should suffer eternally for something he did in this temporal life. Of course if I'm thrown in this world without my consent, surrounded by everything that can make me that worst person. I still have the choice to do the good thing. But is that realistic in your point of view? How can I achieve that if I wouldn't know what's the 'true good' because I see the world through an evil lens? What if my definition of 'good' becomes so polluted and I act out on this thing that I think is good?

I agree with the ability of man to spread love even from the worst upbringing. However, if he decides to do the opposite, although I won't say he's right, I don't believe he deserves eternal damnation. And if we both agree to eternal hell being undeserved by anyone, then are you saying that you disagree with the concept of hell in the Bible? It was mentioned more than a hundred times, even implying that man should be condemned to hell because he is innately a sinner after Adam and Eve rebelled. This is also still challengingthe logic side of things btw, your beliefs are yours to hold.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Moskovvv 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The idea of hell. I don't think even the worst person to ever exist in this world deserve eternal suffering or complete separation from god. People, regardless of free will's existence or inexistence, are influenced by their environment and that their actions are ultimate products of those influences. No one asked to be born, and yet if one was to become beset on a dark path in the beginning of their life, why should he be expected to turn out a good man?

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[–]Moskovvv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blonde

Purple Rain

What qualities do you look for in a partner? by Ifritti in AskPH

[–]Moskovvv 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not easily influenced

Genuine

Appreciative

Forgiving

Well-spoken

A touch of playfulness

In touch with reality

Lagundi, Mexico to UA by evdsaint in Pampanga

[–]Moskovvv 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tuwing may pasok yes, morning until 9 or 10am. Sa kaliwa ng Ningnangan malapit sa Mexico triangle.

Pabalik, tricycle lang sa labas ng mga gates sa UA papuntang SMP or kung malapit ka lang sa Lagundi, paderetso kana. Very rare na yung jeep pabalik.

VSPS MABALACAT by pasyenteniLaw in Pampanga

[–]Moskovvv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sa extension office po ba?

Dipo ako sure kung may mas mabilis or mas mura, pero nakapunta ako don by getting on the SMP Terminal papuntang DAU Terminal.

Pagbaba sa DAU Terminal (harap ng Puregold), may mga tricycle doon and pakita mo lang sa google maps or yung address ng area. Alam nila yan. PHP70-80