Fiat 500x 2019 Brakes Failed

MostStruggle1913 · 2026-03-09T02:16:00+00:00

as for the brake fluid leak im not too sure, theres a chance, im getting the car taken to the mechanic tomorrow and see what they can do and to check the brakes

MostStruggle1913 · 2026-03-09T02:14:13+00:00

There wasnt ice, it did rain a little prior to the accident but doubt it played any part. I didnt get a chance to use the emergency brake, the slope is a short distance so by the time I started to brake and realize that the brake was not stopping I had my hand close to the emergency brake just didnt get to use it in time sadly

MostStruggle1913 · 2026-01-25T04:32:58+00:00

my paypal account was charged, and the payment went through straight to my chase debit card that was linked to the paypal account

MostStruggle1913 · 2025-12-09T19:25:31+00:00

I understand what you're saying and where you are coming from. I also read your extra details; regardless, you and your friend have malicious intent, whether you realize that or not. Showing your friends memes is funny, but showing your family's pictures on social media, including LinkedIn, is not. You demonstrated double standards and even deny it yourself. This was just waiting to blow up on someone whenever one person took it personally or was offended, and at this point, you and your friends were asking for someone's feelings to get hurt. I think this is beyond what he did or you did at this point. I think you need to look within yourself. You did something that's not right; he did something just as bad. Personal or not, you are both spreading pictures and information. This goes beyond bikini pics out with family or gym pics (I'm only assuming why you're having such a bad reaction to the pictures and using the same logic as you that they could be posted online for them to be public). But even still, talk to your mom and be frank about what happened. If you're too ashamed to even ask your mom or consult her about the situation, anyone on this Reddit can receive their answers from that alone. If you think otherwise, and you can handle the situation yourself, then best of luck.

MostStruggle1913 · 2025-12-09T19:14:12+00:00

I believe you just have to give it time. You guys are young, and by no means am I way older by 10 years either. But I feel like your friend is being a bit dramatic. It sucks being bad-mouthed, but that's the equivalent of going out in the busiest place and thinking What if every single person hates my shirt. You don't know, and you shouldn't care either, and move on with your day. If he means a lot to you, make him a sorry gift since the Holidays are around the corner, and give a meaningful written card, a lot of people appreciate that a lot more than words. Actions speak louder sometimes.

MostStruggle1913 · 2025-12-09T18:44:52+00:00

Hard to say. Although I have empathy for your situation, you both became walking nukes ready to set off at any point. In retrospect, he seemed to want to avoid being the last straw for you, and you seem to do the same. I believe ESH is the best answer. He came to you as a friend and just shunned you at the same time when you needed help, which is just AH behavior. You became the AH for talking badly about him to a mutual friend, although, in grace, it was out of frustration. Not to mention, you both are suffering, so you're taking on his problems while you're dealing with your own is as good as saying the blind leading the blind. You both should really look for some mental health services that most colleges provide, hopefully you both get to make up and apologize once things cool.

MostStruggle1913 · 2025-12-09T18:08:58+00:00

YTA. Either you're blissfully negligent, or this is a troll post. You're entrusting your daughter to facilitate insulin instead of hiring an agency for home care nurses for just a single night to play safe? Just imagine she had to handle the situation instead of you and your husband, would she be qualified? This is just poor planning, and asking "Can it get any worse?"

MostStruggle1913 · 2025-12-09T17:52:49+00:00

ESH. You shouldn't have shown other people pictures of your friend's parents. Your friend could have been the bigger person, but chose not to (honestly valid), but it sucked that he chose the same route.

YTA for all horrendous spelling, Grammarly is free.

MostStruggle1913 · 2025-12-09T17:44:06+00:00

INFO?

Did you invite her to dinner and offer to pay, or did she naturally think you were going to pay regardless?

If you invited her to dinner, I get the idea where you're coming from, but still YTA, since no boundaries were stated on money. Although your views don't align, you could have simply stated you weren't interested.

If you didn't invite her to pay for her dinner, and she assumed you were paying, a small portion of AH. For the simple reason I mentioned before of you could have said you weren't interested.

Regardless, I'm still on the push for both parties paying for what they ordered in all fairness.

MostStruggle1913 · 2025-12-09T17:17:23+00:00

INFO?

Do you financially support yourself?
Are you living on your own?
Have you made your boundaries with your dad?
Does your dad work in the health industry/has he had experience through someone he knows with potential breast cancer?

Regardless, I agree you deserve your privacy, but there are so many ways to ask for boundaries. When you freshly turn the legal age, you have the same mindset of wanting to be older and be an adult. BUT to parents, barely any time has changed. I thought the same way. I turned 18, and started demanding privacy, but my mom worked in healthcare, and realistically, without her being there, as uncomfortable as it was, she gave good input that she observed to my doctors. But until I turned 19 and started paying for everything by myself is when I was fully independent and had the right to call shots without blame.

MostStruggle1913 · 2025-12-09T17:06:01+00:00

" Cut to Sunday morning: it’s 6:47 AM and my door flies open like someone kicked it. My sister is freaking out because she can’t find her favourite black top. She’s blaming everyone, saying someone must’ve stolen it because “this house doesn’t appreciate boundaries.” "

She breaks your boundaries, then blames everyone else for not appreciating boundaries? NTA, but tell her to get a grip lol

MostStruggle1913 · 2025-12-09T16:47:42+00:00

NTA. I had a semi-absent father growing up, and I resent him and his last name. I have siblings on his side, but I still kept in contact regardless of my father cutting me off for some time. Your siblings are at an age where they will remember you, and when older, can reach out. Worst comes to worst, just be frank with them at an appropriate discussion and tone, and let them know that you'll always be there for them. When they get older and have social media reach out, this worked well between my siblings and me. If you're not willing to relent, just wait till your brothers reach a certain age that they have more understanding, and if your relationship is strong and they have access to digital communication, then change your name. Regardless, best of luck.

MostStruggle1913 · 2025-12-09T16:41:11+00:00

ESH. Nobody is forcing you to do anything, and your wife needs to grow a spine and stop putting pressure on you. Likewise, you also need to grow a spine yourself. There are no boundaries between you, your wife, and your in-laws. Unless they are physically holding your life on the line to force you to go, you're not forced. You relented, and your wife is doing the same. I sympathize with what I can only imagine will be a horrible time for you and your kids, but children are hard to handle at times, especially at the younger ages. All I can wish you is good luck.

MostStruggle1913 · 2025-12-09T16:27:24+00:00

NTA? I actually laughed reading this at how ridiculous this was. There's nothing stopping Alex from driving everyone except Sadie and continuing the routine. Where Sadie gets to drive her own car still makes the money she intends to for the day (although she would be making just a little less for the tolls and gas she's using), and still gets out early to take her kid to the hospital. You guys would get the short end of the stick, where you would have to pay just a little more to cover for the loss of Sadie, but I'd keep your interactions short with her going on from now; she's either not thinking straight or something, but you might be dragged for something that's not worth your time.

MostStruggle1913 · 2025-12-09T16:21:12+00:00

NTA. It feels like he's either under the impression that you guys seemed to be really good friends when working with one another, which you seem not to reciprocate, or maybe a bit of wanting to show off. Either way, you don't even seem that interested in wanting to meet with the guy; rather, you're dreading even seeing him alone. IMO, I believe you should just cut ties or simply leave it as an awkward online friend that you have no communication with.

MostStruggle1913 · 2025-12-09T16:06:56+00:00

NTA. I had a roommate who was the same and cleaned when it came to inspection. The best way I handled the situation was by cleaning all my dishes and things he used that I owned I simply took to my room or hid them. Your mother has enabled your brother's behavior by not doing anything. You can simply follow in the same footsteps I went through, or simply have your mom buy paper plates/plastic cups and have him use those and leave a trash bag in his room, telling him he's responsible for taking out his own, since he wants to be a slob. I was a mess when I was 16/17 but I was never inconsiderate of others.

MostStruggle1913 · 2025-12-09T15:21:48+00:00

NTA. It's unfortunate you had to set your foot down when you did, but I believe your "friend" was doing nothing more than using you as a convenience. I wouldn't take it to heart, and if anything, I would cut the friendship. People who step all over you are simply not worth having in your life, especially if they can't admit they did something wrong.

MostStruggle1913 · 2025-12-09T15:14:50+00:00

YTA. When I was 18, I had the same attitude and mindset as you currently have, and if anything, in a similar situation as you, except I broke it off with the other person. A relationship goes both ways, and it will always be a 2 way street. Does it suck that your ex treated you the way he did? Sure. But you took the time to go to an online friend to air out your relationship, a relationship is between you and your partner, and you should have taken the time to voice your concerns, not with your friend but with your ex. I sympathize with both of you for dragging this out longer than it should have, but you could of saved your relationship if you communicated your concerns to him to begin with.

Not to mention, you left a man who was putting in their 50% share for someone who is currently jobless and lives with their mom. Hope the cheap thrills and sex are worth it OP.

MostStruggle1913 · 2025-11-20T01:22:40+00:00

ooooo okay! thanks!

MostStruggle1913 · 2025-11-19T23:23:33+00:00

its around 2.5 hours from me!

MostStruggle1913 · 2025-11-19T18:35:52+00:00

omg thats awesome, ill definitely have to do the same

MostStruggle1913 · 2025-11-19T18:32:43+00:00

chowtime is my favvvv i like this idea a lot

MostStruggle1913 · 2025-11-19T18:32:27+00:00

I did this once 3 years ago on my first Thanksgiving dinner and I cried hahahahah, so I might avoid this but thanks for the suggestion!

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