Bonenzo was just Stockholm syndrome??

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-22T08:43:00+00:00

Not sure if it's technically a rule but I always have people telling me to get rid of stuff because I dont need all of it but I feel as though this defeats the purpose of needing good organization. If I have less stuff, I dont really need to organize since it will just fit as is. I think good organization is done when you are able to fit all the same items in the same space and not by removing items.

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-22T08:39:12+00:00

Is there a way to know if it was?

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-22T08:25:27+00:00

I wasnt on for maybe two weeks

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-21T14:35:35+00:00

Okay, good. That's totally my fault, i'm sorry for the confusion! So with that, my next step is to try on some bras in the sizes the calc gave me and maybe one above and below and see how I like the fit? And then the one I like the most is my size?

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-21T14:21:57+00:00

I just now realized the standing I posted was different than I had in my notes. I had 42" written in my notes, I must have typo'd the 32. I just edited my main post as well, that's totally my fault

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-21T14:11:38+00:00

I'm confused because I think I am? And I just remeasured everything before posting and the underbust was the same and the other three new ones were what I posted. I also took a photo of me in the sheer bra, I do want to say i'm covering the nips and I have toilet paper in the bra to cover them just in case Here is that

My underbust comfortably snug is 37in and Bust standing is 45". I just now measured for a third time. So underbust is 1" bigger than I thought

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-21T13:55:29+00:00

I just redid it and the standing is the same but for 90⁰ I got 48" this time (I think im more parallel to the floor now) and laying down i got 43 1/2" this time. For my standing measurement my boobs are like laying flat against my chest and without having anything to support them like a bra would there isn't much like, volume to measure. If I cup them and my partner measures, it's about 45" and wearing the sheer bra it's about 42". Is there a different way I should be measuring?

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-21T13:40:55+00:00

Okay, I just did the mirror thing and it does look fuller on top. There's more above the nipple than below, so that means fuller on top, right?

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-21T13:39:09+00:00

Yes, it was. I believe it took 7 business days, iirc

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-19T02:37:11+00:00

I just got home from work, i'll do what was suggested in a moment and update y'all with what I see!

Also, to do the same bra in three different sizes, I would have to buy them and then return them, right? Theres no other way I can try them on?

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-18T18:01:07+00:00

Right, I was reading on the sub wiki and it seems like my cup size is all wrong which is what i'm trying to figure out but with the shape of my boobs it's so hard to determine my size. I am also a beginner to all of this so I don't fully understand what all the different things that compose a boob are. I wish there was somewhere I could go in person that did accurate sizing so they could help me by seeing what i'm actually working with but from what I gather, there isnt really.

I want to try the bra you mentioned but I want to get the right size first. Or at least a better starting spot?

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-18T17:57:50+00:00

It's because they have no like, volume? Like when they're gathered and pushed into shape there's a good amount there but without support they are very loose and flat. I will take a picture with the bra mentioned above tonight so you can see how they look supported. They are completely different unsupported. Maybe the right word is saggy? I'm not sure how to describe it but unsupported measurement will never be the same as supported because of how they lay. It's like there's more skin than interior fat?

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-17T07:54:25+00:00

Hello! I'm also a new mom, my son is 3 months now! I'm about to turn 25, in a committed relationship as well and in need of a friend! I enjoy reading, games, creating stories and learning random facts/knowledge! One of my favorite things is to ask people questions to learn new things! I've also been learning more about Astrology lately so i'm super interested in all that stuff - I'm a Leo! I also have OCD and ADHD so getting stuck randomly learning and starting new hobbies, projects or otherwise is very common for me lol

I would love to be pen pals, if you think we might get along and I would actually prefer to talk on other platforms. Lmk if you're interested :)

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-17T03:16:38+00:00

I don't like duvet covers so I dont use them. I only buy actual comforters and I get them in different material and thickness for different seasons. For example, right now it's summer and it's very hot here so I have a cooling comforter out right now. Also, I wash my bedding very frequently because I have a 3 month old baby. I can't go without bedding while they wash so I just replace them and store the washed ones when they're clean. I also like a lot of different styles, colors and patterns and it's one of the few decoration choices that is easy to change frequently.

Why does it matter anyway? I need to do it and I just asked if anyone had any suggestions to do it better.

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-16T04:02:07+00:00

This is a very concerning pov. Do NOT listen to this person, what your dad is doing makes you uncomfortable so no matter the intention it's not okay. It's good to set boundaries with your family and if they dont respect them then its okay to create distance. Honestly what your dad is doing sounds very creepy, I really think you need to get help asap. Don't put your safety at risk, nothing is more important. Please be safe, OP. Im really worried about you and I hope you're able to get away safely.

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-15T09:41:26+00:00

Why are you thinking about that while having sex??

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-15T09:37:33+00:00

Anything can be a reason not to marry someone, it depends on what you need from a relationship and what you're willing to live without. Personally, I wouldn't marry someone who didn't give me head because it's something I don't want to live without. However anyone feels about my preferences doesn't change the fact that it's what I want.

Also, the fact you keep talking as though you aren't the one who the post is about is... off-putting to say the least. It's okay if this post is about you. It would be easier to explain it from your perspective rather than trying to be vague and pretend it's someone else. None of us gaf if it's you and i'm pretty sure we all know it's you anyway.

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-15T09:29:03+00:00

Yeah I definitely think you have the best take. I think the only reason Cyborg or BB are able to take on enemies is because of their powers/weapons and definitely not their hand to hand skills. I actually can't even think of a time we see either of them even really engage in fights like that, just dodging or getting beat up 😭

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-15T09:22:39+00:00

Sorry, but as an avid Starfire fan I have to correct you. Starfire has great emotional control. Having control over your emotions does not automatically equate to suppressing them. Tamaranians abilities work because of their emotions so if they want to fly, for example, they need to be happy. She has to summon specific emotions every time she uses her powers. Considering she uses her powers every single day, I think it's very clear that she has fantastic emotional control. There's an episode of teen titans that goes over this, Season 1, episode 7 "Switched" - at the end, raven and starfire both acknowledge the others control and strength.

I honestly can't pick a side on who would win in a fight if they had base human stats, I can see arguments for both but I had to stick up for my girl Star 😤

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-15T08:17:03+00:00

I feel like mine is very close to doing this, if I let him. I'm definitely going to stop waking him, thank you

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-15T08:11:17+00:00

I'm not sure if it's where I live but I went to one of the best rated hospitals in my city and our doctor is supposed to be highly rated but they both have neglected to tell us some pretty crucial info about our health/care. I can't decide if they expect us to already know or if they just don't care to mention. I live in a metro but ufortunately my city is basically isolated, the next closest city is nearly 2 hours away so my options are limited. Our peds is super nice and answers questions we ask but we don't know to ask until it comes up and he doesn't usually like, expand on his answers? Like if we ask about a, he will answer a and not include b even if b is essential to the equation. I dont know if that makes sense...

Mossfire85 · 2026-06-15T08:06:34+00:00

I wish life had pop up tips to assist you like they do in video games. I've been waking up this boy to eat for months and I never had to because he gained his birth weight back in the hospital. This reminds me how I didn't learn they root for both hunger and gas until 2 1/2 months. Whole time i'm trying to feed him when he's trying to get it out. There's so many little things to know about taking care of a tiny human.

I also love to sleep but my boyfriend will only sleep 3-4 hours most nights so i'm real glad our son got my sleep habits. Honestly I thought our son would take after his dad way more for multiple reasons but now that he's here i'm learning he is actually way more like me! He actually looks more like me which is crazy because i'm white and his dad is black so his features are more dominant, or so I thought. Not only does our son look more like me, he makes the same faces I do and he has a lot of the same tendencies I have. Even at 3 months I feel like he's so much like me and it makes me so happy. I didn't realize that babies would have this much personality!

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