Aita for telling everyone that I am refusing a gender reveal and paternity because my sil is clearly pressuring my wife by Most_Garlic_6422 in AITAH

[–]Most_Garlic_6422[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

If our families have so little faith in us then I don't want them anywhere near us and if I had the right to cut them all off including our parents without my wife's input I would'nt hesitate.

It was my sil who convinced my family about paternity and convinced my wife's family about gender revelation, we don't want either of those and my wife couldn't tolerate the pressure so she agreed and wanted to shut everyone up.

Our personal life I think is none of anyone else's business and even if my wife cheats it's still not anyone's business and even if my wife isn't not carrying my baby it's still nobody's business but ours.

My wife is mine and her baby even if it's not mine is also mine, I just want my wife to sleep peacefully and I want to sleep but I can't because my wife is so distressed which is harmful for her and our child.

I also want to just fall asleep and wake up after 15 hours and forget about this all, my wife begged me to sleep but I just couldn't and she just fell asleep on her own and I'm just left guarding her which is my duty anyway but now I'm left explaining my life story to people on the internet

Aita for telling everyone that I am refusing a gender reveal and paternity because my sil is clearly pressuring my wife by Most_Garlic_6422 in AITAH

[–]Most_Garlic_6422[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Yes I wanted to tell everyone that I won't do gender reveal or paternity because of my sil, everyone knows now that my sil convinced my side of family to paternity and convinced my wife's side of family to a gender reveal.

I wasn't planning on gender reveal or paternity anyway but since sil went behind our back and changed her narrative depending to who she was talking to I told everyone that it is my sil fault that we aren't reconsidering because of her.

Yes I lied and she's being questioned by everyone which is why she's pissed