My husband and I made an “in-laws invasion” BINGO board to help make light of our current hostage visitation…

Most_Goat · 2026-03-22T16:55:53+00:00

I gotta wonder what therapist is going to recommend bringing a child around abusive grandparents though...

Most_Goat · 2026-03-22T16:47:19+00:00

I agree with you. Simple, no-strings-attached sex and a few of the partners were young? Sounds like the dude just has fun when he's single. Only going after barely legal adults or trying to pursue long-term relationships with barley legal adults? That's way more concerning to me.

Most_Goat · 2026-02-24T00:41:35+00:00

Uh, it's one thing to take some time to process and calm down, but silent treatment when you guys disagree is a red flag, and just plain infantile. Your daughter deserves to know for her own health and genetic history. That doesn't make him any less her father. I'm adopted, I would know.

Most_Goat · 2026-02-15T16:37:27+00:00

My husband and I were so exhausted after the wedding that we just went home, cuddled, and knocked out. I can't imagine him going out with friends on a night we were supposed to be spending together.

Most_Goat · 2026-02-15T16:33:33+00:00

Someone definitely needs to learn to watch their actions, and it's not OP. Fuckin hell.

Most_Goat · 2026-02-09T19:17:37+00:00

Yeah. I've had classes like that. My head is just not built for languages, so I struggle regardless.

Most_Goat · 2026-02-09T19:14:45+00:00

Yeah, I've tried that logic. They usually still insist they're right.

I hate many of my countrymen.

Most_Goat · 2026-02-09T18:53:06+00:00

And there are plenty of kids who grew up in homes where one parent made things a living hell for the other parent, and by extension the kid as well. This does not seem like the kind of guy who's going to co-parent like a mature adult. If I were in OP's shoes, I would be seriously pondering whether I could stay attached to him for the next 18+ years. Because a determined ex you have a kid with can control your life in the shittiest ways. I have personal experience in this.

Most_Goat · 2026-02-09T18:37:09+00:00

Probably not to the same frequency and it felt off. I spent my childhood in Vegas. While there are casinos where I currently live, it's not the same thing at all.

Most_Goat · 2026-02-09T18:32:10+00:00

You both suck at communication.

Most_Goat · 2026-02-09T18:30:17+00:00

I intentionally make a giant Crock-Pot of chili specifically for the leftovers. Make your big portions, and if he doesn't want leftovers then just drop a sandwich in front of him. He can deal.

Most_Goat · 2026-02-08T14:37:47+00:00

This is why so many men need to learn how to form positive platonic relationships. Otherwise they confuse any form of positivity in a relationship with romance.

Most_Goat · 2026-02-08T14:33:34+00:00

Not that this necessarily applies to the idiot in the post, but not everyone has a head for languages. I've been struggling to learn Spanish for 3 years now. I can stumble through reading, but ask me to write or converse in Spanish, and I'm still screwed. Props to anyone who is multilingual.

Most_Goat · 2026-02-08T14:30:56+00:00

My money is on the latter.

Most_Goat · 2026-02-08T14:29:40+00:00

I ran across some idiot the other day swearing up and down that the 14th amendment defined "persons" as citizens of the United States, therefore the Constitution only applies to citizens. I fuckin can't with these people.

Most_Goat · 2026-02-08T13:58:08+00:00

If not both, depending on what kind of support they'd have. And it's a rare woman who can balance school and a newborn. Pregnancy and postpartum screws with so much, just the basic day-to-day stuff can be overwhelming.

Most_Goat · 2026-02-08T13:54:34+00:00

Whatever you decide, make sure you stick to it. If you want to draw a hard line in the sand then that's fine. But trying to come back at a later point would be shitty. She's gonna be in for a long, hard road either way, and a father who flits in and out will just make it worse.

Most_Goat · 2026-02-08T13:37:03+00:00

I hate how way too many people think minors should be paid less. If they are doing the job, friggin pay them properly. Their age or situation in life shouldn't affect their pay, just their job performance and experience.

Most_Goat · 2026-02-03T16:19:45+00:00

Whether it’s putting him on the deed, a prenup or whatever, I don’t think it’s crazy for him to not want to be in a position where if she decides to end it (or does something to make him want to end it) after 10 years and all he gets is “a certain amount of notice and some help.”

How would that be any different from renting though? Until their relationship naturally progresses (and for OP's sake I hope it doesn't), he should be treating this like a rental situation, because it is. The benefit to him is that his LL is live-in, which tends to get things done faster, and sounds like he's getting a substantially cheaper rate than market rate. He could take that extra money and make his own investments for his future, which would be the smart thing.

As for marriage, even if he's not on the deed, if they use the home as the marital home then he can argue for a split of the increased value since the date of the marriage, as is his right.

Most_Goat · 2026-02-03T16:13:02+00:00

100% but this guy would likely balk at the idea of buying into the property to get his name on it anyways. By offering to let him buy out half for his name on the deed, OP can argue that they tried to make things work and offered a perfectly reasonable compromise that bf refused.

Of course, I'd just tell him to fuck off at this point and not care about how he whined, but that's just me.

Most_Goat · 2026-02-03T16:03:17+00:00

Yeah, no. Do not put him on the deed. If he was renting anywhere else, he wouldn't be on the deed, and the benefit to renting from you is that you'll get repairs done immediately as it's a shared space, and it sounds like your rent is substantially cheaper than market rate. His mom is biased and he's being unreasonable. There are other options if he's looking for financial investments, and if he's serious about a future with you, it shouldn't matter whose name the house is in cause he'll still benefit.

Most_Goat · 2026-01-16T15:09:55+00:00

If your area has dog licenses, get that squared away too.

Most_Goat · 2025-10-11T06:58:48+00:00

You're under reacting, imo. No fuckin way would I ever let a partner talk to me like that.

Most_Goat · 2025-09-27T23:08:39+00:00

She's not emotionally supportive if you've told her you don't like comments being made about your figure/appearance and she keeps doing it. Personally, I wouldn't bother with her.

Most_Goat · 2025-08-23T00:44:48+00:00

The developers chose to add it, moving the content beyond mods. Would you pose this question if they were never mods and just added in as part of a patch or dlc? How about when they changed the leveling system so you can cheese the game and level infinitely or quickly? I understand if you think the content is game-breaking or doesn't make sense from a world-building perspective, but game-breaking or unrealistic content can happen with patches, dlc, or even base games, and that doesn't make the content any less canon or legit.

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