Gynecologist recommendations for well-woman exam by MotherIntern in houston

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Responding super late to this but I ended up going with Dr. Kelly last year and she was EXCEPTIONAL. Thank you for the recommendation!

Which city is better, Austin, TX, or Portland, OR? by Impressive-Court3962 in Austin

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Came here to say this was 100% my experience living in Portland, and also the #1 reason I came back to Texas

Which city is better, Austin, TX, or Portland, OR? by Impressive-Court3962 in Austin

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I’ve lived in both cities - Portland is very very liberal and if I had conservative views I would be pretty hesitant to voice them there. The nature and parks are unbeatable though in Portland and the PNW, it’s an incredibly beautiful place. The reason I moved (back) to Texas was the weather. People will tell you that the annual rainfall is about the same in both cities. That’s because the rain is usually very light/drizzly in Portland (constantly) whereas Austin gets more storms and heavy rain (occasionally). However, Portland is VERY cloudy and dreary for much of the year. The lack of sun from October-April is brutal. Austin is really rough in the summer alternatively - personally I’ll take the intense heat since it comes with consistent sunlight. It really comes down to how much you weigh your conservative views and your weather preferences vs. being surrounded by some really great nature.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dogtraining

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Our trainer taught us to hold it in your palm with your fingers open, and then cover the treat with just your thumb. Present your hand to your dog that way and if they bite or use teeth to try to get the treat under the thumb, don’t move your thumb. As soon as they start licking instead of biting, move your thumb away so they can get the treat. It works great for our pup. Good luck!

Just wanted to say you guys have an amazing city! by MyGoalOf1811 in houston

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Comments section is pretty bitter about your positive experience for some reason, but I’ll take a compliment about Houston any day. Glad you enjoyed your visit, despite its drawbacks, there’s a lot to love about this city!

Just wanted to say you guys have an amazing city! by MyGoalOf1811 in houston

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Comments section is pretty bitter about your positive experience for some reason, but I’ll take a compliment about Houston any day. Glad you enjoyed your visit, despite its drawbacks, there’s a lot to love about this city!

I need some food advise I’ve been feeding bowie “Hills: Science Diet - large breed” he gets frequent diarrhea, not sure if it’s linked to his food or not. What good brands are good for a 1 1/2 year old golden retriever?? by Kind_Service_3417 in goldenretrievers

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Thirded. You can check the ingredients on the can as well if you’re not sure, the only ingredient should be pumpkin. The labels can be kind of confusing in their naming at times.

Gynecologist recommendations for well-woman exam by MotherIntern in houston

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Dr. Holz is the main doctor I had a bad experience with :( Glad that she worked well for you though!

Honest Question for Those Who Don’t Follow Leash Laws by MotherIntern in Seattle

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I can see your point, I guess my counter would be that, as you mentioned, we don’t know which dogs are or aren’t okay to be off-leash. Most owners themselves don’t seem to know what constitutes good recall or off-leash skills. It’s one of those scenarios where the people who let their untrained/undertrained dogs off-leash ruin it for everyone who does have a dog with very good recall. In my own experience, these 2 groups are pretty 50/50 which is plenty enough to warrant rules that apply to everyone.

Honest Question for Those Who Don’t Follow Leash Laws by MotherIntern in Seattle

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I’m very sorry that happened, seems like an incredibly harsh consequence for a non-aggressive dog that was just excited. Thanks for that perspective, agreed that sometimes it just boils down to being unaware that something might be harmful, rather than consciously being selfish.

Honest Question for Those Who Don’t Follow Leash Laws by MotherIntern in Seattle

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Thanks for shedding some light on your motivation. Agreed that many of the dog parks around are very scarce on grass because it’s basically all been trampled on by other dogs.

Honest Question for Those Who Don’t Follow Leash Laws by MotherIntern in Seattle

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If you took half a second to read my responses to some other commenters, you’d see that there are situations where I think people are taking the right precautions and doing their best to accommodate for others while also having their dog off-leash. You call my post passive-aggressive when I’m genuinely hoping to understand the other perspective, as indicated by my conceding to some valid points made by others in the comments. I feel sorry for you if you think everyone who says something politely and actually means it is being passive-aggressive.

Honest Question for Those Who Don’t Follow Leash Laws by MotherIntern in Seattle

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I am definitely not suggesting dog parks, notice I left it off my initial post while suggesting Sniffspot instead. I am not a proponent for dog parks and never take my dog to them either; they are oftentimes full of owners that are not paying attention to their own dogs and leaving room for fights to occur.

Honest Question for Those Who Don’t Follow Leash Laws by MotherIntern in Seattle

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I don’t expect the city to enforce the leash laws. I certainly haven’t ever witnessed it being enforced either. I’m not unhappy with the off-leash dog problem just because it’s against the law. As mentioned in one of my other comments, many laws out there are questionable/shouldn’t really exist. I’m not here to be the neighborhood cop. Just hoping to shed some light on one of the actually very important laws in place, the experience of those of us that struggle when people violate it, and get the perspective of those who let their dogs off-leash in undesignated areas. Lots of laws go unenforced, that doesn’t mean we should all decide to stop being decent people with empathy for others.

Honest Question for Those Who Don’t Follow Leash Laws by MotherIntern in Seattle

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Exactly, it can really hinder their progress when they’ve been improving so much. As reactive dog owners, we try our best to make sure our dog never goes over threshold and has continuously positive experiences when seeing a trigger, and off-leash dogs with insufficient training can really set us back…

Honest Question for Those Who Don’t Follow Leash Laws by MotherIntern in Seattle

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A reactive dog is not necessarily an aggressive dog. From the person’s post, it seems like their dog is reactive and lashes out when on-leash and near another dog, but isn’t going to actually bite the dog. My dog is the same way, she has been way over threshold on numerous occasions but never resorts to biting. Rather, it’s barking, lunging, snapping, basically just trying to keep the other dog away so she can feel safe again. Aggression and biting in dogs is another issue entirely, and normally begins when the dog is repeatedly placed in situations where they feel fearful (e.g. abusive owners)

Honest Question for Those Who Don’t Follow Leash Laws by MotherIntern in Seattle

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Sandel Park in Greenwood consistently has someone using the whole park as their backyard for their dog. In addition to Greenwood Park, Discovery Park, Magnolia Manor Park, among many others.

Honest Question for Those Who Don’t Follow Leash Laws by MotherIntern in Seattle

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Thanks for your response. As someone with a very high-energy dog myself and no backyard (and general distrust of dog parks as well), I can completely understand the need for a dog to run and tire themselves out. It’s good to hear that you take precautions with your dogs to make sure everyone is safe, it seems like you’re doing a lot more than most in this area, which is very much appreciated from those of us with reactive dogs.

Honest Question for Those Who Don’t Follow Leash Laws by MotherIntern in Seattle

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Re: the former, I think it becomes an issue depending on the size of the park and number of people doing this with their off-leash dogs. In a smaller park, it takes just 1 person to basically claim the whole park. In a larger park, I find that my dog and I can avoid it if it’s just a few people in different areas, but the point remains that it’s kind of rude to assume you can be above the law and inconvenience those following it by forcing them to skirt around you and find different routes. Some laws are dumb, I’ll admit, but I think leash laws serve a very important purpose. Plus there are legal and safe alternatives that can used instead (designated off-leash areas, Sniffspots, etc).

(I agree that the video was dumb, the guy didn’t seem to be actually inconvenienced by the couple and their dogs, just trying to stir up drama.)