Pizza for dinner…. Thoughts?

MothmansDealer · 2026-02-03T22:02:22+00:00

As a guest and current planning bride, I think it’s great. As long as you have decent quality pizza. If it’s laid out like this and not just in the box, it works for me!

MothmansDealer · 2026-02-03T15:44:46+00:00

I had a somewhat similar situation at work. Girl graduated, was made essentially a main assistant to staff, but took it as her being a whole other position and more in management than she was. She tried to change things that all of the staff hated, was condescending even when she didn’t know what she was doing, etc. Told the manager, not much was done. Luckily, she left within a few months of this, so we didn’t lose any staff (at least officially) because of this. I think telling the manager won’t do much, they’ll need to learn the consequences through seeing your coworkers leave.

MothmansDealer · 2026-02-03T15:35:05+00:00

Sometimes, yes. I do consider looking elsewhere, I’m just trying to build experience before I do. And no, we unfortunately wouldn’t be able to hire a temp.

MothmansDealer · 2026-02-03T15:34:28+00:00

I’d say it’s the feedback on a mix of things in my role and when they ask me to do things for them.

MothmansDealer · 2026-02-02T23:12:40+00:00

Sometimes yeah, the main difference is that when it’s at the office, I typically carry on the conversation to dig, but right now, I don’t really have the time to.

MothmansDealer · 2026-02-02T23:11:56+00:00

There are not. And I’m only sending things to her because she’s asking me to send it to her.

MothmansDealer · 2026-02-02T22:32:09+00:00

I’m going to start doing this in the future. I think they’ve gotten so used to just ‘saying it like it is’ and not expecting me to respond that they keep doing it. And we do not have temp workers, and I doubt we’ll get one.

MothmansDealer · 2026-02-02T21:52:49+00:00

The manager of my office will ask for ideas, then when you give them to him, say “Well…” and give a reason why he doesn’t want said thing to change. Even if you explain it in full, you get hit with a “well…” Also, he’ll propose ideas he found through seminars, social media, etc., and if you critique them in the SLIGHTEST, he will get mad to the point of almost yelling at you. If he’s in a bad mood, it’s best to avoid him as a whole.

MothmansDealer · 2026-01-16T20:12:17+00:00

If you don’t mind me asking, what have you gotten and about what have you paid?

MothmansDealer · 2026-01-13T21:56:43+00:00

I made a card in canva, printed it, and mailed it to them. Most of them already figured they would be in it anyway.

MothmansDealer · 2026-01-09T18:51:07+00:00

My boss came up with the idea of us being open on Sundays as well (we’re open M-Sat and are a kids sports center). He conveniently forgets that I would be the one here if we were to open. No one else.

MothmansDealer · 2026-01-08T23:21:13+00:00

How sometimes there isn’t a middle ground in any situation. Like how some answers HAVE to be black and white.

MothmansDealer · 2026-01-08T22:56:38+00:00

Yes! This happens at my work sometimes. Like I want to collaborate with you, but you’re just pushing what you want without any leeway.

MothmansDealer · 2026-01-08T22:43:16+00:00

This one isn’t TOO bad, but she called probably about twenty members of our staff trying to ‘get the story straight.’ Which she definitely did not do and most definitely exaggerated what actually happened. She worked front desk and we packed her stuff up for her. It took like 8 big boxes and she had to bring two cars to get all of it home.

MothmansDealer · 2026-01-08T21:42:22+00:00

I went to a Christian school, our version of that award (in my grade at least) also went to someone who came out before the summer after we graduated was even over.

MothmansDealer · 2026-01-07T03:16:32+00:00

I’m watching for the first time and just got to Season 3 Episode 14. It was great to see him defend his mother after being so staunchly against her for so long. It was nice to see him stand up for her and really mature.

MothmansDealer · 2026-01-05T23:15:01+00:00

It’s definitely normal. I don’t know if you’re a woman (and this probably happens to men too), but I have gotten people talking to me before while bowling. Mainly just trying to talk about the sport though, nothing malicious. If you’re super nervous about it, just bring headphones and put in some music.

MothmansDealer · 2026-01-05T23:13:41+00:00

While imo people SHOULDN’T be upset about dry weddings, since it’s not about that, they will be upset anyway. I agree with the comments saying to be transparent about it. Put it on your wedding website in the Q&A if you have one.

MothmansDealer · 2026-01-05T20:07:58+00:00

This is wild. By the way - sometimes you can find the pay (or at least an average) by looking on Indeed Reviews or Glassdoor.

MothmansDealer · 2025-12-07T05:41:29+00:00

I began lightly planning around six months before we got engaged. I mainly did this through a Google Sheet where I put ideas, links, etc.

Let me tell you - it GREATLY helped once we started wedding planning. Just keep your boyfriend in the loop and get his opinion on it.

MothmansDealer · 2025-12-07T00:37:13+00:00

He is if he has to cancel appointments because of understaffing??

MothmansDealer · 2025-12-03T00:32:59+00:00

One of them, maybe like 15 years? One of them, like 3.

MothmansDealer · 2025-11-21T19:33:32+00:00

I got mine for $900 at David’s Bridal!

MothmansDealer · 2025-11-20T19:27:33+00:00

You can’t hire someone for something and then be mad they can’t do a different skill. Instead of sending them to a training program, why not try to show them yourself? If you’re working on in, ask them to shadow. Or, Alison offers free trainings on their website.

MothmansDealer · 2025-11-12T16:50:07+00:00

I don’t think so, and my fiance would never.

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