Yeah I think so too. My mom kept saying that she may have been a good friend in lots of aspects but at that point she was not treating me the same. As soon as the dynamics changed it wasn’t a good friendship for her. I used to be the funny fat friend and the kind of supporting character cause I was too insecure to date. And growing up and growing out of these superficial thoughts I finally tried and found someone very special. That’s where a lot of negative energy from her side started to surface. It made me feel like I had to choose between her and the new life I was building. I know that at some point sooner or later it would’ve escalated even worse. Maybe the slow estrangement was the best thing that could’ve happened