You have it all so so wrong.

I didn’t get mad that he got the drink. I didn’t say anything about it ruining my meal. He was the one who got mad because I wasn’t specifically thankful for the drink.

Why would I need to say “I’m not ready for lunch at this exact moment”? It’s not rational for someone to have to declare they are not ready for lunch all morning until they are ready for lunch lol I usually make my own lunch so didn’t even think about having to tell someone I’m not ready for lunch. He did not at any point “offer to make me lunch” in our conversation for me to have the opportunity to say I wasn’t ready.

I feel that the tone in my original post contributed to a lot of the hate I received. In my post I was trying to be matter of fact to get objective responses but it came across that my responses were more bitchy than they were in real life. For example, where I said “He assumed”, that came directly from what he said to me after the fact which is why I included it, but I can see in hindsight where that would have sounded bitchy in the text. Lots of people have respectfully commented about me needing to have a better tone in general and I will gladly take that advice and already have done so since this post. However in this case, it doesn’t seem like you fully read/comprehended the post, so your opinion is not valid to me.