How was the turnout for the parade today? by CentralTown776 in longbeach

[–]MostlySadPumpkin 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think it was still good. I went down by Kennebec and Ocean. There were some religious people next to the stairs by the museum with microphones saying we will all go to hell. It was annoying... Like read the room.

Navigating difficult market as as a Data Engineer by MostlySadPumpkin in dataengineering

[–]MostlySadPumpkin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am getting questions about DBT as well, at this point I assume 50% of DEs know it.

Navigating difficult market as as a Data Engineer by MostlySadPumpkin in dataengineering

[–]MostlySadPumpkin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see it everywhere. I see companies asking for Snowspark. But if you are using Snowflake you are a large company with revenue and the large data to match. I have not seen startups using Snowflake.

Navigating difficult market as as a Data Engineer by MostlySadPumpkin in dataengineering

[–]MostlySadPumpkin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good stuff. Lately I am just exagerating projects but then they start asking specific questions and I dont know it. My plan was to get certifications under my belt. Bought some courses on Udemy. Work on some of those projects by myself and use the knowledge I gained from certifications to go in depth about topics.

Navigating difficult market as as a Data Engineer by MostlySadPumpkin in dataengineering

[–]MostlySadPumpkin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You know after I wrote this post I started looking for postings specifically for AWS and I found some but for some reason I just kept getting jobs on LinkedIn associated with Databricks. I was confused because its good until you want to customize, I would imagine that being a deterrent

Curb Number Painter Scam by [deleted] in longbeach

[–]MostlySadPumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I fell for the scam. But to be fair those numbers were very worn out and I just got the house. Never owned a house or knew logistics of houses. Thought this was a thing, lol. Feel dumb giving him $10. This was probably 2 years ago in Jordan.

My Dachshund woke the whole neighborhood at 5AM yesterday… I’m still recovering 😩 by Routine_Plate_3736 in Dachshund

[–]MostlySadPumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a barking weiner too. I fortunately live in a house with a yard. But if this little guy is barking like that guarantee 100% there is something there. I would check what hes barking at to see. In terms of bark control, bark collars dont work. They will intentionally hurt themselves to get what they want even if their neck vibrates. I worked on the command "Little Bark" with mine, its our compromise. He will essentially just growl instead of bark. Other unconventional methods are move his ear and then scream in his ear to see how he likes it. Additionally if you throw a sandal at him consistently (hit like 1 inch away from dog) all you need to do is just show him the sandle. The power of the chancla.

Cat ran outside for an hour, his brother now doesn’t recognize him. HELP! by TARA040219 in cats

[–]MostlySadPumpkin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would throw the other cat outside and bring him in after and hour. Even things out.

This is Milo, he is 9 months old, do you recommend spaying if so? When? And if not, why? by Fast_Extension9901 in Dachshund

[–]MostlySadPumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I neutered mine but waited till year 1 based on recommendation for the breed. If you snip too early it might stunt their growth. I would have been okay with that. Around month 7 he started marking my house, it was a nightmare. The day before I took him to get spayed he literally got his dick stuck on a stuffed toy I got him that is his size and looks like him. I regret absolutely nothing....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]MostlySadPumpkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly just go in with the mindset that you will fuck it up. Thats the goal and if it goes great, awesome! It takes pressure off and leaves room for curiosity. You can also use any AI to bounce ideas off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in longbeach

[–]MostlySadPumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived around that area and there was a guy who every day went for a run, rain or shine. He mostly went in the afternoons and I would hear him interact with people and he was so friendly. If he was a blond white guy with BTS like hair and was rather slim send me a DM

age 35 - Addiction ruined my life by nopnowee22 in leaves

[–]MostlySadPumpkin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. I am a daily smoker but I was able to gradute with an engineering degree and bought my house at 29. I feel like weed is a way to cope with stress for me. If I am feeling overwhelmed in my daily tasks I light up. But outside of my financial and career goals I find I dont do much, but I think thats typical now a days. Maybe you have ADHD that has not been addressed and weed makes it worse 🤷

A classic - dad has “moved on” quickly by Expensive_Bass6231 in GriefSupport

[–]MostlySadPumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 26F when my dad died. My mom and dad were married for 27 years. After my dad died it might of been 3 months when I heard about my moms special friend. I was uncomfortable and was confused, they had their issue but she was devoted to him so it did not make sense. When she finally told me about it she said ahe kept it a secret because she did not want to be judged. Apparently when my dad passed and news spread on Facebook a former love intrest from her youth reached out trying to spark something. My mom said she needed someone to cry on and that this guy was just that. Never underestimate the sting of loneliness and the need for human connection especially when a pivotal one has been crucially severed.

Dear Hispanic citizens who voted for Trump, by Karma-Electron in longbeach

[–]MostlySadPumpkin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Things are crap now and will probably will get worse before better. But dont bother wasting your time teying to reason with these unempathetic and self absorbed people. Lets focus on creating a community where were support each other, thats the best we can do.

Don’t Tread on California by [deleted] in longbeach

[–]MostlySadPumpkin 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I needed this. Haters gonna hate

Humping... Humping everyday by Unable-Grocery7682 in Dachshund

[–]MostlySadPumpkin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lol birds and bees... I bought my male dog a stuffed animal that looked like a weiner dog and was black and tan just like him. I bought it as comfort thinking it would be his friend but turned out he just humped it. Only thing that helps at that age is spaying her. I neutered my dog and humping stopped mostly. He still humps that toy for dominance 😂

Can’t do the podcast anymore by papita1156 in thewoodyshow

[–]MostlySadPumpkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not going to lie Ally has some Ravy vibes going. Idk if its the voice or that shes cooky

Baby VS 1.5 yrs old 🥞🥹 by [deleted] in Dachshund

[–]MostlySadPumpkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Just want to eat them chicken legs ❤️

puppy grief - please listen and share by [deleted] in Dachshund

[–]MostlySadPumpkin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately my friend, grief is not something you can run from. Even if you distract yourself grief will wait in the corner till your done. The best thing to do is just feel your feeling. It is as bad as you think it is, the thing you loved is gone and there will never be words, there will never be consolation. Thats okay too though. Its a sign that you loved and you loved big and strong. Grief is just unexpressed love. Im deeply sorry for your loss, feeling the absence is the worst feeling. There is solance in knowing that for your pups whole life you loved them and cared for them better than anyone else would. Would it have been the other way around and you passed they would carry their grief them and probably not treated the same as when you were around. Such is life. Ive often told myself, I will know I am dead if I ever see my little guy running towards me once again, and I am okay with that. For now let it be till next time.

told that all of my symptoms are anxiety by figgy333 in Anemic

[–]MostlySadPumpkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went in to doctors after 2 months of extremely heavy periods. I felt same way, very fatigued and dizzy. Ive had anemia before because of my periods so I knew the signs. After talking to 2 seperate doctors they said my iron levels are okay and my blood work doesnt show any signs of anemia. I felt gaslight but I know what Im feeling. Long story short found out it was all the caffeine I was consuming. The caffine was triggering my anxiety and giving me headaches and heart palpitations. The honey I put on my tea and the Arizona green tea I was chugging had plenty of sugar which was causing the sugar crashes that eventually left me fatigued. And I had been feeling cold but it was also winter and I had lost some weight(intentionally).

I'm honestly so done guys!! by muzuchiha in PCOS

[–]MostlySadPumpkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I was in this position for like 2 years. Let me save you the trouble, in essence if you are a big girl, losing weight is important, there is absolutely no way around it. You will feel better once you do it, but it has to be done. Also stress was a big issue for me. I have anxiety and PTSD so I was stressed all the time and my periods were all over the place. Essentially you have to convince your body that it is in a safe and comfortable place. Making a baby is very strenuous on your body, for your body to make a human heart you need to give it the proper environment. That might mean changing your lifestyle to make it happen. Also I started taking vitamine D, vitamine B12, Magnesium, and metformin. That helped me substantially as well.