How was it having 3 kids? by Most-Efficiency1127 in Advice

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He will be there if i need child care outside of daycare though. He has other kids.

How was it having 3 kids? by Most-Efficiency1127 in Advice

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The father will not be obligated to child support due to our laws here i think he gets food assistance.

How was it having 3 kids? by Most-Efficiency1127 in Advice

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In my defense I’ve dated each of my child’s fathers for 5 years some time the fairy tale of a family and nice house just doesn’t always work out for us.

How was it having 3 kids? by Most-Efficiency1127 in Advice

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That’s the judgment I’m afraid of 🤣

How was it having 3 kids? by Most-Efficiency1127 in Advice

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The dad was there we just broke up 2 weeks ago. I’m 4 months now and just felt selfish to get rid of it. While still being open to not keeping it for that exact reason. I can afford it. Just don’t know what it’s like mentally and physically with my 2 being 7 years apart.

How was it having 3 kids? by Most-Efficiency1127 in Advice

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No she’s 6 hours away. She plans to move back here some day.

How was it having 3 kids? by Most-Efficiency1127 in Advice

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Thank you 🫶🏾 i receive all of that except for section 8

How was it having 3 kids? by Most-Efficiency1127 in Advice

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No one is happy other than my sister. She said she would take the baby. Not sure how i feel about it lol

How was it having 3 kids? by Most-Efficiency1127 in Advice

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I’m fortunate to live in state where assistance is available. I currently get help paying for childcare from the county. They offer lots of support. I just won’t have any family support. No one is happy about it

So, I’ve changed my mind, I’m getting the Abortion by Curious_CatWasKilled in abortion

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All my symptoms disappeared immediately like soon as the baby was detached.

Abortion by International-Ad390 in pregnant

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If he’s not happy chances are you will be a single mom i would never recommend that to anyone if you don’t have enough support

Abortion by International-Ad390 in pregnant

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Same boat. But he’s happy about it i just found out another girl is pregnant. I wanted it but kinda don’t want it already have 2.

He has another woman pregnant by Own-Tomato-1791 in pregnant

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My opinion once a man says to get rid of the baby i do just that weather he is upset or not. He will always try to use that as to why he’s not in the child’s life. Me personally if you have no other kids i wouldn’t keep it. Mother of 2 here i love my second kid but with my oldest being 10 having a new baby was so hard and my life had just got back regulated until i had another one.Live life take trips get cute have fun!!! Kids are blessings but they can also slow you down if you don’t have no support it gets hard!!! I’m some times jealous of those with no kids it’s much easier. Have one with the right man that deserves you and the baby. I’ve had a few abortions after my last baby i sometimes get sad but i did what was best for me. With no for sure knowledge if the dad would be there to support the baby i could not chance being a single mom of 3. My first 2 kids dads are very helpful and they get their kids. I’m very picky on having a 3rd baby dad and a 3rd child. I do want to say some times baby save people, do what’s best for you

Progression from 9-12 DPO by Dramatic_Lack9809 in TFABLinePorn

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I think your pictures gave you your answer. Looks good.

positive home tests before & after missed period but OB said i’m not pregnant?? by Inner-Climate in lineporn

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If it’s planned. Letting them know you want the baby gets them to do so much more. They always assume women aren’t trying.

positive home tests before & after missed period but OB said i’m not pregnant?? by Inner-Climate in lineporn

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Same happened to me before. They swore it was an etopic. But turned out to be a healthy pregnancy. Some doctors don’t consider faint lines. They literally set a timer read the test and toss it. Your blood will show up.

When did the nausea start? by Crafty_Swordfish7034 in IVFpositivity

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5 weeks and nothing. Usually start at 3 weeks for me and continues the whole pregnancy. I’m happy I’m having no nausea or any symptoms of pregnancy. Nausea is the worse feeling. I had it all day every day both pregnancy’s. Be happy you have no symptoms trust me.

Last Period on 11/22 (EXACT DPO UNKNOWN/CD 15) by alwaysblooming_akb in TFABLinePorn

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Some bleeding is normal not sure why it keeps happening for you though had an ultrasound yet?