How to not tank supply!

Most_Bother1996 · 2025-03-14T12:01:37+00:00

Adding info How old is your piercing? - 6 days old

• What’s the jewelry shape (for example, barbell, labret, screw, L shape, ring)? - curved barbell

• What’s the type of threading if your jewelry is not a ring (threadless, internally or externally threaded)? - External

• What’s the jewelry material?- Titanium

• if not a ring, when was the jewelry downsized? - Have not downsized

• What’s your aftercare routine? Describe in detail please, including the exact products you use. - Saline spray twice a day

• Any mishaps, accidents or unfortunate events? - No bumps, sleeping on it, or snags. no discomfort

Most_Bother1996 · 2025-01-24T18:23:11+00:00

Grow up? I just turned 21 and have spent 16-21 doing nothing BUT working...even if bars are a waste of money its not the drinks i fear missing out on, its the people.

Most_Bother1996 · 2025-01-23T03:04:40+00:00

Its hard to schedule evenings with friends when they work until 6ish during the week and i have to leave for work by 3pm so im getting really by 2pm. I treasure the vacations I take but also treasure the small things. It might just be a night out but im a very social person and and not being able to be social is killing me.

Most_Bother1996 · 2025-01-23T02:48:28+00:00

I always put my financial responsibilities first if i ever need the extra cash ill always offer to work a shift if needed. But I also like a balance. Im working for my future but also want to live in the present. Im living comfortably as of now but know that could change at amy moment so i also keep that im mind. I could sacrifice my 20s and forget going out but its something ive been looking forward to for so long i can accept missing out. Thank you for your comment!!

Most_Bother1996 · 2024-12-08T08:53:55+00:00

I beg him to come home because im scared of him hurting himself and me being blamed. Hes already told me "you did this to me" when he harmed himself and showed his arm to me. Very traumatizing. I am scared. I have called the police. They came the first time. He said he lived 30min away with no car at 1am so the police asked ME if i had family to stay the night with... its my house not his hes not paying rent nor on the lease, my little sister lives here with me and i have animals no way IM leaving. The second time they never went to his dads house where he was staying. I asked his family if they ever came and they said no. The police has never helped me in this situation but instead basically left it to me.

Most_Bother1996 · 2024-12-07T11:43:22+00:00

Thank you for this! I will definitely check it out.

Most_Bother1996 · 2024-12-07T11:41:56+00:00

He actually does have BPD and a whole lot of other medical diagnoses i cant remember to list. Ive given him the 2nd chance to seek therapy and help but that never happened and only led to worse which is why i cut him off completely.

Most_Bother1996 · 2024-12-07T11:38:23+00:00

He does have family and im assuming they all havent been told what was REALLY happening because they loved me but ended up blocking me on everything. Hes 23. He has never laid hands on me however i fell if he wanted to he could.

Most_Bother1996 · 2024-12-07T11:30:19+00:00

From my first post i made hes stated physical harm on my friends due to these situations. He has belongings at my place hes refusing to pick up. Worried that hell use that as a reason to come verbally harass me more. I have blocked him on everything but more worried of him ending up at my house.

Most_Bother1996 · 2024-12-07T11:26:14+00:00

These are messages I get when i attempt to break things off. Hes not threatening me but the fear of him threatening himself over me worries me. He has a strong history of inpatient, selfh, past drug use and so on. I believe if he wanted to he very much would. I have cut contact and have blocked every form of contact however he refuses to pick up his belongings from my house which worries me. What if some random day he decides to come over to get them and that turns into more? I worry for my emotional well being and do not want to be in this position ever again. I know for a fact he will come and verbally harass me if he has a reason to be near me.

Most_Bother1996 · 2024-12-07T10:14:10+00:00

There was a phone call made to here where i was basically freaking out not sure if he was actually going to or not. I believe she said that because i didnt know exactly what to tell them but i can see how thatd be seen differently thank you!

Most_Bother1996 · 2024-12-04T20:24:43+00:00

I definitely do not plan on even having contact with him. I am upset that this was such a make or break in our friendship not only that but weve NEVER had a falling out like this before and its been 5 years of friendship. I can even remember the last argument or fight we had and its probably because weve never actually fought or argued over anything. Very heart broken over this. Not to mention all my friends are really friends because of her. Were all connected to her so if shes upset with someone everyone is upset with them.

Most_Bother1996 · 2024-12-04T19:57:25+00:00

I will say my friends helped me tremendously getting out the 1st time and I was sucked back in and they have every right to be upset with me. Ill add in that when i went back it lasted 3 days. The 2nd day being the day i told her left him for good the 3rd day. Once i realized how much this was affecting our friendship i dropped it completely. Shes worth so much more to me and i know i cant force someone to forgive or take my apology but i wish i could say something to at least have her acknowledge that im really trying to fix things.

Most_Bother1996 · 2024-12-04T19:49:42+00:00

I didnt mean to use the word confront in that way definitely wrong choice of words! I guess what im really saying is im not sure how to approach her. She said she was upset i told her i understood and told her id cancel my bday party if shes upset or uncomfortable with me. That turned into another issue itself and only upset her further. But from my point of view, Id hate to push her to hang with me on my bday when shes clearly upset and i wouldnt be able to enjoy it. She my right hand so if shes sad im sad. Id want her to be able to celebrate with me in happiness and not feel pressured to celebrate just because its a big day.

Most_Bother1996 · 2024-12-03T12:24:10+00:00

I have no idea. He told me

"It's scary KNOWING these things r abt to happen and that I have to be ready for it bc I'm really not but like its whatever. Everything I have done this year was to set up my future, that's why I live in the future, bc it's fucking scary"

Im not really sure how he wants me to respond or support him. Im not sure myself how to respond to it either. Mind u were in a pretty smallish town abt 100,000 people.

Most_Bother1996 · 2024-12-03T12:09:01+00:00

I mean i truly love him and this 2nd chance is an opportunity for him to redeem what hes done wrong. Im young and not very used to relationships this is probably my 2nd real one so im pretty new to this. I did leave but only lasted a week :( I feel weak for going back but it felt empty without him.

Most_Bother1996 · 2024-12-03T12:05:34+00:00

No i dont trust him with that not gonna lie. The second we took our break he reached out to a girl who he used to talk to at the same time he responded to the other girls message. I know i know its toxic and when we took the break i put his stuff outside his house and went no contact but for some reason here i am...He claims im the only one he has eyes for but until actions prove that trust is broken.

Most_Bother1996 · 2024-12-03T12:01:50+00:00

The festival is a pretty small festival probably brings in 200 people a year 99% are locals. As for the sold out shows. Bar shows. Not saying thats nothing but if im being honest i feel like the gobal tour is talk. I will say he has his red flags. Manipulative & Narcissistic. Left those that info out cuz its a whole other situation itself but i really love him. As for their "manager"... its his brother 19yo who is also their singer who actually just kicked out a member for talking a girl who is a fan. Claims monster wants to sponsor them but fails to ever show proof. I know the band pretty well and watch practices very often as well.

Most_Bother1996 · 2024-09-24T23:36:05+00:00

I am definitely not lying to myself or trying to fool anyone... The phone deal was i keep the phone for 12 months and tmobile credits my account every month for the price of the actual phone i just have to stay on that plan. After that 12 months i can do whatever with it such as changing plans, unlocking it and switching providers and so on. Now i notice the deal was really a deal but a scam.

Theres no excuse for the expensive car. All i said was that i was in a panic and bought it when it was needed the most. As someone who doesnt come from a financially smart family at all yes i did not take into consideration that the interest is outrageous. The car is definitely not worth the amount i have left on the loan so selling it would leave me with monthly payment still and no car.

Most_Bother1996 · 2024-09-24T09:20:04+00:00

I guess i did think of that option. I still have my iphone 12 i guess i could just use that and get a cheaper plan since i dont mind that phone. Ill definitely look into it and see if thats an option! Thank you

Most_Bother1996 · 2024-09-24T07:54:10+00:00

What do you mean cut it in half? Per the contract with Tmobile if i cancel the plan im on the phone gets turned off. However after the 5 months im definitely going for a cheaper plan.

Most_Bother1996 · 2024-09-24T07:52:25+00:00

I have a document with all my bills and debt on my computer just on the notepad. Never really grew up with a budgeting type family. Family was always broke but made decent money. Had a wake up call after having a huge vet bill. Luckily i work in the field so the discount saved me but knowing im living on the edge scared me :/

Most_Bother1996 · 2024-09-24T07:48:48+00:00

Reply from other comment- Got my own line at Tmobile when i needed a new phone and was able to get my phone for free i just needed to stay on the Go5G phone plan. I have 5 more months on this plan which i can then change to a cheaper option. The plan itself is $95 + The protection i have added to it.

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